Chronological Study (009/365)

Genesis 25:27 – 28:9


DESPISED BIRTHRIGHT
(Genesis 25:27-34)

Genesis 25:27-28 begins by informing us that when the twins grew up, Esau became an outdoorsman and skillful hunter whereas Jacob became a mild person of quiet temperament who preferred to stay inside the comfort of his tent. Isaac loved and favored Esau because he enjoyed eating the wild game Esau brought home; however, Rebekah loved and favored Jacob. And so this information immediately sets the stage for conflict due to a divided house out from favoritism.

As a side note, it is written that Isaac favored Esau due to him being an outdoorsman and hunter. It is also written that Ishmael was an archer who was accustomed to living life in the wilderness (21:20). Therefore, Isaac’s admiration for outdoorsmen might also be another reason why Isaac and Ishmael managed to work together to bury Abraham (25:9).

Returning to the twins, 25:29-30 informs us that at some point on some day, Esau returned from an apparent unsuccessful hunt. Exhausted and hungry, he begged Jacob for the red stew he made. This emphasis on the stew being red becomes the reason for Esau’s other name, Edom, which means “red”; however, it is also most likely the reason why Esau was described as “red” when he was born (25:25). The word “red” used to describe Esau at birth is the Hebrew אַדְמֹנִי [H132] ‘aḏmōnî (ad-mo-nee’). The word “red” used to describe Jacob’s stew is אָדֹם [H122] ‘āḏōm (aw-dome’). The nickname “Edom” is אֱדֹם [H123] ‘ĕḏōm (eh-dome’). And all three of these words come from the root word אָדַם [H119] ‘āḏam (aw-dam’), which means to be or appear red. And if you remember, the name “Adam” derives from that word as well and is the word אָדָם [H120] ‘āḏām (aw-dahm’). But what does Adam have to do with the color red? Well, blood is red, and as we already saw in 9:4, the Lord told Noah and his family that blood is equated with life and so they were not to consume the blood. In fact, later in Leviticus 17:11,14 and Deuteronomy 12:23, the Israelites will be told and reminded not to consume blood because the blood is life. Further, if you remember, after Cain murdered Abel, in Genesis 4:10, GOD said to Cain, “The voice of your brother’s blood is crying to Me from the ground.” Therefore, blood is life, blood is red, Adam (man) describes the red life within the body, and Esau’s nickname, Edom, is a play on words, which means red. Why? Well, it is written in 25:31-34 that after Esau begged for the red stew, Jacob, seeing a rare opportunity to take advantage of his brother, told Esau he could have the red stew only if he sold/transferred his birthright to him in a trade. Esau, claiming to be famished to the point of being near death, swore an oath to Jacob, ate a good meal, and then went on his way. And thus “Esau despised his birthright.”

But what exactly is a birthright? The birthright consists of the material blessings of a father being passed on to his sons. By right, the oldest son received a double portion of the inheritance received by the children (Deuteronomy 21:15-17; Luke 15:11-32). This birthright is often connected to, but needs to be distinguished from, ‘the blessing’. The blessing generally involved more of a focus on a spiritual allotment, but it crossed paths with the birthright with respect to future leadership and authority of the person (Genesis 27; 49). Royal succession was also a birthright, though GOD could countermand this privilege (2Chronicles 21:3; 1Samuel 23:17; 1Kings 2:15).

In Genesis 25:29–34, Esau willingly sold/transferred his birthright to Jacob, which, as we will soon see, forfeits his blessing (Genesis 27). Esau made an impulsive decision to give Jacob his birthright (a double portion of the family inheritance and position of future family leader) for some red stew—even though his birthright was never his to give away. By trading his birthright for some stew, Esau displayed contempt for the blessing GOD had given to him. What Esau despised is they very thing Jacob desired because he recognized its value. Esau did not grasp the significance of all that GOD had promised to fulfill through the unique line descended from Abraham, of which he was the natural heir as the firstborn. Esau did not appreciate that his birthright was linked to GOD’s plan of redemption for the whole world. So, Jacob grasped at his heel.

Consequently, Esau traded a long-term benefit/blessing for short-term pleasure, and it negatively affected his life. Although he will later swear at Jacob (27:41), here in this story he is content to swear to Jacob. Now, it’s easy for people to read Esau’s story, to look down on him, and believe themselves to be better than Esau, but is this situation really so uncommon? It would be wise to take the Lord’s advice for us to first examine ourselves before we make a quick judgment about Esau (Matthew 7:1–5; Luke 6:37–42). Have you ever traded a long-term blessing for short-term pleasure? Have you ever indulged in sexual relations prior to marriage in order to appease a short-term appetite in your pursuit of pleasure? If so, you traded a long-term benefit/blessing (keeping your virginity and purity sacred and holy for your partner in marriage) for a short-lived thrill. Have you ever spoken terrible words in the heat of the moment to satisfy your pride, only for those words to cause lasting damage to the relationship and for you to live in regret of those words later on? Have you ever given in to your desire for destructive drugs? Even if you haven’t yet experienced the long-term consequences of your decision to secure short-term satisfaction, you most assuredly will sooner or later. Many people have lived out the “Esau syndrome.” We can avoid making this mistake by comparing short-term satisfaction with its long-range consequences prior to making a decision and putting that decision into action. Our desires can demand our attention so much that we often magnify them in our field of focus. I call this the “Aperture Appetite.”

In photography, four main factors will determine if the background is blurry, leaving the focus solely on the foreground:

  1. Aperture: A wide aperture equals a narrow or shallow depth of focus.
  2. The distance from subject to background: The greater the distance between the subject and the background, the blurrier the background will be.
  3. The distance between the lens and the subject: The closer the lens is to the subject, the blurrier the background will be.
  4. The optical length of your lens (but all humans have the same “lens”).

So, putting everything together, if a person’s focus on a specific item or person is shallow and narrow, the details of the surrounding scenario will be difficult to ascertain. The distance from the subject to the background will always be great because the distance between a person’s life here on Earth is a great distance away from the new life in eternity. If a person is literally too close to a subject, the surroundings will not be in the frame and will thus be unknown. Esau’s focus narrowed to the shallowness of the surface situation, and he did not consider the surrounding scenario. The distance between Esau’s future and his present situation was great. Not taking that great distance into account, he made the mistake of allowing his lens to get too close to the subject. Because Esau was too close to the temptation and allowed himself to have a narrow focus on that temptation, the background of eternal consequences became blurred. The unfortunate part about a blurred background is that deception blends in with the rest of the blurred details. Therefore, Jacob’s deceitfulness went undetected because Esau’s desire dominated over his discernment. This is the Aperture Appetite.

But what about you? Is your temptation in your frame at all? If it is, do you start to make it the point of focus? Do you draw closer to your temptation while keeping your focus on it? Imagine this example of an Aperture Appetite in action: Within a man’s frame, there exists multiple items and people in a particular place. In this frame, an attractive female with flirtatious facial features exists. The man narrows his focus onto the specific depth of field for the female’s features. The man then draws closer and closer to the female until the man’s frame consists of only the female in focus and everything else is just a blurred background. Unfortunately for the man, in that blurred background is that female’s innocent yet ignorant husband. The female might be married, but because her husband isn’t in the man’s field of focus, that husband’s feelings and future will not be considered to be important. In fact, what I just described is what we will later see in 2Samuel 11 when David’s focus on Bathsheba leaves her husband, Uriah, in the blurred background to be buried. Acts of adultery are examples of the Aperture Appetite in action. Consider this: also, in the blurred background, let’s say there was a homeless woman sitting on the curb, hungry and cold. But because that woman was in the blurred background, her feelings and future will not be considered to be important either.

Sometimes it’s good to narrow our focus in order to examine something or someone closely; however, we should be able to see the bigger picture most of the time. In fact, both are necessary for Bible study. So, while it’s important for us to obtain precise focus on a particular word, verse, passage, or story, we also need the ability to zoom out to see how each word, verse, passage, or story fits into the entire salvation story. Ultimately, we need to set our sights on the Lord and keep our focus on heavenly things rather than the ways of this world (Matthew 5:27–29; 16:26; John 17:14; 18:36; Philippians 3:8–11,20; Colossians 3:2; Titus 3:7; Hebrews 13:14; 1Peter 5:10). And so for this particular story of Esau despising his birthright, the details help us to realize the bigger picture of how and why Jacob will take center stage in the genealogical line from Abraham so that we will eventually see how this will lead to Jesus.

  • What are you willing to trade for the thing or person you desire? Will it truly be worth the trade?
  • Do you ever find yourself willing to negotiate anything for immediate pleasure?
  • Does your spouse, children, integrity, body, or soul get included in these damning deals?
  • Do you sometimes feel that the important parts of life escaped while you were grabbing for your desire(s)?
  • Who or what is in your frame? Where is your focus?
  • How many important things or people might be in your blurred background that need to come into focus?
  • How many things or people are in focus that actually belong in your blurred background?

WELL, WELL, WELL…
(Genesis 26)

Genesis 26:1-2 says “Now there was a famine in the land, besides the previous famine that had occurred in the days of Abraham. So Isaac went to Gerar, to Abimelech king of the Philistines. The Lord appeared to him and said, ‘Do not go down to Egypt; stay in the land of which I shall tell you.’ ”

A famine in the land? What land? Well, 25:11 says “Isaac lived by Beer-lahai-roi.” So, this chapter begins by referring us back to the famine Abraham experienced in 12:10, which had forced him to go down to Egypt. Yet with the famine in this story, The Lord instructs Isaac not to go to Egypt but to stay in the land which He tells him (Gerar). That is the same command GOD gave Abraham in 12:1 when he was first called, except Abraham was told to “go” whereas Isaac was told to “stay”. And in 26:3-5, the Lord says that if Isaac stays in the land, He will bless him, repeating the blessings Abraham heard in 12:2-3. Since Isaac had been present when GOD had again declared that oath (22:15-18), he would easily recall that occasion. And after GOD emphasized faithful obedience (26:5), it is written in 26:6 that Isaac acted in faithful obedience and stayed in Gerar. So, yet again, GOD’s chosen vessel meets up with king Abimelech.

In 26:7-11, copying his father’s mistakes from 12:11-20 and 20:1-13, Isaac lies about Rebekah, telling the men of the land that she is his sister. Whereas Abimelech tried to take Sarah to be his wife, he does not try to take Rebekah to be his wife, indicating that he is most likely too old at this point in the story. Instead, it is written that “the men of the place” are the ones interested in Rebekah. Eventually, Abimelech confronts Isaac about his lie and he then confesses. Isaac explains how he was afraid for his own life whereas Abimelech explains his care and concern for all people not to fall into sin. Therefore, it is evident that Abimelech is still a man of GOD just as he proved to be while interacting with Abraham and Sarah (20:3-4,11,14-16). In fact, in 26:11, Abimelech issues a public proclamation that anyone who touches Isaac or his wife will be put to death.

Eventually, 26:12-14 informs us that the Lord, fulfilling His promise from 26:3, blesses Isaac so much that he became wealthy. However, because he became wealthy, the Philistines envied him and then filled up all of his wells with dirt (26:14-15). The same thing happened to Abraham until he made a covenant with Abimelech; and the place at which they made their covenant was called Beersheba (21:25-31). And so a picture is already being painted to show how the Philistines are becoming a wicked people. But all of this also showcases the reasons why GOD raised Abimelech up to be king – others, including Abraham and Isaac, were blessed by his leadership over the land at that time. If not for Abimelech having the fear of the Lord, it is likely the Philistines would have murdered both Isaac and Abraham. So, GOD strategically positioned Abimelech to shield Abraham and Isaac from death as if a chess player had strategically positioned any one of his/her pieces as a shield for the king. And if you think about it, because the King of kings (Jesus) comes from the line of Abraham and Isaac, the King had literally been strategically shielded from Satan and all demons.

However, because the Philistines were so envious and wicked, Abimelech said to Isaac in 26:16, “Go away from us, for you are too powerful for us.” And so in 26:17, “Isaac departed from there and camped in the valley of Gerar, and settled there.” In 26:18-22, Isaac reopened his father’s wells of water, which the Philistines filled in after Abraham’s death, and gave them the same names which his father had given them. However, when Isaac’s servants dug in the valley and found flowing water, nearby herdsmen argued over that location, and so he moved on from there. Then they dug another well, but herdsmen argued over that location as well, and so he moved on again. On his third attempt at digging a well, no one argued with him over that location; “so he named it Rehoboth, for he said, ‘At last the Lord has made room for us, and we will be fruitful in the land’ ” [for “Rehoboth” means “open space” or “room”].

Thus, the Lord told Isaac to stay in the land, knowing that Abimelech would issue a public proclamation for his protection, so that Isaac could become wealthy. However, when it was time for the Lord to guide Isaac away from there, the Lord used wicked people to steer Isaac in the direction He desired him to go. And so Isaac might have felt as if things weren’t going right for him due to his plight, but GOD permitted that persecution as part of His divine guidance. But if the Lord was guiding Isaac, where was He guiding him to go? Well 26:23 says Isaac then left there and went to Beersheba. But what is the significance of that place? Well, in 21:31-33, Abraham and Abimelech had made a covenant with each other and then that location was called Beersheba. And 22:19 informs us that Beersheba is where Abraham lived and returned to after passing his test of faith with Isaac. And now Isaac once again finds himself in Beersheba, almost to signify that he had passed yet another test and returned to that place. While there, 26:24-25 says, “24 The Lord appeared to him the same night and said, ‘I am the God of your father Abraham; Do not fear, for I am with you. I will bless you, and multiply your descendants, For the sake of My servant Abraham.’ 25 So he built an altar there and called upon the name of the Lord, and pitched his tent there; and there Isaac’s servants dug a well.”

This location is where it all began for Isaac, and now he is at this location once again, and with the same GOD as before. The fact that Isaac built an altar and called upon the name of the Lord is significant because that is what his father had done as well (12:7-8; 13:18; 21:33). Therefore, the Lord orchestrated everything so that Isaac would realize that the Lord is with him just as He was with his father, and that the promise regarding countless descendants would continue through Isaac and Rebekah.

In 26:26-27, after an unknown amount of time had passed, Abimelech came to Isaac from Gerar with his adviser and commander of his army, and “27 Isaac said to them, ‘Why have you come to me, since you hate me and have sent me away from you?’ ”

If you remember, Isaac’s father, Abraham, had also assumed the worst about Abimelech in 20:11 when he told him he thought they were all godless. Yet in 21:22-23, Abimelech said to Abraham, “God is with you in all that you do”, and then asked Abraham to make a covenant of peace with them. So, what is Abimelech’s response to Isaac? In 26:28, he says, “We see plainly that the Lord has been with you”, and then he asks Isaac to make a covenant of peace with them, concluding in 26:29 saying, “You are now the blessed of the Lord.” Therefore, the entirety of chapter 26 showcases Isaac not only following in his father’s footsteps, but also filling his shoes just as Rebekah filled the tent of Sarah (24:67).

Noteworthy is the fact that in 21:22, Abimelech stated that “God” was with Abraham, using the Hebrew אֱלֹהִים [H430] ‘ĕlōhîm (el-o-heem’); however, in 26:28-29, Abimelech now uses GOD’s name, יְהֹוָה [H3068] YHWH. Therefore, I believe it is reasonable to infer that between the timeframe of Abraham and Isaac, Abimelech came to know the one true GOD. Over time, Abimelech matured from believing in a god to believing in the one and only true GOD.

It is written in 26:32-33, “32 Now it came about on the same day, that Isaac’s servants came in and told him about the well which they had dug, and said to him, ‘We have found water.’ 33 So he called it Shibah; therefore the name of the city is Beersheba to this day.”

And as a cliffhanger, 26:34-35 ends with, “34 When Esau was forty years old he married Judith the daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and Basemath the daughter of Elon the Hittite; 35 and they brought grief to Isaac and Rebekah.”

Esau not only married Hittite women, but he took for himself two wives, falling into the same sin that the wicked Lamech had fallen into (4:19). If you remember, Abraham had instructed his trusted servant, Eliezer, that it was important that his son Isaac not marry a Canaanite woman (24:3). And if you remember, Hittites are descendants from Canaan (10:15) and so are technically Canaanites. Isaac himself knows that Esau’s marriages were not good (28:1), and yet Esau made two poor decisions in the form of Hittite women.

In conclusion, Esau, by his own free will, disqualified himself from being the rightful successor of Isaac’s blessing because he chose to not only despise his birthright (25:34), but he also chose to disregard GOD’s design for marriage and to disregard the specific lineage from which GOD promised the blessing would come. Therefore, the stage is now set for Jacob to grasp at Esau’s heel (25:26).

  • Apparently, neither Abraham nor Sarah taught Isaac the lesson about lying that they learned from their own experiences. And because they seemingly never talked about it, Isaac made the same mistake. Parents need to confess their mistakes to their children as they mature so that their children will not repeat their mistakes. If you have an opportunity to help your child(ren) learn from your mistakes, it would be loving of you to teach those lessons. What kind of example are you setting for your children? Children know that parents aren’t perfect. Therefore, you might as well swallow your pride, share your mistakes, tell them how to avoid your failures, and then set your children up for success. Or would you rather remain prideful simply because you don’t want them to view you as someone who makes mistakes even though they already know you do? So, are you willing to confess your mistakes to your children so that you can save them from making the same mistakes?
  • The Philistines filled up Isaac’s wells with dirt! In those ancient days, wells were sources of life! That was a declaration of war! The enemy essentially told Isaac, “I’m not interested in your life and I don’t care if you die!” But what about you? Are there people in your life who want to cover your life with the dirt of death? Figuratively, is anyone in your life throwing dirt in your well? This act of wicked warfare happened after Isaac received blessings from the Lord. Understand this: the blessings of GOD will attract the attention of the Adversary. If you find yourself under attack, it’s probably because the enemy sees GOD’s love for you and realizes your potential. So, in your plight, are you still grateful for GOD’s divine guidance? Do you remain faithfully obedient to the Lord even while the enemy comes against you? Do you remain thankful that the Savior is still steering you to safety in your salvation story? And knowing that the difficult times are for our sanctification, do you still trust in the Lord and praise Him for all the good He is doing behind the scenes that you don’t even know about?
  • Abimelech told Isaac to leave because the Philistines became too envious of Isaac and Abimelech didn’t want trouble because of him. He told Isaac that he was too big for their small-minded situation. When GOD works in your life and you become anointed for greater things, you will become too big to stay where you are currently at in your present scenario. You will no longer wear size ‘small.’ When you grow, you need something larger to fit in. In the 2003 movie, Big Fish, young Edward (Ewan McGregor) says, “Kept in a small bowl, the goldfish will remain small. With more space, the fish can grow double, triple, or quadruple its size.” Now, is it the size of the bowl that prevents the growth of the fish? Or does the size of the bowl dramatically affect the quality of water within the bowl thereby depleting the life of the fish within the bowl? There are many factors that need to be considered, not just one or two. Regardless, humans do need room to ‘swim’ and grow, but we also need fresh water and not stagnant water – we need the Living Water, Christ Jesus (Jeremiah 2:13; 17:13; Zechariah 14:8; John 4:7-14; 7:37-39; Revelation 7:17)! We are designed to grow (1Corinthians 13:11)! Just as a child outgrows his/her clothes and environment, we spiritually outgrow our childish ways of selfish living and immature thinking. And if we refuse to leave our comfort zones that are too small for our futures, GOD will sometimes allow things to happen to us that will force us to leave so that we may grow. So, what about you? Are you currently going through difficulties that are forcing you to grow? While you may not enjoy the process or the growing pains, it is imperative that we maintain proper perspective in that process. Do you realize that GOD loves you through the process? What recent events in your life forced you to grow in your spiritual maturity? Are you thankful for that growth?
  • When the Philistines ruined Isaac’s wells, he chose not to retaliate; instead, he chose to keep the peace by moving forward in faith. Isaac dug another well; however, he lost that well over arguments. So, he dug another well. But then he lost that well over hostility. So, he dug another well. And in his third endeavor, his efforts worked in his favor. It’s important to note that Isaac had to dig many wells before he was ever able to build the altar. Likewise, we will need to do a lot of work before our efforts are finally rewarded. But it’s also important to note that Isaac dug another well after building the altar. Isaac’s work in life wasn’t done when he decided to praise the Lord after one success. We can praise GOD even while we are still digging more wells. Understand this: creating wells required sufficient knowledge of hydrology to identify the location of aquifers and the ability to dig down to them, but also sufficient knowledge of the construction process of the lining to stabilize the shaft and prevent seepage from the sides or collapse altogether. The significant amount of labor necessary for such an undertaking makes it obvious why wells were worth fighting over, and yet Isaac did not choose the path of revenge and violence. But what about you? When people wrong you, do you set your focus on going in reverse to seek revenge or on moving forward in faith, trusting in the Lord? Creating a well required a lot of digging for a long period of time! So, what about you? Figuratively, how much digging are you willing to do in life to get to where GOD wants you to be? How long are you willing to dig? How deep are you willing to go to receive the Living Water? How many different wells are you willing to dig? In that ancient time, those people realized the hard truth that they would need to seek water along their journeys and so they dug as many wells as was necessary. It is the same for us in our journey of this chronological study of the Bible. As we continue throughout this journey, we will dig deep throughout every chapter so that the Living Water can sustain us and help us get to the next book. And so it is with life in general as well – we will not be done digging until the Lord calls us Home. So, are you willing to keep digging and moving forward in faith? And are you ensuring to build altars of praise and worship along the way?

THE BLESSING
(Genesis 27:1 – 28:9)

Genesis 27:1 begins by informing us that Isaac is now old and blind. Typically, whenever Scripture provides us with minor details that do not seem to matter, it’s because those details actually do matter. In this story, GOD’s Word is setting the stage with the intent of equating blindness with something specific. In 27:4, Isaac, nearing the time of his death, summons Esau – the firstborn – because he desires to impart ‘the blessing’ upon him. This link between the firstborn, the birthright, and the blessing is emphasized in a wordplay involving all three terms. In Hebrew, “birthright” is בְּכוֹרָה [H1062] beḵôrâh (bekh-o-raw’), whereas “firstborn” is בְּכוֹר [H1060] beḵôr (bekh-or’), and “blessing” is בְּרָכָה [H1293] berāḵâh (ber-aw-kaw’). Immediately, as the reader, we should remember that while Esau was technically born first, he had despised his birthright and traded it to Jacob for some red stew in 25:31-34 because he had Aperture Appetite. Therefore, Scripture sets the stage that blindness is somehow connected to the blessing. But because blindness is a defection from GOD’s design of vision, linking blindness with the blessing informs us that the blessing is going to be a defection from the design of how the blessing is typically imparted.

In 27:5-10, Rebekah heard Isaac’s plan to bless Esau and so she quickly devised a plan of deception so that Jacob would receive Isaac’s blessing rather than Esau. But why would Rebekah do such a thing, especially knowing that her plan went against her husband’s wishes? Well, if you remember, in 25:22-23, the Lord told Rebekah that “the older shall serve the younger.” Thus, it is evident that Rebekah believed what she was doing was the right thing to do even though it required deception to achieve the goal. But why did she feel that deception was necessary? Wasn’t Isaac also aware that the older shall serve the younger? Did she not share that message from the Lord with Isaac, her husband? Or did she share with Isaac and yet he rejected the message she told him? Was either Isaac or Rebekah aware of the fact that Esau traded his birthright to Jacob for some red stew? We don’t know. All we know is that Rebekah believed what she was doing was right even though it required deception to achieve the goal. Consequently, we now have the blessing connected with both blindness and deception. Rebekah used her knowledge of both Isaac’s weakness and his desire against him. Isaac’s weakness was his blindness and his desire was tasty food. If you remember, Esau was Isaac’s favorite son because Esau hunted and Isaac got to eat the game Esau brought home (25:28). In fact, Isaac’s weakness and desire may have been intertwined in that his love for food might have made him blind to Esau’s character flaws, which might have influenced his decision to impart the blessing on Esau. Again, this is all conjecture because we only know what Scripture tells us.

In 27:11-27, an examination of the events that unfold reveals that Jacob had 12 opportunities to abandon the mission of deception. First, Jacob tried to excuse himself with a logical truth that Esau was hairy, but he was not hairy, and Isaac was smart enough to know the difference even from his sense of touch (27:11-12). So, it is this moment that helps us understand that the minor details of Esau’s descriptions at birth of being “red, all over like a hairy garment” (25:25) were indeed important to notate even though those details seemed insignificant at the time. The description of being red led to the red stew and Esau despising his birthright due to lack of vision, and the description of being hairy led to this moment of deception regarding the blessing. Thus, the descriptions of “red” and “hairy” connects the blessing with blindness and deception.

In Jacob’s second and third opportunities to abandon the mission of deception, he had been instructed to go to the flock and get two young goats (27:13). Jacob “went and got them, and brought them to his mother; and his mother made savory food such as his father loved” (27:14). But how much time passed between those events in which Jacob could have chosen not to deceive his father? Jacob’s second opportunity was when he walked to the flock and his third was during the period of time it took for Rebekah to make the meal.

In his fourth opportunity, Rebekah convinced Jacob to put on Esau’s clothes (27:15). Unfortunately, by doing this, he assumed a false identity. In his fifth opportunity, Rebekah put the skins of the goats on his hands and neck (27:16). Yikes! Who was Jacob now? He was losing his identity! Jacob’s sixth opportunity was when he served the meal to his father (27:17-18). Jacob’s seventh opportunity came when Isaac asked Jacob to identify himself, and then Jacob lied and told his father that he was Esau (27:18-19). Noteworthy is the fact that Jacob’s deceptive lie regarding his identity was on the seventh opportunity because seven is often equated with completeness. Essentially, Jacob had been provided every moment possible to abandon the mission of deception, but then his decision to deceive was made complete in his lie. Who had Aperture Appetite now? Just as Esau had Aperture Appetite for the red stew, Jacob had become oblivious to the blurred background details of the devil at work because he narrowed his focus on the blessing he desired. Jacob’s weakness was his insecurity in his own identity as the one who grabs at the heel (25:26); his desire was to have the identity of the one with the birthright and the blessing. Consequently, Jacob was willing to lie, assume someone else’s identity, and even deceive his own father. However, within this lie lies a good desire because Jacob’s desire to receive his father’s blessing was good. Again, what Esau despised, Jacob desired; the birthright Esau had been blind to see as being valuable is the very thing Jacob saw clearly to be of great value. For this reason, in Jacob’s eighth opportunity to abandon the mission of deception, Isaac asked him how he was able to bring him the meal so quickly and Jacob responded by saying, “Because the Lord your God caused it to happen to me” (27:20). Now, in this response, Jacob told his father a half-lie and a half-truth. He lied because the Lord did not help him to successfully hunt and bring home any game, as Isaac had assumed to be the case; however, he told the truth because the Lord did in fact provide the two young goats for the meal. Further, his statement was true in that the Lord did cause this to happen for Jacob because Esau had despised his birthright. For that reason, Jacob receiving the blessing had been foretold by the Lord in 25:23.

Jacob’s ninth opportunity came when Isaac asked him to come close so he could feel him (27:21-23). The tenth opportunity was when Isaac asked him if he were truly Esau, but Jacob chose to lie again and claimed to be someone he was not (27:24). At this moment, Jacob could have confessed or even conjured up another lie to play his actions off as if it was all a joke, telling his father he just wanted to trick him for fun. But his Aperture Appetite caused him to focus on his desire for the blessing. Jacob’s eleventh opportunity came when Isaac told him that if he brought the meal to him, then he would bless him (27:25). And then Isaac ate the meal; however, in doing so, he also swallowed Jacob’s deception. And finally, after Isaac consumed a meal of deception, Jacob’s twelfth and final opportunity came when Isaac asked him to come closer and kiss him (27:26). Later on, we will see that Judas Iscariot, “one of the twelve”, will betray Jesus with a kiss (Luke 22:47-48). Interestingly, Jacob betrays his father with a kiss on his twelfth opportunity to confess the truth. And Isaac, now convinced after smelling Esau’s scent on the clothes, gives Jacob the blessing (Genesis 27:27-29), thus fulfilling the Word of the Lord that the older would serve the younger (25:23).

In 27:29, Isaac imparts his blessing, “May peoples serve you, And nations bow down to you; Be master of your brothers, And may your mother’s sons bow down to you. Cursed be those who curse you, And blessed be those who bless you.”

While it is true that this blessing is for Jacob, we will later see that this blessing seems to match more precisely with Jacob’s son, Joseph (37:5-8; 41:40-44; 42:6). In fact, it will become evident later on that this blessing clearly builds on the divine promise to Abraham that kings will be among his descendants (17:6). And not only does the promise that those who curse will be cursed and those who bless will be blessed echo the promise GOD had given to Abraham in 12:3, but it also sets the stage for a later scene between Balak and Balaam in Numbers 24 when the Israelites will be cursed and yet instead will receive a blessing.

In Genesis 27:30-33, Esau returns, provides a meal for his father, Isaac becomes confused and asks Esau to identify himself, Esau identifies himself as the “firstborn”, and then Isaac trembles violently and informs Esau that he already blessed someone else and that the blessing must stand. But why did Esau identify himself as the “firstborn” when he traded away his birthright to Jacob (25:31-34)? This seems to imply that Isaac had been unaware of the fact that Esau had despised his birthright. Even if that is true, nothing can be hidden from the Lord and the truth was known (Psalm 33:13-15; Ecclesiastes 12:14; Luke 8:17; 12:2-3; Hebrews 4:13). But why did Isaac tremble violently? Because that was a natural consequence of devouring deception. He got deceived and ended up giving the blessing to someone whom he never intended to bless.

In 27:34-38, Esau cried out bitterly and asked his father to also bless him. Isaac told Esau that Jacob deceitfully took his blessing. But how did he know it was Jacob? He simply returned to his initial instinct when he had heard Jacob’s voice (27:22). In response, Esau became exceedingly angry toward Jacob and blamed him for the loss of his blessing and then asked his father if he had reserved any blessing for him. Isaac said that he had already given the good blessings to Jacob and there was nothing he could do. And in a final anguished plea, Esau said to his father, “Do you have only one blessing, my father? Bless me, even me also, O my father.”

Was Esau justified in blaming Jacob that he lost out on Isaac’s blessing? Again, Esau willingly chose to despise his birthright and therefore forfeited his blessing as the firstborn. So, while Jacob’s actions were deceitful in acquiring the blessing from his father, his desire was good because he valued what Esau despised and took for granted. Some Jewish scholars even go so far as to say that GOD sovereignly placed this zeal for the birthright and blessing within Jacob, that the Bible does not criticize Jacob for desiring the birthright and blessing, and so neither should anyone else criticize Jacob. In fact, some think that Jacob might not have attempted to take the blessing had Esau never traded away his birthright to Jacob.

But why did Isaac say that the blessings he gave to Jacob must stand and could not be revoked? Because in those ancient days, men of GOD held to the belief that their word was binding, not only to the human with whom they made the oath or agreement, but also with GOD. For this reason, people said such statements as, “The Lord is witness between us; surely we will do as you have said” (Judges 11:10). But why couldn’t Esau also receive a blessing? Because the blessings connected with the birthright had already been given, and the blessing, much like an oath, could not be revoked because it was binding with GOD as the witness. By involving the Lord, the one who broke the promise/agreement would be held accountable by the Lord.

But, after an unspecified amount of time, Isaac then said in 27:39-40, “39 Behold, away from the fertility of the earth shall be your dwelling, And away from the dew of heaven from above. 40 By your sword you shall live, And your brother you shall serve; But it shall come about when you become restless, That you will break his yoke from your neck.”

As this story will unfold, we will see that Jacob works off debt to his uncle Laban for 20 years (31:38). So, how is it that Esau will serve Jacob if Jacob will be busy serving Laban? And how is it that he would break free? And from what would he break free? When? Well, 27:41 says, “So Esau bore a grudge against Jacob because of the blessing with which his father had blessed him; and Esau said to himself, ‘The days of mourning for my father are near; then I will kill my brother Jacob.’ ”

Esau’s sinful desire to murder his brother should remind us of Cain when he desired to murder his brother, Abel. If you remember, in 4:7, GOD said to Cain, “If you do well, will not your countenance be lifted up? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door; and its desire is for you, but you must master it.” Thus, I believe it is reasonable to infer that Scripture refers to the period of time it would take Esau to break free from the bondage of unforgiveness and hatred in his heart. So, whenever Esau will be able to roam about free from thoughts of vengeance and violence against his brother, then he would truly be set free. Later on, Jesus will say in Matthew 5:22-24, “22 But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be guilty before the court; and whoever says to his brother, ‘You good-for-nothing,’ shall be guilty before the supreme court; and whoever says, ‘You fool,’ shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell. 23 Therefore if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering.” And again, in 6:14-15, Jesus will say, “14 For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions.” Also, in 1John 3:15, the disciple whom the Lord loves will say, “Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer; and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him.”

However, it will become evident that Isaac’s words in Genesis 27:39-40 also refers to Esau as a nation, which will be referred to as “Edom”. At first, the nation of Edom will become hostile toward Israel, and then they will become subjugated to Israel, and then they will break free from Israel (25:30; 36:1-19; Numbers 20:18-21; 2Samuel 8:14; 2Kings 8:20-22). So, as we will see all throughout our chronological journey, GOD’s Word is often so powerful that it has more than one meaning and even becomes mirrored in the New Testament.

In Genesis 27:42, it is written that Esau’s murderous words were reported to Rebekah. But who would have reported those words to her? Most likely, it was a servant of their household. Ponder on that for a moment. That servant could have decided to remain silent or even help Esau to murder Jacob, but he/she chose instead to inform Rebekah about Esau’s wicked plan. So, I believe it is reasonable to infer that the unknown servant was not only righteous, but also loved the family enough to bring a warning of potential disaster and division. And yet the informant remains anonymous in Scripture. This reveals how someone who might be considered to be insignificant could actually be someone of great significance even if that person never receives any recognition for the significant acts he/she did.

In 27:42-43, Rebekah then informs Jacob of Esau’s plan and then tells him to flee to her brother in Haran, concluding in 27:44-45 by saying, “44 Stay with him a few days, until your brother’s fury subsides, 45 until your brother’s anger against you subsides and he forgets what you did to him. Then I will send and get you from there. Why should I be bereaved of you both in one day?”

Bereaved of both? Who was the second person referred to by Rebekah? And why would she bereave that person in addition to Jacob? One possible interpretation is that she was referring to Esau. In 9:6, the Lord commanded, “Whoever sheds man’s blood, By man his blood shall be shed, For in the image of God He made man.” Further to this command, later in our chronological journey, we will learn about the duty of an “avenger of blood”, which is someone who acts in revenge on behalf of a kinsmen who was unjustly murdered (Numbers 35:9-27; Deuteronomy 19:11-13; Joshua 20). And so an “avenger of blood” would hunt down the murderer and exact justice by killing the murderer. This will all be connected to the principle of “eye for an eye” (Exodus 21:24; Leviticus 24:20; Deuteronomy 19:21). However, because Isaac and Rebekah were too old to be avengers and they lacked the kinsmen necessary to have an avenger, it is unlikely this text is referring to Esau’s death due to an avenger of blood. Another possible interpretation is that if Esau murdered Jacob, Esau would essentially have been written off as a son and thus Rebekah could have referred to her bereavement as if mourning over two dead sons even though Esau would not have literally died. However, because Esau had plainly stated that his intention was to murder Jacob on the day Isaac died (Genesis 27:41), it is more likely that Rebekah was referring to that future day of when she would bereave both Isaac and Jacob. She has already accepted the fact that she is going to lose her husband, but she does not want to also bereave over a dead son on the same day.

Sadly for Rebekah, she thought the son she favored would only be gone for a few days until Esau’s anger subsided, but as we will later see, Jacob is going to be stuck in servitude to Laban for 20 years in order to work off debt to marry his daughter, Rachel (31:38). Rebekah’s last words to Jacob was that she would send for him to return once Esau’s anger subsided. But what did she know about the future? As we will later discover, it is likely that Rebekah dies while Jacob is gone and never gets to see Jacob again. For this reason, the brother of Jesus will later say in James 4:14-15, “14 Yet you do not know what your life will be like tomorrow. You are just a vapor that appears for a little while and then vanishes away. 15 Instead, you ought to say, ‘If the Lord wills, we will live and also do this or that.’ ”

In Genesis 27:46, after conjuring up another plan, Rebekah puts on a dramatic performance for Isaac, stating that Hittite women make her tired of living and it would be utterly devastating if Jacob ever took one of them to be his wife. Now, it’s not clearly stated in this chapter, but her words only add fuel to Esau’s fire. How do we know this? Well, not only does 28:8 inform us of this, but if you remember, 26:34 informed us that Esau had taken two Hittite women as his wives. And so adding fuel to the fire, in 28:1-5, Isaac comes into agreement with Rebekah, charges Jacob to go to Haran and find a wife from one of Laban’s daughters, and then he blesses him as he sends him on his way. Therefore, Esau lost his birthright, lost his blessing, heard his parents badmouth his wives, and then heard his father bless Jacob yet again before sending him away.

Now, it is at this point in the story that critics like to point out an apparent contradiction, claiming that 28:2 states that Jacob’s reason for going to Haran is to find a wife, whereas 27:42-45 states that Jacob’s reason for going to Haran is to flee from his brother. So, which is it? Both are true. The critic presents a fallacy of a false dilemma when claiming I have to choose one or the other. It’s not a genuine contradiction because it’s not an either-or scenario. At first, the most urgent reason for Jacob going to Haran is to flee from his brother. However, because Rebekah wants him to go there, she uses Jacob’s need for a wife as an excuse for him to go. And because Isaac agrees that the plan is good for Jacob to find a wife, that becomes the new plan; consequently, both reasons merge together into one plan.

Interestingly, in 24:3, Abraham charged his faithful servant Eliezer to ensure that Isaac did not acquire a Canaanite wife. And then in 28:1, Isaac charges Jacob with the same warning. Also, in 24:6-7, Abraham charged Eliezer to see to it that he never took Isaac back to his homeland because the Lord promised that his descendants would be given the land currently inhabited by the Canaanites. And then in 28:2-4, though Isaac sends Jacob back to the homeland, he blesses Jacob, saying, “may [you] possess the land of your sojournings, which God gave to Abraham.” Therefore, this sets the stage for Jacob to eventually return to the land promised to Abraham. But when will he return? Well, Rebekah believes his return will be sometime in the near future, but as we will soon see, his return will not be anytime soon.

After Jacob departs for his journey, it is written in 28:6-9 that Esau, knowing that the daughters of Canaan displease his father Isaac, he visits Ishmael and marries his daughter Mahalath in what seems to be a belated attempt to gain his parents’ approval. Ironically, Esau’s link with the family of Ishmael – Nebaioth (Esau’s brother-in-law) is Ishmael’s firstborn son (25:13) – further signals that GOD will not fulfill His promises through Esau because GOD passed over Ishmael in favor of Isaac (21:12). And with Esau now being passed over, Jacob will now receive favor and take center stage in the story.

  • Esau was blind and unable to see the value of his birthright. Isaac was blind and unable to see he was being deceived by Jacob. Jacob was blind and unable to see that his actions would lead to Esau desiring to murder him. Rebekah was blind and unable to see that her favoritism of Jacob would lead to her never seeing him again. And yet GOD’s blessing was given despite their blindness. But what about you? In what ways has GOD given you His blessing despite your blindness? And how many times has He blessed you despite your blindness?
  • Esau had been deceived because he believed food of the physical realm was more important than the blessing of the spiritual realm. Jacob had been deceived because he believed that he could deceive his father without any consequences. Isaac had been deceived because he believed he could rely upon his physical senses to discern spiritual matters. Rebekah had been deceived because she believed she could help Jacob deceive Isaac without any consequences. But what about you? What past experiences do you have of when you had been deceived? What were the consequences that came from those incidents of deception? What have you learned from them?
  • Did Rebekah ever tell Isaac that the Lord said the older would serve the younger or did she keep that a secret? Secrets only keep spouses separated. Two are designed to be one, remember (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5-6)? If you’re married, are you keeping any secrets from your spouse? If you are, I admonish you to prayerfully consider breaking down those walls of secrets that separate and choose instead to be bonded in transparent love. A secret can easily slide down the slippery slope into becoming sin. Sin is a parasite that takes over its host. So, are you willing to share your secrets with your spouse?
  • Both Isaac and Rebekah played favorites and the favoritism created a divided house. Do you have children? If you do, do you play favorites? Should you? If you do play favorites, are you blind to the consequences of such a divisive act? Are you deceived into believing there will be no consequences?
  • Jacob sought to be blessed while he was actively sinning. How could Jacob possibly ask to receive a blessing while sinning? But what about you? Have you ever desired to receive a blessing from the Lord while living in sin? What was your focus on at the time? How did the Lord respond to your desire?
  • Jacob got what he desired. He received the blessing. But at what cost? Although Jacob got the blessing he desired, assuming a false identity and deceiving his dad cost him greatly. Some of the consequences are as follows: (1) It is likely he never saw his mother again; (2) the relationship with his brother was damaged and Esau wanted to murder him; (3) he will soon be deceived by his uncle Laban and used for labor; (4) his own family will become torn by strife; (5) Esau will became the founder of the enemy nation “Edom”; and (6) he becomes exiled from his family for 20 years. Now, at a quick glance, it seems as if one wrong decision will lead to years of pain and suffering; however, upon closer examination, we can clearly see that Jacob had 12 opportunities to escape from one wrong decision. But what about you? Think back at all the times when you had made a wrong decision. How many opportunities did you have to escape prior to making that one wrong decision?
  • How many times has GOD blessed you despite the fact that you made a wrong decision?
  • Are you seeking to receive the blessing? Who has lost out on being blessed so that you can receive the blessing? What about the One who might be referred to as the “the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation” (Colossians 1:15)? The One crucified on the cross? Sure, Jacob received the blessing even while he was a sinner, but what is written in Romans 5:8? “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” Indeed, Jesus died so that we might receive the blessing.

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Superhero: Armor of GOD: Shoes of Readiness


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This is Part 17 of my Superhero series. In the introduction of this series, I provided the argument that heroes are real and then I distinguished between heroes and superheroes. I also provided a list of what defines a superhero. In Part 1, we learned that superheroes recognize the absolute standard of Good and realize that evil is a mere privation of what is good. In Part 2, we learned that superheroes recognize the absolute moral standard and realize that what is wrong can only be known by the standard of what is right. In Part 3, I defined and expounded upon love because all superheroes are full of love and are compelled to act out from love. In Part 4, I explained that superheroes desire to save people from all forms of danger and/or death and this desire comes from love. In Part 5, we learned that superheroes are solution seekers. In Part 6, we saw that solution seekers are willing to sacrifice if necessary. In Part 7, we saw that sacrificial love steps forward and offers service. In Part 8, we saw that superheroes go above and beyond the call of duty. In Part 9, we saw that superheroes never give up! In Part 10, we saw that superheroes don’t need recognition – they are motivated only by love! In Part 11, we saw that relationships matter and teamwork works! In Part 12, we saw that the struggle is real; however, Jesus is the real solution to our real problems. In Part 13, we saw that despite problems, superheroes are more than conquerors! In Part 14, we saw that true superheroes do not have identity crises – they know who they are even if others don’t! In Part 15, we saw that superheroes are always ready to fight evil with the belt of Truth. In Part 16, we saw that superheroes are always ready to resist evil by putting on the breastplate of righteousness.

In this message (Part 17), we will see that superheroes are always ready to walk with purpose.


 

Continuing the examination of the whole armor of GOD, we are now instructed to put on the shoes of readiness (Ephesians 6:15).

Marvel’s superhero, Daredevil, is a great example of having feet of readiness. In his true civilian identity, Matthew Michael Murdock is a skilled and respected New York attorney, detective, tracker, and interrogation expert, as well as being an expert marksman. But the amazing thing about this superhero is that he is blind! However, Daredevil – though he is blind – is always alert and ready to respond appropriately to any situation and is prepared to dodge danger and evade evil. But not only is Daredevil ready to avoid the attacks of his adversaries, he is also ready to effectively combat evil and accomplish good.

Many people might believe Daredevil to be far-fetched fairytale nonsense, but there are numerous accounts of people being amazing despite being blind – click on the examples to see their inspirational stories:

So, what are the shoes of readiness? What purpose did shoes serve for a Roman soldier? What purpose do these spiritual shoes serve for us? The shoes were primarily composed of two parts: the greave and the shoe itself. The greave was a fitted piece of bronze or brass that began at the top of the knee and extended down past the lower leg, finally resting on the upper portion of the foot. The shoes were equipped with spikes on the bottom. How does this apply to our lives as superheroes for the Savior? Well, imagine a solider being completely covered with protective armor yet having bare and exposed feet. Just one rock, glass shard, or nail could bring a soldier down to his knees, trip him up and cause him to be overcome in battle. Because the feet carry the soldier and direct him to the battle and through the battle, protection for the feet are necessary.

For example, in Greek mythology, the most enduring story of the death of Achilles describes how one single arrow shot from a man named Paris landed in the one spot Achilles happened to be vulnerable – his heel. The one area of exposed weakness was enough to bring the great warrior down in defeat. Another example can be found in the comedic 1990 movie, Home Alone. In a hilarious scene of boobytraps and mishaps, the criminal, Marv, steps on a nail with his bare foot and then falls down stairs:

“Therefore be careful how you walk, not as unwise men but as wise, making the most of your time, because the days are evil.”
(Ephesians 5:15-16) -NASB

May you also understand that it’s not necessary to have physical feet in order to put on the shoes of readiness. This is a spiritual war and the spiritual armor still applies to those who don’t have physical legs. There have been many people who have either lost their legs or were born without legs yet they accomplished good deeds in life. Consider the following examples:

Stand Your Ground:

The spikes on the bottom of the Roman soldier’s shoes helped him to have firm footing and prevent him from being pushed back or slip and fall down. Scripture tells us that we are to stand in the confidence of knowing that we have on the shoes of readiness given by the gospel of peace. The word “peace” is taken from the Greek word eirene, an old word that conveys the idea of a peace that prevails or a conquering peace. When you have strapped on that peace and you have peace on the bottom of your feet, you are immovable. This peace helps us stand our ground and hold you in place when the enemy tries to drive you back. The person who has the footing in peace is like a tree with deep roots that won’t get knocked down during a storm. In Ephesians 6:14, 1Corinthians 16:13, and 2Corinthians 1:24, for example, we are instructed to “stand.” It’s interesting to note that the majority of verses in the New Testament that have to do with standing also have to do with faith. It’s time to take a stand. Stand your ground! Don’t allow the enemy to push you back!

Dodging Danger; Evading Evil:

Due to fallen humanity’s inclination toward evil and war, it is estimated that there are about 110 million land mines throughout the world that are still in the ground right now. That’s what we created! Think: What are we creating? An estimated equal amount of mines are in stockpiles waiting to be used or destroyed. If de-mining efforts remain at about the same rate as they are now, and no new mines are planted, it is estimated to take over 1,000 years to get rid of all the world’s active land mines. Research declares that about every 20 seconds, someone in the world gets injured or dies due to mines. And that’s merely the danger of human physical warfare. Now imagine how many ‘mines’ have been strategically placed in the spiritual war that is waging all around us.

[Recommend Reading: Is Religion the Cause of Most Wars?]

Even after war is over, the remnants of war remains; wounds still must heal – both physically and mentally. The full extent of war’s destruction is evident in the aftermath through the process of rebuilding. The spiritual war was won when Christ sacrificed Himself on the cross and then rose again on the third day; however, there are still traps for those who refuse GOD’s gift of grace and mercy. There are traps for those of us who have accepted GOD’s gift of grace! Even though the enemy has been defeated, the spiritual mines still remain active. Until Christ returns and takes us to the New Earth under the New Heavens (Isaiah 65:17-25; 2Peter 3:13; Revelation 21-22), this current life is still Operation Relentless Rescue.

Observe. Think! Analyze. Be aware. Do you truly believe that the temptations which come your way are merely coincidental? Is it possible that Satan knows your selfish desires? Do they seem too subtle to be certain? The physical enemy plants physical mines where there is a likelihood for people to travel; likewise, spiritual mines are also planted in places where people frequently travel through life.

Like the birds in the 2003 movie, Finding Nemo, many people scream, “Mine! Mine! Mine!” Many people are so accustomed to saying, “mine” for selfish reasons that when the word is heard, they believe the word to be a proclamation of possession. Like many people, I am also screaming, “Mine!”; however, I am screaming for your sake, not mine. Consider this message of mine to be yet another warning. This is just one of many warnings I will preach.

Our culture that is contaminated by corruption of the Counterfeiter has planted millions of mines within our advertisement and entertainment industries (see my article, “Reflection and Direction“). Be careful: these mines look like your desires. All mines are strategically placed around sex, money, title/position, stimulants, and material possessions. Why do you think this would be so? Well, Jesus told us the answer:

“Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”
(Matthew 26:41) -ESV

Those who work in the entertainment and advertisement industries know that the flesh is weak – that’s why they promote their products in the appealing ways that they do! We must put on the shoes of readiness and watch our steps or we will find that we won’t even have a leg to stand on. We better watch our steps or we will lose our way. If we’re not careful, we’ll not only lose a limb or life, but we can also lose our purpose and then our eternal joy in Heaven will instead be eternal sorrow and anguish in Hell. Consider the wisdom of what is written:

“For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?”
(Matthew 16:26) -ESV

“There is a way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death.”
(Proverbs 14:12) -NASB

  • It may be tempting to allow the anger within to explode outward, but do not sin in your anger (Genesis 4:5-7; Ephesians 4:26-27). #Mine 💣💥
  • It may be tempting to puff up with pride, but don’t walk into anger, step into that argument, and allow poisonous words to spill out from your mouth (Ephesians 4:29-31). #Mine 💣💥
  • It may be tempting to see if the grass is greener on the other side, but don’t walk over boundaries and step into another person’s romantic relationship (Exodus 20:17; Deuteronomy 5:21). #Mine 💣💥
  • It may be tempting to get credit and receive praise for something you didn’t do, but don’t walk into dishonesty and dishonor by stepping into another person’s place of honor (Proverbs 3:27; Romans 12:10; Philippians 2:3). #Mine 💣💥
  • It may be tempting to immerse yourself in the entrancement of technology, but don’t walk into a dead end by stepping into isolation (Genesis 2:18; Ecclesiastes 4:9-12; Proverbs 18:1; 1Corinthians 12:14). #Mine 💣💥
  • It may be tempting to exchange personal information for the sake of friendship, but don’t walk down Disrespectful Drive or Slander Street by stepping into the realm of gossip (Exodus 23:1; Leviticus 19:16; Proverbs 11:12-13; 20:19; James 4:11). #Mine 💣💥
  • It may be tempting to compromise an area of Truth to experience ‘fun’ or receive pleasure, but do not walk into disobedience to seek temporary desires that never fulfill. Never make a permanent decision based on a temporary emotion. Don’t trade away GOD’s lifelong gift to satisfy a short-term appetite (Genesis 25:29-34; Hebrews 12:16-17; 2Samuel 11-13). #Mine 💣💥
  • It may be tempting to escape suffering and sorrow, but do not walk down Evil Lane and step into the entrapment of drugs. Don’t walk into that store and step your way into becoming a drunken fool. #Mine 💣💥
  • It may be temping to risk everything you currently have in order to attain everything you desire, but don’t step away from responsibility by stepping into unrealistic odds that are not in your favor#Mine 💣💥
  • It may be tempting to escape the pain in life by ending your life, but do not walk into the possibility of Hell by stepping your way into suicide#Mine 💣💥

Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed lest he fall. No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.”
(1Corinthians 10:12-13) -ESV

Advance Forward:

The spikes on the bottom of the shoes isn’t only for standing your ground and refusing to be pushed back, it’s also for traction in order to gain ground and advance forward. Are you taking ground or losing ground? In Joshua 1:3, GOD told Joshua that he would possess all the land he walked on. GOD freely gave the children of Israel the Promised Land; however, in order for them to possess that land and enjoy it, they had to advance forward while overcoming opposition. It is written in Romans 16:20 that “The God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet.” The word “crush” is taken from the Greek word suntribo, and it was historically used to denote the act of smashing and utterly crushing grapes into wine. But it was also used to denote the act of snapping, breaking, and crushing bones. Because of Jesus, Satan is under our feet. Alone, we are no match for Satan. But because we have partnership with the Lord, we can overcome. Jesus completely destroyed Satan’s power over you through His sacrificial death and resurrection. Standing in faith is a defensive move and a refusal to go back; walking with the Lord is an offensive move and a decision to advance forward. And because we walk in the confidence and peace of knowing this, it’s time to advance forward and walk with purpose.

Walking With Purpose:

It is good to be able to dodge danger and evade evil, but that does not mean that we should avoid the adversary or stay away from sinners. Superheroes do not run away from problems; rather, they embrace their callings and seek solutions.

And by this we know that we have come to know him, if we keep his commandments. Whoever says ‘I know him’ but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him, but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked.”
(1John 2:3-6) -ESV

Now the eleven disciples went to Galilee, to the mountain to which Jesus had directed them. And when they saw him they worshiped him, but some doubted. And Jesus came and said to them, ‘All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.’ ”
(Matthew 28:16-20) -ESV

Wherever Jesus had directed the disciples to go, they went there. The shoes of readiness help us to dodge danger and evade evil; however, the shoes of readiness also guide us to walk with purpose. Our purpose for walking by faith is to share the Gospel (good news). If your feet don’t take you out of your comfort zone and into the battlefield, then you’re not wearing the shoes of readiness. The Couch Potato Christians might as well wear ankle monitors and consider themselves prisoners of their own probations.

When Saul of Tarsus became Paul, Jesus helped him to realize that he had been blind to the Truth all along (Acts 9:3-19). From this, we can learn that without Jesus, we are all dead in our own sins (Ephesians 2:1-3). The Lord is the Light (John 8:12) and the only reason we have sight (Isaiah 42:16; Ephesians 2:4-9). Without Jesus to give us vision, we would all be blind darkness dwellers. Without GOD as the Light that guides our steps (Psalm 119:105), we would all be the blind leading the blind (Matthew 15:14; Luke 6:39). But because Jesus called us out of the darkness and into the Light (Colossians 1:13), we became the light-bearers (John 9:5; Matthew 5:14-16; Ephesians 5:8; 1Thessalonians 5:5; 1Peter 2:9) who act as travel guides. Just as tourists typically follow tour guides until they reach their destinations, the “lost” only follow Christians until they come to Jesus. People ultimately follow Christ, not Christians. But as light-bearing guides, we must put on the shoes of readiness if we are to lead those in the dark to the Light. Don’t walk in the darkness without your shoes on; don’t go into the battlefield with bare feet. Are your shoes on? Are you ready?

How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? And how are they to believe in him of whom they have never heard? And how are they to hear without someone preaching? And how are they to preach unless they are sent? As it is written, ‘How beautiful are the feet of those who preach the good news!’ ”
(Romans 10:14-15; see also Isaiah 52:7) -ESV

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Prayer:

GOD, thank You for the shoes of readiness You gave to us. Please open our eyes and help us to see what You truly want us to see. Expose the lies and reveal the Truth! Please open our ears and help us to hear what You truly want us to hear. Help us to recognize the ‘mines’ for what they truly are. Help us to walk the straight and narrow path of righteousness (Proverbs 4:25-27; Isaiah 30:21; Deuteronomy 5:32-33; Matthew 7:13-14) and keep us from deviating from the path of Truth. And when we encounter the ‘mines,’ please help us recognize the path of escape that you promised to provide (1Corinthians 10:13). Please lead righteous people our way and surround us with good and righteous influences who will keep us accountable and inspire us to rise to new and higher levels in our lives of faith. Please use us to guide others away from the destructive ‘mines’ of the adversary’s mind. Please help us to guide the lost to the One who can save. I humbly recognize that if You had not given me vision, I would still be blind. Help me lead others to You so that You may heal them of their blindness, open their eyes and help them to see — truly see! Help me to be a bright light in the darkness of this world. Help me to provide my light to those without sight so they may find their way Home. Help me to give light to those without light so they can also go shine their lights and help others acquire light. A candle was designed to provide light. A candle can either refuse to be lit and remain a mere candle all its inactive days or it can accept the fire of the Holy Spirit and provide light as it was designed to do! I understand that as I provide light, my life will dwindle down to nothing, but in doing so I will truly live (John 11:25-26). And truly, I’d rather live than merely exist. It is better to sink while sailing for the Savior than to forever float in Hinder Harbor, tied to the devil’s dock.

GOD, I am only another mere candle creation, but please help me light as many other candles as possible before my time ends. Please guide our steps to be in step with Your perfect will. Amen.

Defending Marriage


First and foremost, may it be known that this argument is a defense of marriage, not an attack on homosexuals. However, in order to defend marriage properly, homosexuality must be addressed. It is my hope to effectively convey my argument with love and respect. I intend to defend the Design of marriage; the layout of my argument is as follows: definition, biology, anthropology, GOD’s Word, why it is important to defend marriage, conclusion, call to action, and finally an invitation.

For Christians like myself, we have only three options by which to live out our beliefs: (1) Speak the truth out from love, (2) feel intimidated and lie so as not to offend, or (3) remain fearful and cower in silence. For me, the first option is the only option. The reason I collected Truth and compiled this argument is because a 13-year old girl (whom I love with all my heart) asked me what I thought about gay people. This teenage girl has questions regarding sexual orientation because our society has allowed pluralism and relativism to inundate our public education systems (here’s an example); consequently, Truth is under attack (as is evident from TIME Magazine’s April 2017 cover and text within). In February 2014, ABC News released an article which stated that they have found there to be 58 different options for one’s gender to be identified. In many other articles by different sources, the number is much higher. One such example of gender identification is “Pangender.” Dictionary.com defines Pangender as “noting or relating to a person whose gender identity is not limited to one gender and who may feel like a member of all genders at the same time.” Some people even claim it’s normal or right to have sex with nature or “get off” with nature.

This argument is not intended to address such issues as gender identity — that topic has already been addressed exhaustively in others’ works. The purpose of this argument is to defend marriage and humans’ inherent Design. I am merely responding to a demand for us to approve of something we believe to be wrong. That’s why this is a defense and not an attack. Nowadays, even the most fair, gentle, balanced statement can be labeled as hate speech; however, my belief is not born from bigotry and should not be passed off as prejudice. I can accept a person without approving of that person’s actions. Using critical thinking, it is my hope that I can explain the reasoning behind the belief for the Design of marriage and the necessity to defend the definition of marriage. And before you (the reader) allow yourself to accept the intellectually dishonest claim that “homophobia is the problem,” let us honestly examine what that statement means. The “homophobia” argument is misleading for two reasons:

  1. It implies a phobic condition that the accused person most likely does not truly possess. A phobia, according to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the American Psychiatric Association, is defined as “an irrational dread or fear of object or activity, leading to significant avoidance of the dreaded object.” But I do not fear homosexuals nor feel the necessity to avoid such individuals.
  2. The argument prematurely assumes that a negative response to homosexuality can be construed as a phobia. Would it be a prejudice or phobia or could the rejective response simply be conviction and comprehension? There is a difference between belief and bigotry.

I know many people on a personal level who proclaim themselves to be homosexuals and not one of them is a bad human being (in my opinion); in fact, all of them possess good qualities and I would consider them to be my friends. This argument is not against homosexuals; rather, it is for the intended Design of marriage. Marriage is important to defend because the disintegration of the definition of marriage will create at least three catastrophic consequences: (1) the denigration of biblical authority, (2) the sexual exploitation of children, and (3) the loss of a coherent definition of family. Again, I intend to defend the Design of marriage; the layout of my argument is as follows: definition, biology, anthropology, GOD’s Word, why it is important to defend marriage, conclusion, call to action, and finally an invitation.

In order to defend marriage and also encourage the growth of better marriages, we must first know the definition of marriage. Can the undefined be defended? How can we defend what we ourselves do not understand? The ability to articulate the basic truths about marriage is every Christian’s responsibility. Love of GOD demands Truth; love of our neighbor demands action; GOD demands that actions of Truth be spoken through love. The definition of marriage can be found by examining (1) GOD’s Word, (2) biology, and (3) anthropology. However, there is simple and decisive evidence that the “conjugal view” is not peculiar to religion, or to any religious tradition. Even if one rejected GOD, Truth about marriage would still be evident. Ancient thinkers such as Xenophanes, Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, Musonius Rufus, and Plutarch reached remarkably similar views of marriage. Even in cultures favorable to homoerotic relationships (as in ancient Greece), something akin to the “conjugal view” has prevailed — and nothing like same-sex marriage was even considered.

Marriage should be defined as a covenant between one male and one female, both being of a proper age of maturity that would enable a mutual consent to a lifelong partnership that is designed to unite the two as one in a committed relationship. The union of the two as one should not be detached, divided, disconnected or divorced unless death separates them or the sin of sexual immorality defiles the covenant and creates a chasm between the commitment that would cause division.

What about same-sex marriage? What about marriage equality? Is the definition of marriage discrimination against homosexuals? In short, the definition of marriage does not discriminate against anyone or anything found beyond the boundaries of the definition. A distinction does not mean there’s an unfair discrimination. Exclusion does not equate to discrimination. Truth is absolute and narrowly defined (see the argument on absolute Truth). And what is right is right and what is wrong is wrong (see the argument on moral relativism).

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For example, electrical conductivity can provide an analogy to better help us understand the Design. For a copy machine to produce a copy, it must first be connected to power. Its electrical cord has ‘male’ prongs that must be inserted into the ‘female’ outlet holes in order to be connected to the ‘power’ as designed. Without that correct connection, the copy machine will not produce a copy. Likewise, humans are males and females, possess male and female parts, and reproduction will not occur unless the correct connection is established. Of course two males or two females could adopt a child. A same-sex couple could also have medical professionals use the sperm/egg combination from others and legally obtain rights to a child. There are many options that could be used to obtain children; however, those options are only stealing from the Design and therefore concede that the Design is good and necessary. And if you don’t like the cord and outlet analogy, think of magnets. Magnets have two poles: north and south (N & S). Let’s call them male and female (M & F). M attracts F; F attracts M. But M repels M and F repels F. A human can force M & M / F & F together, but it’s not the design and as soon as the human lets go, M will align itself and pair up with F. It’s the Design.

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People found outside the defined boundaries of marriage are simply unqualified to exist within the definition. Every definition of marriage excludes someone. For example, many advocates of same-sex marriage think marriage should exclude polygamous and polyamorous couples. Also, almost everyone (thankfully) believes marriage should exclude underage and incestuous couples. If any and every type of relationship should be called marriage, it’s no longer a helpful term. Marriage cannot mean everything or everyone, or else marriage means nothing. Same-sex marriage is not about including those wrongly excluded from an existing institution; it’s about completely recasting and redefining that institution while continuing to use the same name. Redefining marriage would ultimately teach that marriage is about emotional union and cohabitation, without any inherent connections to bodily union or family life. If marriage is centrally an emotional union, rather than one inherently ordered to family life, it becomes much harder to show why the state should concern itself with marriage any more than with friendship.

Same-sex marriage is now legal, but should it be? Same-sex marriage should be legal if marriage is only a way that the government acknowledges feelings of love and affection between people. If that’s all there is to marriage, keeping marriage from same-sex couples would be discrimination. The distinctions made between relationships can either be based on essential qualities or arbitrary qualities. Essential qualities qualify and are essential in order to define.  Disqualifications within definitions does not constitute as discrimination. Truth is absolute and never relative. Truth is narrow and exact, but determining right from wrong is necessary and loving, not hateful.

Why should marriage be defined as being one male and one female? Why not two males or two females? Again, the central issue is the definition of marriage itself. Two males together do not qualify and neither do two females together. If love was the only qualifying prerequisite to marriage, that would open pandora’s box and many problems would arise. If marriage were only about companionship, there would be nothing to distinguish it from other very important, human unions. Is marriage something that’s defined or something that’s described? In other words, is marriage a cultural construct we can redefine at will (such as which side of the road we drive on), or a feature of reality we discover and describe (such as gravity)? The definition of marriage can be discovered and described by examining biology, anthropology, and the Bible.

Biology:

Natural (in the subjective sense, as in “natural to me”) does not mean right; the created intent for sexual expression must dictate what forms of sexual expression are acceptable. People possess free will and are able to pursue any path they choose; however, we cannot grant their demand that the Design for marriage and family be revised to suit what is natural to them, yet unnatural in fact.

Purpose determines function. What is the purpose of marriage? Love may be a reason to get married, but it is not a function of marriage. One of the functions of marriage between a male and a female is procreation. Because sexual intercourse is the only biological process that leads to procreation, this implies that marriage requires gender diversity. Male and male cannot accomplish this for sperm and sperm cannot unite and form a baby. Female and female cannot procreate because egg and egg cannot unite and form a baby. Only the combination of male and female (sperm and egg) can produce offspring. Husband/wife marriages begin the families that are the building blocks of civilization. Severing the tie between marriage and children compromises the role marriage plays in securing the future of a culture and furthers the destructive notion that marriage is just about furthering personal happiness. But happiness is merely pleasure without purpose. Plus, it obscures that one function of marriage that clearly demonstrates why marriage requires a male and a female. It is the coordination toward a single end that makes the union; achieving the end would deepen the union but is not necessary for it. It’s not that the relationship of marriage and the comprehensive good of rearing children always go together. It is that, like a ball and socket, they fit together. It is the Design.

Another function of male and female marriage is to regulate sexuality and confine the act of sexual intercourse to the husband and wife. By regulating sexual intercourse within the confines of marriage drastically reduces or nearly eliminates the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Further, by regulating sexual intercourse within the confines of marriage, it enables a happier and healthier committed and relationship between parents; consequently, children have happier and healthier parents.

Another function of marriage between a male and a female is to ensure that a child gets from both parents the attention, care and provision he/she requires until young adulthood is reached. Both father and mother influence their children in different and essential ways that are necessary for healthy child development. If male and female are essential to bring different perspectives, skills, insights and wisdom to your work environment, how much more is that needed for the family and home environment?

It may be argued that homosexuality is inborn and must therefore be considered normal; however, what is inborn may be common but not normal. Again, we must compare existence of something to the intended Design of that something. Consider the following examples: deaf, blind, down syndrome, vitiligo, tetra amelia syndrome, cleft lip, autism, cystic fibrosis, cancer, or conjoined twins. All of the aforementioned could be argued that there’s nothing anyone can do to change who they are; however, who they are has little or nothing to do with what they do. Behavior can change even if people themselves remain relatively the same. Thus, “born this way” cannot justify sinful behavior that needs to be controlled in the majority of all situations. I concede that there exists a number of mentally challenged people who have little or no control over certain behaviors, but those people represent the exception to the original Design and not the rule. The Design is not redefined due to the rare exceptions. Abnormalities are only known to be such due to the awareness of what is normal; one cannot know what an abnormality is without first knowing what is normal. Common does not equate to normal; a defect, disorder or disfunction can be common, but should not be considered normal.

A number of unhealthy tendencies seem to be inborn; however, inborn does not indicate what is healthy or natural. In 2002, Dr. Redford Williams of Duke University said evidence of an “anger gene” had been found. In 2004, the Journal of Neuroscience released findings linking a gene to alcohol addiction. In 2011, an analysis of 54 studies indicated existence of a “depression gene.” And in 2015, Dr. Richard Friedman asserted that there may be an “infidelity gene” and that the tendency of lustful looks are not our fault. It may be true that all these conditions are inborn; however, it is absurd to accept them as healthy or normal. Our desires should never guide us. True direction comes from the compass of Christ-centered conviction. Orientation to homosexuality may be a desire someone possesses, but it is not the intended Design. Orientation to pedophilia is also an inclination that was never intended yet exists. Inborn tendencies should not be considered to be legitimized and healthy behaviors. If everything inborn is good, how do we account for birth defects?

Anthropology:

Start at the beginning and recognize a cluster of facts: humans are social; they live in groups. They strongly seek to reproduce. They are sexually embodied. They carry out sexual (not asexual) reproduction. They devised an institution to link male and female and raise children. It is not just coincidence or tradition that marriage has at all times and in all societies been a relationship between men and women. The concept of same-sex marriage never occurred until recent times because it was a contradiction in terms. In the proper definition of marriage, both spouses are held accountable for any children produced by their sexual relationship. By recognizing and promoting marriage, the community makes it more likely that when a baby is born a mother and father will be around.

Numerous studies over an extended period of time and with multiple researchers demonstrates that children fare better when cared for by their biological mothers and fathers. A 2008 report published by the Witherspoon Institute entitled “Marriage and the Public Good: Ten Principles” summarizes this data. In addition, an exhaustive study of all research compiled in a 120-page report on same-sex parenting and adoption revealed that children who live with married moms and dads show, on average, advantage in literacy and graduation rates, emotional health, family and sexual development, and behavior as both adults and as children. In the right design of marriage, married adults become practiced at thinking about others. This curbs the urge for immediate gratification relationally, sexually and financially. Children raised in this environment learn that commitment should not be taken lightly.

The Bible: 

If the biblical testimony requires us to conclude that marriage belongs to the state to define it in whatever way it pleases, then so be it. But if the biblical testimony identifies marriage as belonging primarily to GOD and not established by the state but recognized by it, that’s another matter altogether. Christians should know what the Bible says about something as important to the human experience as marriage and sexuality. If GOD’s Word is purposefully disregarded in specific areas, thus creating blank spaces where direction was previously provided, an ancient sin is revived in which compromised obedience to GOD in one area cripples respect for GOD’s Word in other — perhaps all — areas of life and conduct. Compromise begets compromise. So what does GOD’s Word say about marriage?

There is a Design and an absolute standard for which everything should be based and judged. Marriage is for one male and one female; the two will become one. The two in marriage must remain faithful to each other. The monogamous male-female union, introduced in Genesis, is the only model of sexual behavior consistently praised in both Old and New Testaments.

(Genesis 1:27-28; 2:18,23-24; Leviticus 18:22; 20:13; Deuteronomy 17:17; Malachi 2:14-16; Matthew 19:4-6; Romans 1:26-27; 1Corinthians 6:9-10; 7:2; 1Timothy 1:9-10; 3:2,12)

Many people within the apostasy of which we now live– specifically the “Progressive Christianity” movement– publicly proclaim lies about GOD’s Word, such as Leviticus 18:22 saying that pedophilia is wrong, not homosexuality. But that is a blatant boldfaced lie which comes directly from Satan. Leviticus 18:22, in Hebrew, says you shall not lie with זָכָר [zakar] (zaw-kawr’), which means “male,” as you would with אִשָּׁה [ishshah] (ish-shaw’), which means “woman.” This pertains specifically to gender, not age. In Hebrew, a boy or young man is the word יֶלֶד [yeled] (yeh’-led), such as the little boy Naomi nursed in Ruth 4:16. And יַלְדָּה [yaldah] (yal-daw’) means “girl.” (Compare Joel 3:3 and Zechariah 8:5 to see the difference.) The ancient and eternal Word of GOD in this matter is clear: GOD’s design for sexual relation is one male and one female. And both biology and anthropology affirm this to be true.

(Matthew 19:4-6)
4 And He answered and said, “Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning [
746] made them male [730] and female [2338], 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man [444] shall leave his father [3962] and mother [3384] and be joined [2853] to his wife [1135], and the two shall become one flesh’? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together [4801], let no man separate.”

Beginning [746] = arche (ar-khay’), from archomai (ar’-khom-ahee), which means through the implication of precedence, to commence; in order of time, to begin. Thus, arche means from the beginning. When was that? Genesis. The English title “Genesis” comes from the Septuagint (the pre-Christian Greek translation of the Pentateuch) and means “origin” or “beginning,” which is an apt title because Genesis is all about origins, or the beginning. In fact, the first phrase in the Hebrew text of Genesis 1:1 means “in the beginning” [7225].

father [3962] = pater (pat-ayr’)

mother [3384] = meter (may’-tare)

Why is father and mother important? Father is male; mother is female. Jesus affirms the original design from the beginning. What is this design? Male and female are to be joined together as one.

joined [2853] = kollao (kol-lah’-o), which means to be joined together, glued, or cemented, becoming one, bonded together, now inseparable.

joined together [4801] = suzeugnumi (sood-zyoog’-noo-mee), which is a compounded word from sun (soon) and zeugos (dzyoo’-gos). The word sun means with or together, denoting union. The word zeugos indicates a couple as oxen would be yoked together. Thus, the word means a union of two who become yoked together. And in proper context, this means that a male and female become yoked together and become a union, working together as one.

Therefore, Jesus Himself affirms the original design for any marriage as being one male and one female — it has been this way since the beginning. And basic biology confirms this to be true.

(Romans 1:26-27)
26 For this reason God gave them over to degrading [
819] passions [3806]; for their women exchanged the natural [5446] function for that which is unnatural [3844; 5449], 27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural [5446] function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent [808] acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error [4106].”

degrading [819] = atimia (at-ee-mee’-ah), from atimos (at’-ee-mos), which means without honor; there is no honor present to even lower. The word atimia means to lower down from a place of honor and signifies shame and disgrace because of the move away from honor.

passion [3806] = pathos (path’-os), which means an affection of the mind which stimulates a passionate desire. Used by the Greeks of either good or bad desires; however, it is always used to describe bad desires in the New Testament. In proper context, this passionate desire is one of lust and that’s why it is a dishonorable passion.

natural [5446] = phusikos (foo-see-kos’), which means according to nature, governed by natural instincts, such as in nature itself where nature produces, germinates, pollinates, sprouts, and brings forth new life. In context, this refers to the female naturally needing the male’s seed in order to produce. And this is why male and female is according to nature and is the natural design.

Unnatural [3844; 5449] = para phusis (par-ah’ foo’-sis), which means against nature, contrary to nature, or opposed to nature, which will not bring forth or produce. In other words, it is a blatant rebellion against GOD’s command to be fruitful and multiply (Genesis 1:22,28; 8:17; 9:1,7).

Indecent [808] = aschemosune (as-kay-mos-oo’-nay), which does mean indecent or unseemliness, but also means nakedness and shame as we see the same word used in Revelation 16:15.

Error [4106] = plane (plan’-ay), which is a wandering away from Truth and/or morality. It is akin to planao (plan-ah’-o) in a wandering and forsaking of the right path (see James 5:20), whether in doctrine (2Peter 3:17; 1John 4:6), or in morals (2Peter 2:18; Jude 1:11); though, in Scripture, doctrine and morals link together. In fact, errors in doctrine are not infrequently the effect of relaxed morality, and vice versa.

Altogether in proper context, a male acting on degrading lust-filled passion for another male is unnatural just as a female with female is unnatural. And so again, the original design of a male and female is affirmed.

(1Corinthians 6:9-10)
9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate [
3120], nor homosexuals [733], 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.”

effeminate [3120] = malakos (mal-ak-os’), which means soft, effeminate, a male who dresses and/or acts as a female. Voluptuous. It could even refer to a catamite— a boy kept for homosexual practices.

homosexual [733] = arsenokoites (ar-sen-ok-oy’-tace), which is a compound of the word arsen (ar’-sane), which means male or man, and the word koite (koy’-tay), which primarily means “a place for lying down.” It also means the marriage bed and is used in reference to cohabitation and sexual intercourse. Thus, arsenokoites does mean a homosexual or a sodomite, which is a male who lies with a male as with a female. And that is the exact condemnation as it is written in Leviticus 18:22.

(1Corinthians 7:2)
“But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband.”

(1Timothy 1:9-10)
9 realizing the fact that law is not made for a righteous person, but for those who are lawless and rebellious, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers 10 and immoral men and homosexuals [
733] and kidnappers and liars and perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound teaching”

(1Timothy 3:2)
“An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach”

(1Timothy 3:12)
“Deacons must be husbands of only one wife, and good managers of their children and their own households.”

What about homosexuality in the animal kingdom? Doesn’t homosexual behavior in the animal kingdom prove it is natural? Well… are you a mere animal or are you a human being created in the image of GOD (Genesis 1:26-27)? Should the actions of animals really be imitated? Animals often murder other animals for nothing more than territorial issues. There have been several documented incidents where an animal murders another animal and doesn’t even eat it. Even for those that protect their own kind, do they love thy neighbor? Do they love their enemies? Some animals eat their young, but that doesn’t mean we should be cannibals. Dogs eat their own vomit. Not a good behavior to emulate (Proverbs 26:11; 1Peter 2:22). Some insects devour their partners after mating — please don’t do that. We simply cannot use animal behavior as a basis for morality or to justify our sinful desires. In fact, in most cases animals are the examples of what not to do (Psalm 49:20; 2Peter 2:12). Animals are unable to sin because they don’t have a mind capable of accountability nor do they have the moral law written on their hearts as humans do (Psalm 40:8; Jeremiah 31:33; Ezekiel 11:19; 36:26; Romans 2:15; 2Corinthians 3:3; Hebrews 8:10). Morality is objective. Without the absolute moral standard, everything would be mere preference and nothing could be wrong. Logic proves that moral relativism is absolutely absurd. We are not mere animals and we will be held accountable for our actions (Revelation 20:11-15).

So, can a gay person go to Heaven? I’m going to rephrase the question based on who GOD says we are. So, can human beings created in the image of GOD go to heaven even though they struggle with temptations? Yes! That’s the beauty of the Gospel! This is not homo vs hetero or us vs them ordeal. We all struggle with temptations. We’re all sinners who fall short of the glory of GOD. Is homosexual activity a sin? Yes. Stop trying to justify your sins. But you know what else is a sin? Adultery, divorce, lying, cheating, stealing, etc. The sad truth is that a lot of straight people are heading straight toward Hell. The good news is that our temptations don’t have to determine our direction and ultimate destination. So, how do sinful humans get to heaven? We repent, confess our sins, admit that we are incapable of saving ourselves, confess Christ Jesus as Lord and Savior, and place our trust in His finished work, get baptized in the Holy Spirit, and continue our process of sanctification while faithfully living out GOD’s Word in obedience. And through this process of sanctification, the Holy Spirit will produce fruit through us. But to answer your question, yes— a person who struggles with same-sex attraction can go to heaven because we don’t have to act on our temptations. In fact, we’re called to flee our temptations. GOD will give us our escape route. We just need to follow His lead.

In Matthew 19:3-9, Jesus said that in the beginning, they were created male and female. In addition, Jesus said that a man will leave his father and mother and will become one with his wife. Marriage was clearly identified as a union between a male and a female. Furthermore, Jesus specifically mentioned father and mother. Why? Because father is male and mother is female. No living thing, until GOD made woman, was capable of becoming one flesh with the man. In Genesis 2:18, GOD pronounced the absence of woman as being “not good” because it left man alone and incapable of accomplishing GOD’s purposes for humanity in His world. Scripture conveys marriage as being closely tied to procreation (biology confirms this).

Marriage is an institution created by GOD for unique and particular purposes. These purposes are evident even if GOD’s existence is denied. In light of the way GOD originally made the world, we can better see human relationships in the larger context of what GOD intended them to be. Only in recent decades has there been any sort of attempt to argue that the Bible does not expressly condemn sexual relationships of every kind outside the context of marriage. Jesus grounded His ideas about marriage in what we might call “GOD’s created intent.” The world in which we now live is not the way it was supposed to be. Homosexuality is an unnatural condition that GOD never intended, but which exists as one of many manifestations of fallen human nature. Just as a junkyard is not the best place to learn how to build cars, so too our corrupt culture, fallen and sinful society, and personal preferences aren’t the best place to learn how to build marriages. Junkyards usually reveal what comes of a creation when it is not properly cared for; the damage is evident.

Something or someone can exist without being aligned with the Design. What is common is not necessarily what is normal. Tetra-Amelia syndrome, for example, is not the Design; however, it exists. Cancer is common; however, it is not the Design and is not normal. Homosexuality is common; however, that orientation is not the Design and is not normal. Being born deaf or blind is not the Design; however, that happens. But should we despise or hate the abnormality of the person? Absolutely not. If you would not hate a person who has autism, you should not hate a person who is homosexual. They are both human beings. A sane and rational person would not hate someone for being blind; likewise, a sane and rational person would not hate a homosexual. Most people are fortunate enough to be born into the normal Design; however, some people are not.

GOD’s original intended Design was perfect; however, in a fallen world, humans continue to make choices that produce consequences that result in humans existing out of alignment. Rust is the privation of metal. Rot is the privation of wood. Cold is the privation of heat. Darkness is the privation of light. Hatred is the privation of love. Evil is the privation of GOD (objective moral standard). Though a person may be out of alignment, there is never a reason to hate a person who is out of alignment; in fact, a person out of alignment provides the need for love that can serve as an invitation back into alignment. We also do not have the authority to make the final judgement on those who willfully remain out of alignment or those who simply don’t have a means to be in alignment; however, Jesus did give us authority to preach GOD’s Word and only what GOD’s Word declares. We cannot tell others whether or not they are going to Heaven or Hell, but we have been given authority to remind others what is right and to share GOD’s Word. My opinion doesn’t matter, but we must not dismiss GOD’s Word. We are to never alter Truth to accommodate personal preference, desire, or sin. You can accept a person without agreeing with that person’s actions. You can disagree with someone and still love that person.

In John 9, you will find that Jesus healed a man who had been born blind. His disciples asked Jesus why that man had been born blind; they asked if he had sinned or if his parents had sinned. The disciples [wrongly] assumed that the blindness was GOD’s wrath against sin. Jesus responded:

“’It was not because of his sins or his parents’ sins,’ Jesus answered. ‘This happened so the power of God could be seen in him.’ ”
(John 9:3) -NLT

GOD has a plan. GOD’s wisdom is beyond our own comprehension (see Isaiah 55:8-9) and His Plan obviously involves loving others so that others will see the power of GOD. Nick Vujicic is a solid example of GOD’s power presented through those who don’t live within The Design. But then again… GOD is in control. GOD allows certain things to happen so that at the end of it all, the evidence will add up to either our guilty or innocent verdict. Do you not realize that this life is training for the next? Despite the abnormalities that exist here and now, GOD’s power and love will be revealed in Heaven when we are restored to our intended design. As Christians, we have but three duties:

  1. Love GOD
  2. Love others
  3. Preach the Gospel.

(3-a) Continue to love others – even if they refuse the Truth.

Is homosexuality the Design? No. But how are we to treat those who do not live within the Design? Are we not called to love them? Yet it is also our duty to speak the Truth. So how are we to handle situations such as these? GOD’s Word has the answer:

“Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church. He makes the whole body fit together perfectly. As each part does its own special work, it helps the other parts grow, so that the whole body is healthy and growing and full of love.”
(Ephesians 4:15-16) -NLT

“Make sure no outsider who now follows God ever has occasion to say, ‘God put me in second-class. I don’t really belong.’ And make sure no physically mutilated person is ever made to think, ‘I’m damaged goods. I don’t really belong.’ ”
(Isaiah 56:3) –MSG

Why Is It Important To Defend Marriage?:

Law tends to shape beliefs; beliefs shape behavior; beliefs and behavior affect human interests and human well-being. As we deprive marriage policy of definite shape, we deprive it of public purpose. The logic of rejecting the conjugal conception of marriage thus leads, by way of formlessness, toward pointlessness. Consider the following example by Maggie Gallagher:

“There is no reason in the world why we — or the law — cannot redefine ‘cat’ to mean ‘furry, domestic animal with four legs and a tail.’ Defining ‘cat’ in this way has certain advantages. It reveals the deep underlying similarities for example between those two formerly opposite classifications: ‘dog’ and ‘cat.’ Not to mention ‘gerbil,’ ‘rabbit,’ and ‘guinea pig.’ What is lost in redefining ‘cat’ in this way? Well, there is one little thing: we now no longer have a word that means ‘cat.’ If we want to speak to each other about cats, we will either have to invent a new term, and hope it will still communicate the full valence of the old word (rich with historic associations and symbolic over-tones), or we will have to do without a word for ‘cat’ at all. One might reasonably foresee, without charting all the particular specific mechanisms, that it might become harder to communicate an idea for which we no longer have any word.”

If we change the definition of a word, multiple other associated words would need to change as well. If you change the meaning of the word, you change the thing itself. Extending marriage to same-sex couples leaves us without a word for that unique relationship that has always been called marriage, whether in the Bible, from biology, or known throughout human history from anthropology. Changing the definition of marriage is an attempt to alter history in addition to the future.

Think about the abortion debate. Are opponents of abortion considered “pro-life” or “anti-choice” (or anti-woman, or anti-reproductive health, or religious fundamentalists)? Are proponents of abortion “pro-choice” or “pro-abortion” (or anti-life, or pro-murder, or godless secularists)? Is abortion a health-care issue, the elimination of tissue, or the taking of an innocent life? Words matter. (See my argument against abortion for my answer on this debate.)

Because words do matter, many people rely upon ‘experts’ to provide definitions of what is or what is not acceptable. The irony is that Truth is never to be considered absolute unless it benefits those who are attempting to alter Truth and change definitions. Why would an ‘expert’ make matters more definitive if Truth is relative? Who is an ‘expert’ anyway? Isn’t an ‘expert’ a mere human being who was simply dedicated to obtaining documentation from what could have been a biased educational institute? Would, then, an ‘expert’ be defined as someone who was committed to a cause for a specified amount of time? But should a commitment to a cause determine the ‘expert’ title? Wasn’t Dr. Josef Mengele committed to a cause? Wasn’t he committed to that cause for a long time? But was that cause right? By whose standards is right to be judged? Was Hitler’s cause based on the foundation of Truth? A true expert is one who knows Truth and lives by Truth in a commitment to the absolute moral standard of righteousness.

Redefining marriage redefines family and parenthood; however, multiple studies have already concluded that children fare better with both mother and father. The answer to family problems is to correct the problems, not redefine the family. What is marriage, then, if not the institution it’s always been? What defines it, if not essential characteristics like permanence, exclusivity and procreation? If marriage is simply defined by affection and companionship, then what would stop pedophiles from claiming discrimination? The truth is that the pedophile movement could not have made significant gains (like it has) if the gay-rights movement hadn’t paved the way by challenging the definition of marriage and restrictions on sexual behavior. In fact, the points that ‘experts’ made about homosexuality 40 years ago are the same points that are now being made regarding pedophilia. These points include the following:

  1. Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the American Psychiatric Association asserts that a pedophile has a diagnosable condition only if the person feels bad or anxious about what that person is doing. After all, it is believed by many that pedophilia is not a choice, it is simply the orientation that natural exists.
  2. William Pomeroy, formerly of the Alfred Kinsey Research Team, told Citizen magazine that adult/child sex can be “wonderful and beautiful,” adding that the only downside is that the consequences society applies against such behavior “can be absolutely horrendous.”
  3. According to Dr. John Money and many other advocates, pedophilia should be viewed as a sexual orientation, not a disease or a disorder.
  4. Many advocates of pedophilia believe that adult/child sexual relationships can be healthy, affirming, loving, thoughtful, and responsible way of life.

And if human beings are to be ‘fair’ to each other, how will it be possible to permit marriage to some and exclude others? At what point will tolerance topple Truth and take over? I say that it already has begun. The foundation has already crumbled and we are in the fall. The approval of same-sex marriages has already started the domino effect. Think about it. Why couldn’t a woman marry her dog that she loves? Some say that’s too far, but would it be? Once laws are changed for some, it becomes a violation against those who have not yet been included. Those who are not included cry out terms such as “discrimination,” “intolerance,” “hatred,” “bigotry,” and even “injustice.” But even if marriage remains to be between people only, why couldn’t brother and sister get married? Why can’t a 34-year old male marry a 13-year old female? Many cry out, “How can love be wrong?” But where is the line between right and wrong? The approval of one previously taboo practice paves the way and makes room for approval of the next, more serious taboo. Once Truth becomes relative, right is only in the sight of the beholder and consequences become obsolete. Happiness becomes their god and they sacrifice everyone for the sake of self.

At a practical level, redefining marriage based on the sincerity of a couple’s commitment or the depth of their affection disconnects marriage from procreation and family. And if not tied to procreation, why limit it to a couple? What if three people share a sincere commitment and deep affections? In the same name of fairness, marriage would have to be extended to consenting polygamous and polyamorous couples. Nor could marriage be restricted from incestuous couples, deeply committed friends, or those who believe pedophilia to be right. In this view, it’s difficult to see why any committed group of persons should be left out of marriage. Also, transgenderism has been making headlines in recent years and being forced into public schools. Children (influenced by indoctrination) are being allowed to proclaim their own identity without being of a mature age that would enable them to make such an informed and responsible decision. So if a child is supposedly mature enough to proclaim that he is actually a she (or vice versa), why wouldn’t that same child also be mature enough to proclaim that he/she is in love with a much older person? If that were so, marriage would be forced to also extend to that couple who shares affection with each other, thus granting marriage rights to those who believe pedophilia to be right.

Poly-Parents

Don’t think it could happen? Think again. It’s like Fair Housing laws. Once we allow for one, we must allow for all. But is that right? My argument is no  – it is wrong. It’s wrong because the definition should not be changed; the definition should not be changed because the Design has not changed.

Pedophilia

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To use hate as an excuse to dismiss the increasingly sophisticated arguments for traditional marriage is intellectually dishonest and cowardly, and it is a textbook example of the logical fallacy known as ad hominem (attacking the character or motivations of those presenting the arguments instead of dealing with their arguments). Claiming discrimination assumes a new definition of marriage as proof for the new definition. It’s circular reasoning.

Marriage “equality,” as this is being called, is illogical when examining the definition of marriage. The equality of all persons does not equal the equality of all lifestyles or all relationships. For example, the mere fact that all persons are created equal does not mean that polygamy, ancestral marriage, or pedophilia ought therefore to be made legal. We cannot move logically from the equality of persons to the equality of actions, choices, lifestyles, or relationships. It simply does not follow.

Conclusion:

Marriage offers the world a picture of the fidelity, commitment and love that GOD has for His people. As created, marriage enabled male and female to reflect GOD’s image together. As redeemed, marriage reflects Christ’s love for the Church. Marriage, when properly practiced, brings security and stability to a society that no other relationship can bring. Redefining marriage is unnecessary, unreasonable, and contrary to the common good. Marriage will always be what marriage was created to be, regardless of what activists, judges, runaway legislatures or majority of voters decide. In a world that continues to disregard GOD and practice unrighteousness, we must not conform, but be transformed by the renewal of our minds (Romans 12:1-2), align ourselves in GOD’s will and rise above. If we have to choose between obedience to GOD and obedience to any human authority, then we must obey GOD (Acts 4:19-20; 5:29).

Because the one male and one female of a proper age of maturity is a created normalcy, it trumps all cultural or personal attempts to alter it. Truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it emotionally. We simply must not meet a legitimate need in an illegitimate way. Humans can cover up Truth; however, Truth can never be erased and will one day be known. All that is concealed will eventually be revealed (Job 12:22; Daniel 2:22;  Mark 4:22; Luke 8:17; 12:3).

Call To Action:

GOD commands us to speak the Truth out from love (Ephesians 4:15). GOD also commands us to humble ourselves (Psalms 22:26; James 4:10; 1Peter 5:5-7) and confess our sins to one another so that we may be saved (James 5:16; 1John 1:9).

In terms of cultural significance, silence either signifies irrelevance or complete victory. To not offer any guidance on same-sex marriage to the next generation is a dereliction of duty. We cannot remain silent on such an important issue such as marriage; however, we must speak the truth out from love.

May it be known that our responsibility is bigger than merely fighting against same-sex marriage; our responsibility is to fight for marriage. Failed marriages burden innocent bystanders, including children and ultimately all society. This means that we need to humble ourselves and confess our sins regarding marriage. Marriage is not what it should be in the present because marriage has been taken for granted in the past. How can we boldly proclaim the importance of marriage when the sins of heterosexual natural design marriage have been swept under the rug? We are guilty! We must confess our own sins and correct the situation! As Christians, the only way to defend marriage is to defend marriage from all that is attacking it.

What has been attacking marriage for years? Unreasonable expectations, promiscuity (see “Sex Matters” article) and attachment to wrong people, adultery, pornography (see my argument against pornography), abuse, and divorce! It is estimated there is one divorce every 13 seconds! That’s over 46,000 divorces a week! It is also estimated that divorce alone costs local, state, and federal government $33 billion each year! For these reasons and much more, GOD hates divorce. We need to stand up and speak out for the truth and good of marriage! But ignorance to GOD’s design for marriage is evident. Those who do not understand and cannot articulate the meaning of marriage will either be unwilling or unable to stand against that which compromises it. Marriage must be both taught and portrayed as an institution that is bigger than our desires, whims, feelings and affections. If we are to defend marriage from same-sex marriage, we must honestly acknowledge and confess our own failings about sex and marriage. Like it or not, same-sex marriage exists because heterosexuals did not live in alignment with GOD’s design for marriage; consequently, the beauty of marriage had been pulled through the mud and made to look unappealing and open to subjection. Yes — it’s our fault. Are you ready to accept responsibility for the damage we have done? I am.

“Why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but don’t notice the log in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me take out the speck that is in your eye,’ when you yourself don’t see the log in your eye? Hypocrite! First take the log out of your eye, and then you will see clearly to take out the speck in your brother’s eye.”
(Luke 6: 41-42)

The most important question is not “What are we going to do about same-sex marriage?” It is “What are we going to do for marriage?” Marriage of one male and one female of a proper mature age is unquestionably a beautiful union of two who become one. However, we (heterosexuals) have become our own worst enemy because we have been neglecting GOD’s design for marriage for years. Too often, homosexuality is singled out as “what’s wrong with America” while other sexual sins get to slide with a free pass. This is wrong. There is no path forward to building a strong marriage culture that does not begin with a revival of GOD’s people to His design for marriage. We must focus on getting our own houses in order before trying to correct those outside the Church. If our light shines bright, those living in the darkness will notice and will be attracted toward the light. The way out of distress is not, in the first instance, via political change, but by repentance, leading to revival and renewal.

If we are truly aware of how much we have been forgiven, we will have more compassion for homosexual people. This does not mean an approval of homoerotic behavior; rather, it simply means to accept them for who they are and to be empathetic toward them and the battle they struggle against. I have interviewed many people who proclaim themselves to be homosexual and read many more testimonies others have written. I personally do not believe their orientation to be a choice any more than it is my choice to be attracted to anyone I might lust after. But we need to understand that the lust is not a must.

“A thorn in the flesh was given to me, a messenger of Satan to torment me so I would not exalt myself. Concerning this, I pleaded with the Lord three times to take it away from me. But He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.’ Therefore, I will most gladly boast all the more about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may reside in me.”
(2Corinthians 12:7-9) -HCSB

Like Paul and many other people, I also suffer from “a thorn in the flesh.” Like Paul, I have prayed fervently, desperately, with frustration, anger, or even tears on multiple occasions for GOD to take away this “thorn” in my flesh. But just as GOD did not take away Paul’s “thorn,” neither has GOD removed mine. People are sometimes wired differently and there ends up being a glitch in what would otherwise be a normal development. Most people are fortunate enough to be born into the normal Design; however, some people are not. Whatever degree of ‘construction’ and ‘nurture’ had conspired with genetic or chemical or hormonal hardwiring to produce my sexual orientation, I have not been able to change my orientation regardless of my spiritual growth. Logic is able to lead us to Truth, but logic cannot fight the battles of emotions we face. We all have our battles we must fight. Some of us have desires that must go unfulfilled that bring us to feel lonely, alienated, isolated, rejected, and fearful of always being alone with brokenness to feel like damaged goods and unloved. I initially believed that by ignoring my “thorn,” it would eventually go away and thereby make my depression go away. That didn’t work. Ignoring is not the path to redeeming. To overcome it, I had to confess it, confront it, and conquer it (with GOD’s help).

As long as we think we are better, or overlook our own sins of pride, gluttony, gossip, greed, lust, sloth, envy, or wrath, we will be unable to truly love homosexual people (and really all people) with the love Jesus wants us to demonstrate. Recognizing the depth of our own sin will help us be more gracious with others. We all struggle and not one of us is without sin (Ecclesiastes 7:20; Romans 3:10). Repentance enables us to speak and act in truth and love. The church is to be the safe place where everyone can share each other’s burdens and collectively conquer while overcoming temptation.

The sins we now face challenge us because we invited them in and allowed them to flourish. How did we get to this point? Why is it necessary to defend marriage? In October 2005, wildlife researchers with the South Florida Natural Resources Center found a dead 13-foot python with a 6-foot alligator inside it, with its tail protruding from a hole in the python. The alligator had been the python’s last meal, but the python’s desire proved to be larger than life and it simply wasn’t able to handle all that it desired. What about us? Are our eyes bigger than our bellies? How did we get here? Charles Darwin (1809-1882), Sigmund Freud (1856-1939), Margaret Sanger (1879-1966), Alfred Kinsey (1894-1956), Mary Calderone (1904-1998), Hugh Hefner (1926-?), the Mattachine Society (1950) and Daughters of Bilitis organization (1955), the swingers and hippies of the 1960’s, no-fault divorce law of 1969, Stonewall riots (1969), Roe vs Wade (1973), American Psychiatric Association deleted homosexuality from its list of disorders (1973), Madonna (1958-?), Lawrence vs Texas (2003), acceptance and growth of pornography (see my argument against pornography), the entertainment industry, the advertisement industry, and the avalanche of advocates for all that is abhorrent have all slowly (see my argument, “Subtle”) added up to the current corruption of culture within a sin-filled society defined by sex and lust rather than love (see my argument, “What Are You Creating?”). There was Proposition 8 of 2010, and then eventually, on June 26, 2015, the Supreme Court overruled GOD’s Word and redefined the definition of marriage and ruled that homosexual marriage be legal in all states. And this of course, is now leading to acceptance of other taboos such as polygamy, polyandry, incest, and pedophilia.

What has it all amounted to? It has all led to people who are now callous, desensitized, and rebellious. Should we tolerate tolerance? The slow changes never caused concern nor set off any alarms. The changes were slow enough that they were accepted and integrated, bit by bit, piece by piece. With expansion came clout and, more importantly, the power of persuasion. We have become desensitized and overly sexualized. We have let go of love and set aside the absolute moral standard.

In 1899, P. J. Conlon wrote for Monthly Journal of the International Association of Machinists that “[people] believe everything they see in the newspapers. If the newspaper says the sky is painted with green chalk that is what goes. Verily, I say unto you, the public is a hot mess.”

Many people who call themselves progressive don’t realize how archaic they actually are. People still believe what the media tells them to believe and then they paint over Truth with their preferred color arrangement and imagery and believe they have made a substantial change. A “hot mess” isn’t something new either. But unlike its original meaning, people have painted it over with an arrogant and ignorant idea that someone who is a mess can be sexy and that somehow warrants being desired. Altering Truth to accommodate personal preference doesn’t push progress; rather, it holds us back. We must separate feelings from facts. We must not allow emotion to direct our reasoning; rather, we need to find the reason for the emotion. Social change and personal experiences are relevant, but they don’t determine Truth. Archaeologists unearth remarkable relics that testify to Truth. What if the bystanders threw the dirt back in the pit as the archaeologists were attempting to dig the Truth out? That’s not progress. And neither is the painting of personal preferences over GOD’s Word.

People can be sincere, yet sincerely wrong. Their sincerity doesn’t make their wrong to be right, nor does their wrongness prove they are insincere. To be both is not only possible, it’s painfully common. But again, what is common should not always be considered normal. If you examine the big picture, it is evident that we have swallowed too much sin. We need to purge ourselves of the poisonous sin we have consumed before it’s too late. Like the python that died by swallowing a thrashing alligator, we are choking on our own choices of too much sin. We have swallowed the serpent’s sin and accepted the adversary’s advice because it was labeled as “fun.” We are choking on our desires. It’s not too late! We can still turn this around! But we must heed the warnings and repent! We the people are made in the image of GOD; male and female united together is the image of marriage; marriage is the image of the covenant of Christ and Church; and the covenant is the image of love between GOD and His creation. If we defile marriage, we defy GOD. Please remember that an increase of deception and an abandonment of Truth for the sake of personal preferences, desires, and sins is a sign of the end times (2Timothy 3:1-9; 4:3-4).

The origin of hypocrisy is in the inability to see yourself clearly. Before GOD’s Word is used as a telescope or microscope to reveal others’ sins, it must first be a mirror for yourself. Are we to ignore conviction to accommodate convenience and comfort?  I spent years confessing my sins and battling and overcoming my shortcomings. I’m not perfect right now, but I currently believe myself to be in alignment with GOD’s will. What do you need to repent of right now? How have you personally defied GOD by denying the covenant Design of marriage? It is true that homosexuality is not in alignment with the Design, but neither is promiscuousness, sex outside of marriage, adultery, or divorce.

“Some Pharisees approached [Jesus] to test Him. They asked, ‘Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife on any grounds?’ ‘Haven’t you read,’ He replied, ‘that He who created them in the beginning made them male and female,’ and He also said: ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two will become one flesh? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, man must not separate.’ ‘Why then,’ they asked Him, ‘did Moses command us to give divorce papers and to send her away?’ He told them, ‘Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because of the hardness of your hearts. But it was not like that from the beginning. And I tell you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.’ ”
(Matthew 19:3-9)

“If we say, ‘We have no sin,’ we are deceiving ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say, ‘We don’t have any sin,’ we make Him a liar, and His word is not in us.”
(1John 1:8-10) -HCSB

Christ frees us from the power of sin (Romans 6:14) as we become new beings in Him (2Corinthians 5:17). By this we are certain that any sin condemned in Scripture can be overcome by GOD’s grace. We can believe something to be wrong and repent, yet still be tempted toward it. But sinful acts can be stopped. Temptations may stop, though usually not completely; however, temptations often decrease in power when righteousness is practiced. Temptations, to whatever extent they remain, can be resisted and do not need to define the individual. If behavior, self-identification, relational patterns, and general spiritual and emotional well-being have increased, then the individual has changed. The Bible never guarantees that renunciation of sin will prevent future temptation; however, the individual is promised the ability to resist temptations the may come:

“So, whoever thinks he stands must be careful not to fall. No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to humanity. God is faithful, and He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation He will also provide a way of escape so that you are able to bear it.”
(1Corinthians 10:12-13)

GOD has not taken my “thorn” away, but Jesus took the crown of thorns for us in order for us to be able to escape temptation and conquer bad behaviors by replacing them with righteous practices. What do you need to repent of today? How can you shine your light and show the world the beauty of marriage that GOD intended? We must shine if those in the darkness are to ever find their way.

Invitation:

It’s about battling together for holiness, in repentance and faith, on a daily basis. It’s about the church being the church, as we all struggle toward holiness. I don’t know if you’ve shared your struggle with anyone else, but if you haven’t, you need to do so. We all need each other because we all fight battles. If you want to confess your battle so that you can confront it and conquer it, I will make myself available for you. If you need prayer, I’ll pray for you. If you want someone to help you with accountability, I will be that person for you. I am unable to compromise on Truth, but I am willing to accept you as you are as we both strive to become who GOD intends for us to be.

“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.”
(Proverbs 27:17) –NIRV

“A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.”
(Ecclesiastes 4:12) –NLT

“Make sure no outsider who now follows God ever has occasion to say, ‘God put me in second-class. I don’t really belong.’ And make sure no physically mutilated person is ever made to think, ‘I’m damaged goods. I don’t really belong.’ ”
(Isaiah 56:3) –MSG

“Where two or three people meet together in my name, I am there with them.”
(Matthew 18:20) –NIRV

“Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.”
(James 5:16) –NLT