Chronological Study (002/365)

Genesis 4:1 – 5:32 / 1Chronicles 1:1-4 / Genesis 6:1-22


FRUIT OF THE WOMB

Genesis 4:1-2 says, “1 Now the man had relations with his wife Eve, and she conceived and gave birth to Cain, and she said, ‘I have gotten a manchild with the help of the Lord.’ Again, she gave birth to his brother Abel. And Abel was a keeper of flocks, but Cain was a tiller of the ground.”

Just as a spouse is a gift from the Lord, Eve rightly proclaimed that getting pregnant is also a gift from the Lord. The name “Cain” is the Hebrew קַיִן [H7014] qayin (kah’-yin), which means “acquired.” Without the Lord, conception would never happen. Apart from the Source, we can do nothing (John 1:3; 15:5). For this reason, Solomon would later write in Psalm 127:3, “Behold, children are a gift of the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward.”

And Solomon’s father, David, proclaimed in Psalm 139:13-16, “13 For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother’s womb. 14 I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well. 15 My frame was not hidden from You, When I was made in secret, And skillfully wrought in the depths of the earth; 16 Your eyes have seen my unformed substance; And in Your book were all written The days that were ordained for me, When as yet there was not one of them.”

But why are we fearfully and wonderfully made? Because we are all made in the image of GOD (Genesis 1:26-27).

If no female can ever become pregnant without the help from the Lord who forms the baby within the womb, and all humans are created in the image of GOD, and all children are gifts from GOD, how would GOD describe the act of an abortion?
If you have children, when was the last time you thanked GOD for your family?
I don’t have a wife. I don’t have children. I don’t have a family of my own. So, if you do, be thankful.


CAIN AND ABEL

Genesis 4:3-8 says, “So it came about in the course of time that Cain brought an offering to the Lord of the fruit of the ground. Abel, on his part also brought of the firstlings of his flock and of their fat portions. And the Lord had regard for Abel and for his offering; but for Cain and for his offering He had no regard. So Cain became very angry and his countenance fell. Then the Lord said to Cain, ‘Why are you angry? And why has your countenance fallen? If you do well, will not your countenance be lifted up? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door; and its desire is for you, but you must master it.’Cain told Abel his brother. And it came about when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother and killed him. ”

The story of Cain and Abel reveals a lot about GOD’s plan for salvation and His absolute moral standard. We can be angry, but we should never sin in our anger (Psalm 4:4; Ephesians 4:26). Yet Cain murdered his own brother, Abel, who happened to be a shepherd. The name “Abel” is wordplay of the Hebrew הֶבֶל [H1893 / H1892] heḇel (heh’-bel), which means a breath, implying a life that vanishes almost as soon as it began. In fact, to even say the word, one would need to exhale a single breath. Not only does the author of Ecclesiastes use the word to imply a life that is meaningless, but in Job 7:16, the word is used to express Job’s sorrow of how he feels his life is soon coming to an end and amounting to nothing. Essentially, the word means short-lived, vanity, futility of futilities, and something like vapor, smoke, or wind that cannot be grasped and held, nor does it remain long enough to even be held.

But why did GOD reject Cain’s offering and accept Abel’s offering? It is written that Cain offered “of the fruit of the ground” whereas Abel offered “of the firstlings of his flock and of their fat portions.” But what’s the difference? Leviticus 3:16 informs us that “all fat is the Lord’s” – that is exactly what Abel brought. Deuteronomy 15:19 says, “You shall consecrate to the Lord your God all the firstborn males that are born of your herd and of your flock” – that is exactly what Abel brought.

But what about Cain? Deuteronomy 26:2 says, “you shall take some of the first of all the produce of the ground which you bring in.” And then 26:10-11 concludes by saying, “10 ‘Now behold, I have brought the first of the produce of the ground which You, O Lord have given me.’ And you shall set it down before the Lord your God, and worship before the Lord your God; 11 and you and the Levite and the alien who is among you shall rejoice in all the good which the Lord your God has given you and your household.”

Though GOD commanded these laws later on for the Israelites, it seems evident that He had instructed both Cain and Abel as to what He deemed acceptable offerings because Abel did exactly what is later described and his offering was accepted. Abel presented a sacrificial offering by giving his best out from love and genuine faith whereas Cain’s offering was not described as his first fruits or his best. In fact, Hebrews 11:4 informs us that Abel offered a better sacrifice than Cain because he offered in genuine faith (which GOD considered righteousness). And 1John 3:12 informs us that Cain’s deeds were evil whereas Abel’s deeds were righteous. John continues in 3:15, “Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer; and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him.” Therefore, it all boiled down to a heart issue. There was no love in Cain, nor did he possess genuine faithful obedience out from a loving relationship with the Lord; consequently, his offering was rejected. Cain’s heart issue was evident in the fact that his anger led him to murder his own brother even though GOD had warned him in advance that if he did right, he would be accepted. GOD also warned him in advance that “sin is crouching at the door; and its desire is for you, but you must master it.” Though sin had first been introduced in chapter 3, it is here that “sin” is named for the first time, as the Hebrew חַטָּאָת [H2403] ḥaṭṭā’āṯ (khat-taw-aw’), which seems to imply someone being guilty of wrongdoing whenever this word is used. Sin, overall, is a failure to conform to GOD’s Law in thought, feeling, attitude, word, action, orientation, or nature. In this definition it must be remembered that GOD’s Law is an expression of His perfect and Holy character, so sin is not merely the violation of an impersonal law but rather is a personal offense against the Creator according to our design and purpose. For this reason, sin has the meaning of missing the mark. However, this does not mean that sin is reduced to a mere mistake or an oversight. The point is not that a person simply misses the mark of what GOD requires; instead, it is that he/she is aiming for the wrong target altogether (Exodus 34:9; Deuteronomy 9:18). Regardless of whether missing the mark is intentional or not, the individual is still responsible (Leviticus 4:2-31; Numbers 15:30). Ultimately, sin is departing from the right path or “the way”.

Genesis 4:9-15 says, “Then the Lord said to Cain, ‘Where is Abel your brother?’ And he said, ‘I do not know. Am I my brother’s keeper?10 He said, ‘What have you done? The voice of your brother’s blood is crying to Me from the ground. 11 Now you are cursed from the ground, which has opened its mouth to receive your brother’s blood from your hand. 12 When you cultivate the ground, it will no longer yield its strength to you; you will be a vagrant and a wanderer on the earth.’ 13 Cain said to the Lord, ‘My punishment is too great to bear! 14 Behold, You have driven me this day from the face of the ground; and from Your face I will be hidden, and I will be a vagrant and a wanderer on the earth, and whoever finds me will kill me.’ 15 So the Lord said to him, ‘Therefore whoever kills Cain, vengeance will be taken on him sevenfold.’ And the Lord appointed a sign for Cain, so that no one finding him would slay him.”

The fact that Abel was a shepherd seems significant in foreshadowing the death of Christ. The sin of man murders an innocent shepherd, slaughtered like a lamb, and the shepherd’s blood was spilled out. When GOD asked Cain for the location of Abel’s body, GOD was seeking to hear a confession; however, Cain lied and spoke as if Satan himself would have responded. Cain’s prideful and arrogant response to GOD was essentially this: “Am I to watch over my worthless and helpless brother like he watched over his helpless sheep? Is he not Abel [able] to be his own master like I am my own master? After all, aren’t You supposed to be his guardian? And yet You failed to protect Abel and now You want to know where I’ve hid his dead corpse?” In response to Cain’s pride, GOD pronounced judgment upon Cain that he is cursed in relation to the ground (Deuteronomy 27:24; Numbers 35:33-34), which he defiled by the spilling of his brother’s blood, that the ground will not produce to its full potential for him, he will barely get by, and he won’t truly belong anywhere as he travels about as a wanderer. Cain’s response reveals his pride: “My… me… I… I… me… me.” But why did GOD say that He wouldn’t allow anyone to kill Cain? Well, first and foremost, because GOD is love (1John 4:8,16), He desired to prevent anymore evil murders. But also, as Cain admitted, being cursed to barely get by and wander was a punishment he felt was too great to bear. Yet it would indeed be his judgment to bear. In addition, this judgment revealed not only GOD’s strictness regarding His holiness, but also revealed His love and patience even toward Cain, which showcases how GOD gives people time to repent (Ezekiel 18; 2Peter 3:9).

Cain was a cultivator of the ground and worked only to benefit himself. For this reason, GOD’s punishment for Cain deprived him of his livelihood. As Cain’s name suggested (“acquired”), he was only interested in receiving for himself. This selfishness and wickedness is the essence of sin. Pride. The contrast between Cain and Abel is that of receiving and giving; however, it is written that it is better to give than receive (Acts 20:35). Also, Proverbs 21:27 tells us that the sacrifice of an evil person is detestable – especially when offered with wrong motives.  GOD later clarifies that obedience is better than sacrifice (1Samuel 15:22). Further, we are not to give reluctantly, under compulsion or out from obligation, but only because we truly desire to give (2Corinthians 9:7). Simply put, we are to offer our best and do what’s right by trusting in the Lord (Psalm 4:5). GOD tells us that we must master sin or it will master us. Cain was the first murderer (Genesis 4:8) and liar (4:9). He was without remorse and had no genuine repentance — he only cared about himself (4:13-14). However, it is written that Satan was a murderer from the beginning and the father of lies; furthermore, all who sin are children of Satan, not the Lord, because they do as their father does (John 8:44). But because GOD told Satan that the Seed of woman would crush him (Genesis 3:15), Satan convinced one of Eve’s seed to murder her other seed! And with Abel’s murder came a prideful boast from Satan that the only seed remaining was his child, not GOD’s.

How often do you sin in your anger? Do you control your anger or does your anger control you?
Do you present everything to GOD by doing your best, out from your love, with genuine faith, and with a desire for a real relationship?
If you were to present a sacrifice to GOD in our modern era, what would it be? Why would it be a sacrifice on your end? What would you lose? What would you gain?
According to GOD’s design and purpose for you, in what ways do you think you have missed the mark, departed from the right path, “the way”?
How much time do you spend focusing on yourself and concentrating on your wants?
Are you typically one who desires to give, or one who desires to receive?
Even if you do give, do you give reluctantly, under compulsion, or out from obligation? Or do you give because you delight in giving your gift?
Do you truly comprehend how loving GOD is while He patiently waits, desiring for us to repent?
Is there anything you need to repent from doing right now?


LAMECH’s SIN

Genesis 4:19 says, “Lamech took to himself two wives: the name of the one was Adah, and the name of the other, Zillah.”

Lamech, who descended from Cain, took for himself two wives. Take notice that he followed the same sinful pattern that Eve had done: he saw, he desired, he listened to instructions that did not come from GOD, and then he took action and committed sin against GOD’s design. Though Scripture describes the event, GOD does not prescribe polygyny / polyandry. There is a difference between acceptance of polygamy and approval of polygamy. To define marriage, we need only to examine the original design where GOD gave Adam only one female who came from his side in order to complement and complete him. Marriage should be defined as a covenant between one male and one female, both being of a proper age of maturity that would enable a mutual consent to a lifelong partnership that is designed to unite the two as one in a committed relationship of equal service in love. The union of the two as one should not be detached, divided, disconnected or divorced unless death separates them or the sin of sexual immorality defiles the covenant and creates a chasm between the commitment that would cause division. The monogamous male-female union, introduced in Genesis 2:21-24, is the only model of sexual behavior consistently praised in both Old and New Testaments. (Genesis 1:27-28; 2:18,23-24; Leviticus 18:22; 20:13; Deuteronomy 17:17; Malachi 2:14-16; Matthew 19:4-6; Romans 1:26-27; 1Corinthians 6:9-10; 7:2; 1Timothy 1:9-10; 3:2,12; Titus 1:6)

Jesus said that in the beginning, they were created male and female; in addition, Jesus said that a man will leave his father and mother and will become one with his wife. Marriage was clearly identified as a union between one male and one female. Furthermore, Jesus specifically mentioned father and mother. Why? Because father is male and mother is female. No living thing, until GOD made woman, was capable of becoming one flesh with the man. In Genesis 2:18, GOD pronounced the absence of woman as being “not good” because it left man alone and incapable of accomplishing GOD’s purposes for humanity in His world. Scripture conveys marriage as being closely tied to procreation (biology confirms this). In addition, we must realize that the design of marriage as 1 + 1 = 1 is an image of humanity in relationship with the One true GOD (Hosea; Ephesians 5:22-33). And if marriage is a picture of our relationship with GOD, then multiple wives or husbands would be the same as humans being able to have multiple gods; however, Scripture is clear that we are to only be in relationship with One GOD (Deuteronomy 6:4; Matthew 22:37). Thus, GOD’s design for marriage was disregarded and broken when Lamech chose to be unfaithful to his first wife by taking a second wife. And just as GOD eventually permitted divorce due to a hardness of heart (Matthew 19:8; Mark 10:4-9), GOD also permitted polygamy for the same reason. GOD honors our free will. But again, the fact that GOD allowed it to happen does not mean that GOD approved of it. Another reason GOD may have allowed it was due to the fact that a woman’s value was largely unrecognized; women were typically viewed as property, and were usually unable to provide for themselves because men owned and controlled everything. In light of this, GOD might have allowed multiple women to be under the umbrella of one man so that they might at least have provision and protection. While definitely not the design nor the ideal, living in a polygamist’s palace might have been better than the alternatives: prostitution, slavery, or starvation. However, the decision to disregard GOD’s design produced many problems. Multiple partners always created conflict, confusion, identity crises, and even led to idolatry (examine the lives of Abraham + Sarah + Hagar, or Jacob + Leah + Rachel, or even Solomon + hundreds). Any addition to GOD’s design is a subtraction in quality of life and a division of loyalty, which ultimately leads to multiplied problems.

If you are a male and have a wife, are you loyal to her alone? If you are a female and have a husband, are you loyal to him alone? Do you love your spouse with the faithful commitment that GOD has for you?
Knowing that Cain’s sin against GOD’s design originated from when he first saw and desired that other woman, what can you do to prevent yourself from stepping into the phase of desiring what does not belong to you?


TWO PATHS

Genesis 4:19-20 describes how Lamech’s descendants possessed good qualities, such as being able to raise livestock, create music, or even forge with metal. Although Cain’s descendants could have used those good qualities for good works, it seems they still chose a path of violence. In Matthew 5:45, Jesus said that the Father “causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.” Again, this only showcases GOD’s goodness in His patience for people to repent (Ezekiel 18; 2Peter 3:9). Sadly, Lamech refused repentance, chose instead to live a wicked life, and therefore traveled down the wrong path.

Genesis 4:23-24 says, “23 Lamech said to his wives, ‘Adah and Zillah, Listen to my voice, You wives of Lamech, Give heed to my speech, For I have killed a man for wounding me; And a boy for striking me; 24 If Cain is avenged sevenfold, Then Lamech seventy-sevenfold.”

Reminiscent of Cain’s pride and murder, Lamech echoes both his ancestor (Cain) and Satan who possessed his relative: “my… Lamech… my… I… me… me… Lamech.”

Genesis 4:25-26 says, “25 Adam had relations with his wife again; and she gave birth to a son, and named him Seth, for, she said, ‘God has appointed me another offspring in place of Abel, for Cain killed him.’ 26 To Seth, to him also a son was born; and he called his name Enosh. Then men began to call upon the name of the Lord.”

Satan tried to eliminate the Seed (3:15) who would eventually crush his head in GOD’s perfect timing, but Seth was born in place of Abel. The Seed is still coming and there’s nothing Satan can do to thwart GOD’s perfect plan. And so Genesis 4-5 highlights that two distinct groups emerged out from Cain and Seth: those who showed indifference to sin and evil, and those who worshipped the Lord; those who desired to live wicked lives, and those who desired to live righteously. From Seth’s line, “men began to call upon the name of the Lord.” This is an expression used elsewhere throughout Scripture to describe people praying to GOD (Genesis 12:8; 26:25; 1Kings 18:24; 2Kings 5:11; Joel 2:32). Therefore, Cain’s line represents the unsaved whereas Seth’s line represents those who will be saved because they call upon the name of the Lord (Joel 2:32; Acts 2:21; Romans 10:13).

In Genesis 4:17-18, Scripture states that from Cain came Enoch, followed by Irad, Mehujael, Methushael, and then Lamech. However, Genesis 5:1-32 informs us that from Seth came Enosh, followed by Kenan, Mahalalel, Jared, Enoch, Methuselah, Lamech, and then Noah. At first glance, the genealogy accounts seem to be a contradiction because both Cain and Seth have an “Enoch” and a “Lamech” from their lines; however, further examination reveals that the names being the same on both sides was intentional. What Satan desired to corrupt and destroy from Cain’s line, GOD used from Seth’s line to produce a righteous people who sought Him in prayer. From Cain’s line, beginning with Adam, the genealogy of seven generations symbolizes the completion or end of the line. As seven symbolizes completeness, Cain’s line leads to a complete disaster in Lamech’s prideful rant about his murderous rage. In stark contrast, from Seth’s line, beginning with Adam, the seventh generation is Enoch, of which Genesis 5:24 says, “Enoch walked with God; and he was not, for God took him.” Further, the extension of Seth’s line beyond the seventh generation to Noah identifies this as the line of hope. In stark contrast to the wicked Lamech of Cain’s line, the righteous Lamech of Seth’s line named his son Noah in Genesis 5:29, saying, “This one will give us rest from our work and from the toil of our hands arising from the ground which the Lord has cursed.” Cain’s line looked back and stressed vengeance and violence, but Seth’s line looks forward in hope to the one who will give them rest. But who is the true One who will give us rest? In Matthew 11:28, Jesus said, “Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest.”

Both Cain’s line and Seth’s line produced an “Enoch” and a “Lamech”; both were given opportunities; both possessed good qualities that could have been used for good purposes. However, the line that was blessed was the line that walked with GOD and called upon the name of the Lord.

Suppose your name is Lamech. Are you from the line of Cain or the line of Seth? Are you on the side of wickedness or righteousness? Are you on the side of judgment or blessing?
Are you walking with GOD? Are you calling upon the name of the Lord?
Cain’s line was granted a lifetime of opportunities to repent because GOD is loving and patient. But what about you? How many sins has GOD permitted you to commit without yet receiving judgment for those sins? Have you repented from your sins or are you taking advantage of GOD’s love like Cain’s line had done?
Seth is proof that generational curses do not exist. You don’t have to follow in the footsteps of your ancestors if your ancestors chose to live wicked lives. You can be the one who changes the direction of where your family line goes by simply making a decision to call upon the name of the Lord and start walking with GOD. Through Genesis 4-5, the Lord informs us that there exists only two paths: unsaved and saved. So, which path do you choose? Which direction will you and your family go?
Do you want rest? Who is the One who will give you rest? Are you willing to go to Him, learn from Him, and allow Him to guide you?


THE NEPHILIM

Genesis 6:1-4 says, “Now it came about, when men began to multiply on the face of the land, and daughters were born to them, that the sons of God saw that the daughters of men were beautiful; and they took wives for themselves, whomever they chose. Then the Lord said, ‘My Spirit shall not strive with man forever, because he also is flesh; nevertheless his days shall be one hundred and twenty years.” The Nephilim were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of men, and they bore children to them. Those were the mighty men who were of old, men of renown.”

Men אָדָם [H120] ‘āḏām (aw-dahm’) began to multiply. The only way humans can multiply is if a male sperm becomes one with a female egg and the miracle of conception occurs. Humans were increasing in number and filling the earth just as GOD had commanded them to do (Genesis 1:28); however, not all increase is good. As they increased in number (which was good), they also increased in wickedness (which was evil).

It is written that the “sons of God saw that the daughters of men were beautiful; and took wives for themselves, whomever they chose.” The phrase “sons of God” (sons of [H430] Elohim) only appears here in this passage and again in Job 1:6; 2:1; 38:7. However, the phrase “sons of the Mighty” (sons of [H410] El) appears in Psalms 29:1; 89:6. In 29:1, the phrase could be referring to either men or angels, but in 89:6, it seems to refer to heavenly beings (angels) who are part of the divine counsel (great assembly of GOD). In the book of Job, the phrase seems to refer to angels. However, the Hebrew מַלְאָךְ [H4397] mal’āḵ (mal-awk’), is used 111 times in the Old Testament to specifically refer to angels. So, if “sons of God” was meant to refer to angels, then why not use the Hebrew mal’āḵ so as to avoid confusion? In the New Testament, in Matthew 5:9, Jesus, speaking about humans, says, “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.” And in Luke 20:34-36, Jesus, again speaking about humans, says, “34 The sons of this age marry and are given in marriage, 35 but those who are considered worthy to attain to that age and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry nor are given in marriage; 36 for they cannot even die anymore, because they are like angels, and are sons of God, being sons of the resurrection.” Moreover, in Galatians 3:26, Paul, referring to humans, wrote, “you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus.” So, even if both angels and mere men are called “sons of God”, what does it truly mean to be a “son” of GOD – especially in proper context within the specified passage?

That word for “son” is the Hebrew בֵּן [H1121] bēn (bane), which can mean son, children, people, or even a member of a group, guild, order, or class. This is the same word used in Genesis 3:16 when GOD promised Eve that “In pain you will bring forth children.” The word is also used in 4:17 to refer to Cain’s son, Enoch; in 4:25 to refer to Adam’s son, Seth; in 4:26 to refer to Seth’s son, Enosh; and all throughout the entire fifth chapter of Genesis to refer to the multitude of sons who came from Adam. And because the sixth chapter of Genesis is continuing the story of Adam and Eve’s genealogy, it is most reasonable to believe from proper context that the “sons of God” refer to all male children who came from Adam and Eve, who were created in the image of GOD (1:26-27).

Psalm 82:1 says, “God takes His stand in His own congregation; He judges in the midst of the rulers.” And so, in Hebrew it says GOD (Elohim) presides in the divine/mighty (el) assembly and among the gods (elohim) He judges. And then Psalm 82:6-7 says, “6 I said, ‘You are gods, And all of you are sons of the Most High. 7 Nevertheless you will die like men And fall like any one of the princes.'” And so, in Hebrew, it says you are gods (elohim) and sons (bēn) of the Most High yet you will die like men (‘āḏām). Therefore, humans are sons of GOD even though we will die just as Adam had died. In fact, in John 10:34-36, Jesus quoted that psalm and said to the religious leaders, “34 Has it not been written in your Law, ‘I said, you are gods’? 35 If he called them gods, to whom the word of God came (and the Scripture cannot be broken), 36 do you say of Him, whom the Father sanctified and sent into the world, ‘You are blaspheming,’ because I said, ‘I am the Son of God’?” Therefore, Jesus affirms that humans are indeed sons of GOD because He is the Son and we were all created in His image and according to His likeness.

Further, in Deuteronomy 14:1, GOD, speaking to the Israelites, commanding them to be holy, said, “You are the sons of the Lord your God“. Again in Hosea 1:10, GOD said to the Israelites, “You are the sons of the living God.”  And again, in Isaiah 43:6, GOD calls humans “My sons” and “My daughters”. Therefore, the human descendants of Adam are indeed sons of GOD.

Moreover, because Genesis 6 is not only continuing the story, but is also building upon the story, the phrase “took wives for themselves, whomever they chose” should be understood as an explanation as to how GOD’s children who came from Adam and Eve only continued to increase in wickedness. The Fall is rising to a point of judgment. Cain was wicked, murdered one human, yet had only one wife. But then Lamech was even more wicked than Cain, murdered two humans, and took for himself two wives. But now, in this passage, male descendants (“sons of God) have decided to take as many wives as they desired, apparently without any self-control. Therefore, this passage describes the consistent increase in wickedness of everyone who came from Adam’s line (which will be the reason for the flood that we will soon discuss).

Now, some people believe that the “Nephilim” mentioned in this passage were a blasphemous crossbreed of fallen angels and human females; however, the very same verse (Genesis 6:4) clearly states that they were “mighty men” and “men of renown.” The phrase “mighty men” is the Hebrew גִּבּוֹר [H1368] gibôr (ghib-bore’), and it refers to mere men who were mighty, strong, and valiant warriors. This word is used to describe Nimrod (Genesis 10:8), 30,000 soldiers (Joshua 8:3), Gideon (Judges 6:12), Jephthah the son of a harlot (Judges 11:1), David (1Samuel 16:18), and Goliath (1Samuel 17:51). Therefore, the Nephilim were not angels; they were mere men, albeit mighty men, and sometimes giants (such as Goliath was a giant).

In addition to this, it is written that humans in the resurrection will be like the angels who neither marry nor are given into marriage (Matthew 22:30; Mark 12:25). The only time angels ever had a physical body was when GOD allowed them to do so; in addition, those angels always accomplished GOD’s will, not evil. So, rebellious angels wouldn’t be granted the ability to use a physical body (unless they were demons who possessed mere humans). But even possessed men are still mere men. In fact, nowhere in the Bible does a fallen angel ever use a physical form like the elect angels of GOD do. Thus, there is no reason to believe that a fallen angel would have a physical form to have sex with a human female. Some people point to 2Peter 2:4-5 as proof that fallen angels sinned sexually with human females; however, that text simply does not state they did such a sin. It simply states that “God did not spare angels when they sinned.” But as Scripture informs us elsewhere, the angels’ sin was pride and trying to usurp the throne along with Satan. And that is why the angels “did not keep their own domain, but abandoned their proper abode” (Jude 1:6). Men began to multiply because “they took wives for themselves, whomever they chose.” But as they increased in number, their wickedness also increased. Therefore, this passage is a continuation of the Fall in Genesis 3:6 (i.e., they saw, they desired, they took, and they passed sin along). Cain’s line showcases the wicked path whereas Seth’s line showcases the righteous path. After all, the lineage of Seth was supposed to be the godly line from whom the Redeemer (the Seed) was to come (Genesis 3:15; 4:26). This also accords with the fact that humans are indeed referred to in the Old Testament as GOD’s “sons” (Deuteronomy 14:1; Isaiah 43:6; Hosea 1:10). Further, the “Nephilim” can be seen existing after the flood in Numbers 13:33 as giants— but they were still mere men. And if the flood was meant to wipe out the fallen angels and demonic crossbreeds, how do you explain the fact that descendants of the Nephilim were purported to have also lived after the flood (Deuteronomy 2:10-11,20-23; Joshua 14:15; 15:13-14; 2Samuel 21:16-22; 1Chronicles 20:6-8)? Is GOD powerless to prevent fallen angels from raping human females both before and after the flood? Even Satan himself could do nothing to Job apart from GOD’s permission (Job 1:10-12; 2:6). Was GOD unsuccessful in eliminating the supposed demonic crossbreeds? The notion is absurd. However, the belief that giant humans existed both before and after the flood is reasonable because that DNA would have been within Noah.

Now, it is true that the word “Nephilim” comes from the Hebrew word נָפַל [H5307] nāp̄hal (naw-fal’), which means to fall, and references the ones who have fallen; however, it doesn’t necessarily follow logically or Scripturally that they are fallen angels. Adam and Eve were also “fallen ones”; in fact, their banishment from the Garden of Eden is known as “the Fall”. Numbers 13:33 specifically states that “the sons of Anak are part of the Nephilim.” So, who was Anak? According to Deuteronomy 9:2, he and his family were “a people great and tall.” They were giant humans. They were mere men, whom Caleb the son of Jephunneh eventually drove out as he took possession of land (Joshua 15:13; Judges 1:20). In fact, it is evident from both Genesis 6 and Numbers 13 that the Nephilim are “fallen ones” because they are wicked and they will be cast out of the Kingdom just like the rebellious angels were cast out. All Scripture clearly states that the Nephilim are mere men, albeit mighty men, and sometimes giants. And if these men were possessed or influenced by demons (fallen angels), then they are still “fallen ones” regardless. But again, demonically possessed men are still mere men. It simply doesn’t follow to read into the text that angels – who are bodiless (Hebrews 1:14) and sexless spirits (Matthew 22:30) – cohabited with human females. I concede to the fact that there have been archaeological records that reveal giant humans existed in the past, but the Bible also acknowledges the fact that giants existed. But those giants were mere men.

And finally, why would GOD allow fallen angels to breed with humans knowing that their children would be half-human and half-angel? This would only support polytheism, which GOD constantly condemns (Exodus 20:1-4; Deuteronomy 5:6-9; 6:13-15). There never existed a half-breed of heavenly being who was also mere man. Is it even possible that half of a human would be created and exist? Where is it written that angels who are spirits have physical sperm that could unite with a female egg? You won’t find it in Scripture. It is written, however, that angels cannot be redeemed (Hebrews 2:14-16; 2Peter 2:4; Jude 1:6). So, can only half a human be redeemed? If so, how? If not, then did the Lord fail to redeem them? Or were they never human at all or never worthy to be called human even though they were half human? No—Scripture is clear that the only Spirit capable of impregnating a female would be the Holy Spirit because GOD is the One and only in control of forming babies within female wombs (Psalm 139:13-16; Jeremiah 1:5; Matthew 1:18-25; Luke 1:26-38).

In conclusion, the “sons of God” are the male descendants of Adam and Eve, who were created in the image of GOD. The Nephilim were mere men who were extremely tall and considered to be mighty warriors. And such a blasphemous belief regarding fallen angels raping females and creating demonic crossbreeds against the will of GOD is a doctrine of demons, a mockery of the holy incarnation of Christ, and is just one example as to why exegesis of Scripture is extremely important and why all Scripture must be examined together as a whole. We must carefully and objectively analyze the Word of GOD, extracting every detail, so as not to read into Scripture what was never there to begin with. The Bible as a whole is one message and Scripture always interprets Scripture.

Many people have come to believe the blasphemous and absurd notion that fallen angels raped human females, impregnated them, and caused females to give birth to crossbreeds of half-human and half-demon. They believe this simply because they were told to believe it by a pastor behind a pulpit and it became a popular teaching. But how would you know if a pastor is truly a son of GOD or a demon in disguise who secured a prominent position?
Whose words are you listening to? Whose words are guiding your beliefs? And won’t your beliefs guide your actions?
Are you able to now see how any area of ignorance about GOD’s Word can be filled in with doctrines of demons? Is it not Satan’s goal to get you to question GOD’s Word and to believe his reinterpretation, which is a misinterpretation?
And what does this demonic doctrine ultimately lead people to believe about GOD? Was GOD unable to prevent fallen angels from raping female humans both before and after the flood? Would GOD have formed those demonic crossbreed babies within female wombs? And if GOD is powerless to prevent demons from raping human females and impregnating them, wouldn’t that mean GOD is not omnipotent (all-powerful)?
Now that you have read my cross-examination regarding this common belief, what do you believe? Do you know why you believe what you believe?
And finally, are you taking my word for it, or does the Word of GOD form your belief? But how do you know what to believe unless you study His Word?


TURNING POINT

Genesis 6:5-8 says, “Then the Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great on the earth, and that every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. The Lord was sorry that He had made man on the earth, and He was grieved in His heart. The Lord said, ‘I will blot out man whom I have created from the face of the land, from man to animals to creeping things and to birds of the sky; for I am sorry that I have made them.’ But Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord.”

First and foremost, we need to take notice of the fact that the wickedness of “man” (‘āḏām) was great and the thoughts of his heart was evil continually. Just as the “sons of God” and Nephilim were the continuation of the Fall from Genesis 3:6, this too is the continuation, but now the story has reached the climax of wickedness when the Fall would rise to judgment. And because it was the wickedness of “man” (‘āḏām) that GOD condemned, it is just another reason which proves that the “sons of God” were not fallen angels, but mere men. GOD enacted judgment against humans.

An atheist once wrote, “Genesis 6:6 says your sky daddy regretted making you. How could an omniscient being ever regret what it knew it would do?”

On the surface, Scripture seems to say that GOD regretted something He chose to do. But if GOD regretted what He chose to do, wouldn’t that mean GOD made a mistake? And if GOD made a mistake, wouldn’t that mean He is not GOD because He is not perfect? Again, this is why exegesis of Scripture is extremely important and why we must carefully and objectively analyze the Word of GOD, extracting every detail.

Perceived Problem:

Genesis 1:31 says, “God saw all that He had made, and behold, it was very good.”
So, how could GOD regret the creation He declared to be “very good”?

Scriptural Solutions:

First, Genesis 1:31 and 6:6–7 speak of humankind at different times and under different conditions. The former deals with humans in the original state of creation; however, the latter refers to the human race after the Fall and just before the flood. GOD was pleased with humans in their intended design while they were free from sin; however, GOD was displeased with humans due to their freely choosing to live evil lives (as stated in 6:5).

But what does it mean when Scripture says that GOD “was sorry”? How could GOD be sorry? Was GOD admitting He made a mistake? No. GOD does not change, neither His mind, His will, nor His nature (Numbers 23:19; 1Samuel 15:29; Malachi 3:6; Hebrews 6:17; James 1:17). The word “sorry” is the English translation of the Hebrew word נָחַם [H5162] nacham (naw-kham’), which is sometimes translated as “repent,” “to feel sorrow,” “to be grieved,” “comforted,” “changed his mind,” or “was moved.” Essentially, this word means “moved” or “turned.” While this word does mean that GOD felt sorrow, it also implies that GOD arrived at a turning point in which He would choose a new course of action, and thus, He turned and moved in that new direction. While GOD’s final purpose for humanity does not change, His means to carry that purpose forward may change according to the choices people make. And for this reason, it is written in Ezekiel 24:14, “According to your ways and according to your deeds I will judge you.” So, like a master chess player, GOD makes His move based on the moves people make, always positioning Himself in the winning position. GOD moves, but GOD doesn’t make mistakes; rather, humans make mistakes, and then GOD moves based on our mistakes.

In Genesis 6:6, it is written that GOD was grieved. Thus, GOD’s sorrow or turning point is directly linked with His grief. GOD was sorrowful that He created humans for a specific purpose, yet they rebelled against His will for their lives and chose to live evil lives instead. And GOD’s grief is directly linked with the previous verse (6:5) in that their wickedness was great, and their thoughts were evil continually. The humans refused to turn (repent) from the path of evil, and so GOD turned to act according to His nature in justice.

Now, the other side of the exact same coin can be seen in Exodus 32:14, where it is written, “So the Lord changed His mind about the harm which He said He would do to His people.” The same word, nacham, was used to describe how GOD relented from immediate judgment.

Perceived Problem:

While Moses was upon the mountain receiving the Law from GOD, the people were at the foot of the mountain worshiping the golden calf which they had created (Exodus 32:4–6). When GOD instructed Moses to go down to them, He told Moses that He would consume them and then make a great nation from Moses (32:10). When Moses heard this, he pleaded with GOD to turn from His anger. And in 32:14, GOD relented. But doesn’t this imply that GOD changed His mind and that He took an order from a mere human being?

Scriptural Solutions:

It must be emphatically maintained that GOD does not change (Numbers 23:19; 1Samuel 15:29; Malachi 3:6; Hebrews 6:17; James 1:17). He neither changes His mind, His will, nor His nature. There are several arguments that demonstrate the immutability of GOD. We will consider three.

First, anything that changes does so in some chronological order. There must be a point before the change and a point after the change. Anything that experiences a before and an after exists in time because the essence of time is seen in the chronological progression from before to after. However, GOD is eternal and outside time (John 17:5; 2Timothy 1:9). Therefore, there cannot be in GOD a series of befores and afters. But, if GOD cannot be in a series of befores and afters, then GOD cannot change because change necessarily involves before and after.

Second, anything that changes must change for better or for worse; a change that makes no difference is not a change at all. Either something that is needed is gained that was previously absent, which is a change for the better, or something that is needed is lost that was previously possessed, which is a change for the worse. But, if GOD is perfect, He does not need anything; therefore, He cannot change for the better. Likewise, if GOD were to lose something, He would not be perfect; therefore, He cannot change for the worse. The logical conclusion is that GOD cannot change.

Third, relating directly to the passages under examination, if anyone were to change his mind, it must be because new information has come to light that was not previously known, or the circumstances have changed that require a different kind of attitude or action. Now, if GOD changed His mind, it cannot be because He has learned some bit of new information that He did not previously know, for GOD is omniscient—He knows all (1Kings 8:39; Psalm 139:1–4, 15–16; 147:5; Isaiah 46:10; Jeremiah 1:5; Matthew 9:4; 10:29–30; 12:25; Mark 2:6–8; Luke 6:8; John 1:47–48; 4:18; 11:11–15; Acts 1:24; 1Corinthians 2:10–11; 1John 3:20). Therefore, it must be because the circumstances have changed that require a different attitude or action. But, if the circumstances have changed, it is not necessarily the case that GOD has changed His mind. It may simply be the case that, since the circumstances have changed, GOD’s relationship to the new circumstances is different because they have changed, not GOD.

When Israel was at the foot of the mountain engaged in idol worship, GOD told Moses that His anger was burning against them and He was prepared to destroy them in immediate judgment. However, when Moses interceded for them, the circumstances changed. GOD’s attitude toward sin is always anger, and His attitude toward those who call to Him is always an attitude of mercy. Before Moses prayed for Israel, they were under GOD’s judgment. By Moses’ intercession for the people of Israel, he brought them under GOD’s mercy. GOD did not change because He is both justice and mercy; rather, the circumstances changed. The language used in this passage is called anthropomorphic, or man-centered, language. It is similar to someone saying, “The house is on my right,” but then moving and saying, “Now the house is on my left.” Neither of these statements are meant to imply that the house had moved. Rather, it is anthropomorphic language from a human perspective to describe that the person has changed his/her position in relation to the house. Or in the specific scriptures under examination, the Rock—the solid immovable foundation, who is the Lord (Deuteronomy 32:4; 2Samuel 22:2–3; Psalm 118:22; Isaiah 8:14; 28:16; Matthew 7:24–25; Luke 6:46–49; Acts 4:8–12; 1Corinthians 3:11; 10:4; Ephesians 2:20; 1Peter 2:4–8). When Moses said that GOD relented, it was a figurative way of describing that Moses’ intercession successfully changed the relationship of the people to GOD. Moses brought the nation under the mercy of GOD’s grace and out from under the immediate judgment of GOD. And so GOD does not change, neither His mind, His will, nor His nature.

When GOD first initiated His judgment to destroy the people, He was acting consistently with His justice. When Moses interceded for the people, GOD relented in order to act consistently with His mercy. The truth is that as people change their actions and wills, GOD changes His response to them according to their deeds. The Relentless Rescuer will relent if one decides to repent. Now, ponder: was the conversation between GOD and Moses a test for Moses’ leadership? Would Moses fight for his flock? Was he only concerned about what others would think, or did he genuinely care about them? I believe that GOD relented from immediate judgment for at least two reasons: (1) GOD desired to honor the love Moses had for the people; (2) GOD wanted to give Moses an opportunity to see for himself why those wicked people deserved judgment. After all, GOD knew that the wicked people would die; in fact, it happened not much later (Exodus 32:27–28). Moses traveled back down the mountain to find the Israelites worshiping a golden calf. As soon as Moses saw what GOD had already seen, it was Moses who changed his mind, realizing that GOD’s judgment had been right all along. However, the delay of GOD’s judgment was GOD’s mercy and the people’s opportunity for learning.

GOD Himself explains what causes Him to nacham, to turn and move in that new direction. It is written in Jeremiah 18:7–10, “At one moment I might speak concerning a nation or concerning a kingdom to uproot, to pull down, or to destroy it; if that nation against which I have spoken turns from its evil, I will relent concerning the calamity I planned to bring on it. Or at another moment I might speak concerning a nation or concerning a kingdom to build up or to plant it; if it does evil in My sight by not obeying My voice, then I will think better of the good with which I had promised to bless it.”

When GOD said He would “relent” or “think better of the good,” it is the same word nacham. In fact, this is exactly what happened to Nineveh when Jonah finally preached the message of repentance to them—they turned (repented), and then GOD turned (relented). It is written in Jonah 3:10, “When God saw their deeds, that they turned from their wicked way, then God relented concerning the calamity which He had declared He would bring upon them. And He did not do it.”

And so this word, in proper context throughout Scripture, needs to be understood as a turning point in how GOD responds to the turning points of what humankind freely chooses to do. It’s like a contract agreement with special stipulations of “if that, then this.” It is for this reason that, in Genesis 4:7, GOD said to Cain, “If you do well, will not your countenance be lifted up? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door; and its desire is for you, but you must master it.” In GOD’s omniscience, with every turning point of what humans will choose to do, GOD has already planned ahead His turning points on how He will respond. In this regard, life is like a video game. No matter what you choose to do, the programmer has already pre-programmed what will happen based on what you freely choose to do.

Joel 2:13 (ESV) says, “‘And rend your hearts and not your garments.’ Now return to the Lord your God, For He is gracious and compassionate, Slow to anger, abounding in lovingkindness And relenting of evil.”

To paraphrase, GOD essentially said, “Don’t tear your clothing in a pious performance. Stop putting on a religious show for the people. Instead, may your heart break so that you will learn to live righteously. If you turn, I’ll turn. If you repent, I’ll relent. I want to relent. But I am Holy. Please do not invite My wrath upon yourself because you refuse to separate yourself from sin.”

Our hearts should break just like the great faithful men of old. In Jeremiah 8:21, the weeping prophet said, “For the brokenness of the daughter of my people I am broken; I mourn, dismay has taken hold of me.” And in Romans 9:1–3, the apostle Paul said, “I am telling the truth in Christ, I am not lying, my conscience testifies with me in the Holy Spirit, that I have great sorrow and unceasing grief in my heart. For I could wish that I myself were accursed, separated from Christ for the sake of my brethren, my kinsmen according to the flesh”.

In Genesis 6:5–7, when GOD saw all the evil, His responsive action was to nacham—He turned and moved in order to enact judgment against sin. Centuries later, in response to the same evil, the Lord’s action was again to nacham—He turned and moved; however, this time, He relented from judgment upon us as the Relentless Rescuer, willingly sacrificing Himself on the cross in order to pay your debt of death due to sin (John 10:17–18; Romans 5:6–8; 6:23). But even the grace-filled act of relenting judgment upon us was still consistent with His nature to enact judgment upon sin. By grace, Jesus took the penalty we deserved. On the surface, it seems as if GOD changed His mind from the Old Testament to the New Testament, but that’s not true. GOD never changed His mind—Christ on the cross had been the plan from the beginning. Every act of judgment had been in response to what humans freely chose to do. However, the free gift of salvation was in response to what humans could not do—save themselves.

Understand this: GOD had a plan from the beginning. His plan involved “very good” creation (Genesis 1:31) with the great gift of free will. Just as a parent expresses sorrow over a rebellious child, GOD expressed sorrow due to our rebellion. GOD’s plan involved cleansing destruction from water (Genesis 6:17), a complete sacrificial atonement of sins (Hebrews 10:10), a cleansing death and new birth from water (Romans 6:3–4), and then final destruction and cleansing of fire (Luke 17:29–30; 2Peter 3:10; Revelation 20:9). It pained GOD that His beloved people had to endure pain and suffering in order to inherit eternal life, but this life on this earth is the necessary furnace of faith for refinement (Isaiah 64:8; Jeremiah 18:3–6; Proverbs 25:4–5; 2Timothy 2:21) so that we can dwell in His holy presence. Remember: GOD loves us and wants us to live in His Holy presence, but evil/sin and righteousness/holiness simply cannot coexist (1Corinthians 10:21; 2Corinthians 6:16). Every “coexist” bumper sticker you see on a car is evil illogical nonsense.

Now, if you want to fully understand why GOD would relent, then you need to fully understand why humans need to repent. The truth is that everything you do causes GOD to turn and move in a new direction according to the choices you make. But is GOD moved by your faith, or does He turn because you have grieved Him due to the evil you choose to practice (Romans 8:8; Hebrews 11:6)? In God’s pre-programmed and predestined “if this, then that” foreknowledge, the Lord chose to forgive and invite into salvation all people who place their faith in Christ Jesus (John 3:16,36; 6:40; Romans 8:29–30; Ephesians 1:4–6,11). From the very beginning, GOD had already “changed His mind” to remember your sins no more the moment you place your faith in Christ Jesus and walk according to His will (Isaiah 43:25; Jeremiah 31:33–34; Hebrews 8:7–13; 10:14–18). Therefore, GOD didn’t actually change His mind about sin. For everyone who places his/her faith in Christ Jesus, the circumstances have changed, and thus, GOD’s relationship to the new circumstances is different because they have changed, not GOD.

In Psalm 25:4–7, David prayed, “Make me know Your ways, O Lord; Teach me Your paths. Lead me in Your truth and teach me, For You are the God of my salvation; For You I wait all the day. Remember, O Lord, Your compassion and Your lovingkindnesses, For they have been from of old. Do not remember the sins of my youth or my transgressions; According to Your lovingkindness remember me, For Your goodness’ sake, O Lord.”

May we all lift up a similar prayer to the Lord, desiring to live in faithful obedience to His will. For if we do, it is written that the Lord will move according to our faith. If we repent, He will relent. But without repentance comes only judgment because justice is according to His will.

Do you need a turning point in your life? According to Scripture, what are all the actions you can do that will cause GOD to turn toward you according to His mercy rather than toward you according to His justice?
Once you have compiled a list of all the things GOD has asked you to do, how can you rearrange your life so that you will be sure to do what GOD has asked you to do?


RIGHTEOUS AND BLAMELESS

Genesis 6:9 says, “These are the records of the generations of Noah. Noah was a righteous man, blameless in his time; Noah walked with God.”

Perceived Problem:

In Psalm 51:5, David implies that humans are born into sin. In Psalm 53:1-3, David states that no one is good. In Mark 10:18, Jesus said that no one is good except GOD alone. In Romans 3:23, Paul said that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD. So, how could Noah have been declared righteous and blameless?

Scriptural Solutions:

The word “righteous” is the Hebrew צַדִּיק [H6662] ṣadîq (tsah-deek’), which means just or lawful. The word “blameless” is the Hebrew תָּמִים [H8549] tāmîm (taw-meem’), which means complete, whole, healthy, or unimpaired. To say that Noah was righteous and blameless does not indicate that he was completely sinless; it is true that Noah was born into sin because he came from the seed of Adam. However, because righteousness meant being lawful, Noah would have been judged by whatever Law had been made known to him at that time. However, Noah preceded the Mosaic Law. So, what commands was Noah given? As will later be revealed throughout Noah’s story, GOD commanded Noah to build the ark, gather the animals, etc. And Genesis 6:22 says “Thus Noah did; according to all that God had commanded him, so he did.” Therefore, Noah had been declared righteous because he obeyed the commands he knew of at that time. Further, Noah had been complete and healthy because he “walked with God.” Noah received GOD’s Word, believed GOD’s Word, and acted according to his faith. And Scripture later reveals that through faith righteousness is credited to us (Genesis 15:6; Romans 4:3; Ephesians 2:8-9).

Consider also the fact that David was called a man after GOD’s own heart even though he had sinned (1Samuel 13:14; 2Samuel 12:13; Acts 13:22). In fact, Proverbs 15:9 tells us that the Lord loves the one who pursues righteousness. So, what then, does it mean to be righteous? To be righteous is to be right with GOD. How can one be right with GOD? By doing what GOD told us to do (Luke 6:46; Romans 2:13). A heart that is right with GOD results in a life that bears “fruit” (Matthew 12:33; Luke 6:43-44; Galatians 5:22-23; Ephesians 5:9); in fact, it is by love and its fruit that a person will be known as a disciple of Christ Jesus (Matthew 7:20; John 13:34-35). In the Old Testament, men were declared righteous when they believed GOD and acted on their belief through faith (Genesis 15:6; Galatians 3:6; James 2:23). Before Pentecost (Acts 2:1–4), people pursued righteousness by keeping GOD’s Law, seeking holiness, and walking humbly with GOD (Micah 6:8). Because no one can please GOD in our sinful fleshly state (Romans 8:8), no one is completely justified by rule-keeping but by the faith that enabled them to obey GOD (Romans 3:20; Galatians 2:16). Essentially, to be righteous, we need only to live by faith (Habakkuk 2:4; Hebrews 11:6). To live by faith, we must possess belief of GOD’s Word and also trust in His Word — we must believe that the Lord exists and trust in the Lord for our ultimate good (Proverbs 3:5-8; Romans 8:28). GOD spared Noah from the flood because everyone else had chosen to live evil lives and walked away from GOD. Noah was the righteous one! Righteousness should be our goal! Now, of course, it is written that we are not saved by our works but by our faith (Romans 3:24-31; Ephesians 2:8-9); however, our faith should produce fruit. But how does faith produce fruit? Because if we receive GOD’s Word and believe GOD’s Word by faith, then we will respond to His Word through our faith; consequently, our faith-filled response to His Word will keep us in alignment with His will while we supernaturally bear fruit (Matthew 7:17-18; 12:33; 13:23; Luke 3:8; John 15:1-11; Galatians 5:22-25; Philippians 1:11; Colossians 1:10; Hebrews 12:11; James 3:17-18).

GOD declared Noah to be righteous and blameless. If someone were to write about you in a book, how would GOD describe you at this very moment?
All over this world, there are competitions to break world records and to see who is best at something, but who strives to be the most righteous person alive? Certainly someone can break a record and become the new best athlete, speller, seller, fighter, or even manage to eat the most hotdogs in one sitting; however, who can be the most righteous? Shouldn’t that be our goal? Shouldn’t that be our heart’s desire?
Noah was complete and whole because he walked with GOD. Are you walking with GOD by the way you freely choose to live your life or are you walking away from GOD?
What was the last thing GOD told you to do?
If being righteous means being right with GOD based off what GOD has told you to do, are you being faithfully obedient to do what He told you to do?
If you have responded through faithful obedience to what GOD has told you to do, have you seen fruit come from it? If so, what? If not yet, do you have faith that GOD will produce the fruit in His perfect timing?


EARS TO HEAR

Genesis 6:13 says, “Then God said to Noah, ‘The end of all flesh has come before Me; for the earth is filled with violence because of them; and behold, I am about to destroy them with the earth.’ ”

Noah heard from GOD, but is it possible for us to also hear from the Lord? Yes. How is it possible? Like Noah, we need to be “righteous” and “blameless”, which means we must believe that GOD exists, trust that He desires to communicate with us, and then actively listen for Him to speak to us, ready to receive His Word, believe His Word, and be willing to respond to His Word through faith. Throughout Scripture, GOD spoke and His children responded by saying, “Here I am” and “your servant is listening” (Genesis 22:1,11; 31:11; 46:2; Exodus 3:4; 1Samuel 3:4,9-10; Acts 9:10).

In Genesis 18:17, the Lord said He wanted to reveal to Abraham His plan that He was about to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah.

In 1Samuel 3:11, the Lord revealed to Samuel the judgment He was going to enact against Eli.

In Psalm 25:14, David said, “The secret of the Lord is for those who fear Him, And He will make them know His covenant.”

In fact, the revealing of GOD’s covenant is what happened when GOD informed Noah of the coming judgment by flood and then said in Genesis 6:18, “But I will establish My covenant with you; and you shall enter the ark—you and your sons and your wife, and your sons’ wives with you.”

Amos 3:7 says, “Surely the Lord God does nothing Unless He reveals His secret counsel To His servants the prophets.”

In John 15:15, Jesus said to His disciples, “No longer do I call you slaves, for the slave does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I have heard from My Father I have made known to you.”

The Lord has already spoken to us through His Word (the Holy Bible). The Bible is that which has already been revealed and made known to us. So, if anyone wants to hear from GOD, then that person must first and foremost read and study His Word which has already been given to us. GOD has spoken. The Bible is His Word that all righteous people of ancient history longed and hoped to hear.

In Matthew 13:16-17, Jesus said to His disciples, “16 But blessed are your eyes, because they see; and your ears, because they hear. 17 For truly I say to you that many prophets and righteous men desired to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it.”

What we know to be the New Testament, Peter called “a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time” (1Peter 1:5). And then in 1:10-16, Peter explains, “10 As to this salvation, the prophets who prophesied of the grace that would come to you made careful searches and inquiries, 11 seeking to know what person or time the Spirit of Christ within them was indicating as He predicted the sufferings of Christ and the glories to follow. 12 It was revealed to them that they were not serving themselves, but you, in these things which now have been announced to you through those who preached the gospel to you by the Holy Spirit sent from heaven—things into which angels long to look. 13 Therefore, prepare your minds for action, keep sober in spirit, fix your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. 14 As obedient children, do not be conformed to the former lusts which were yours in your ignorance, 15 but like the Holy One who called you, be holy yourselves also in all your behavior; 16 because it is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.”

But how can anyone be holy unless that person seeks the Lord, desires to read and know His Word, and faithfully obeys His will? Anyone who refuses to read and study GOD’s Word cannot be complete and whole as Noah had been because that person has rejected the very Word that sustains us in our process of sanctification. The last days started at Pentecost. We are in the last days and have been in the last days for a long time. In fact, we are getting close to the last of the last days. We know this because the apostasy is already here and we are living in the days of Sodom. We are blessed to be able to have in our possession The Revealed that had not yet been revealed to our ancient ancestors. The great people of faith longed to possess what we now possess, and yet now that we have it, people take it for granted. How can anyone expect to hear from the Lord if they refuse to read His Word? Why would the Holy Spirit speak to you about that which has not yet been revealed when you refuse to read and study The Revealed?

In Hebrews 11:36-40, the author wrote that our ancient ancestors of faith “36 experienced mockings and scourgings, yes, also chains and imprisonment. 37 They were stoned, they were sawn in two, they were tempted, they were put to death with the sword; they went about in sheepskins, in goatskins, being destitute, afflicted, ill-treated 38 (men of whom the world was not worthy), wandering in deserts and mountains and caves and holes in the ground. 39 And all these, having gained approval through their faith, did not receive what was promised, 40 because God had provided something better for us, so that apart from us they would not be made perfect.”

Many of our ancient ancestors of faith never had the blessed opportunity to see Jesus in person, to hear Him speak, to witness signs and wonders, to see the prophecies fulfilled, to have the Holy Spirit dwell within them after Pentecost, or to have in their possession a collection of GOD’s Word all in one easy-to-carry book. Men and women of faith became martyrs so that we could have in our possession the miracle that is known as the Holy Bible. I have witnessed children of third world nations weep in joy when they received a Bible because they understood the great gift they were receiving. And yet there exist people in our blessed and free nation of America who proclaim to be children of GOD yet they refuse to read and study GOD’s Word? What kind of child refuses to listen to his father and then complains about never hearing from his father? If someone is not hearing from GOD, then it is almost certain that the person has refused to read and study The Revealed.

In 2Timothy 4:13, Paul, writing while chained in prison (2:9), asked Timothy to bring to him “the books, especially the parchments.” These requested writings were most likely Old Testament scriptures and his own notes and records. The word “books” is the Greek βιβλίον [H975] biblion (bib-lee’-on), which referred to a scroll. In Luke 4:17, Jesus used the “book” of the prophet Isaiah to read from while in the synagogue on the Sabbath. John called his own gospel account a “book” (John 20:30) that could not contain everything Jesus said and did (21:25). In Galatians 3:10, Paul used the word to reference the Torah while quoting Deuteronomy 27:26. Further, the Septuagint (Old Testament translated into Greek) uses the word to describe GOD’s Law, covenant, and important records that had been written for the Israelites.

Paul, knowing that his life would soon come to an end (2Timothy 4:6), declared from prison that the written Word of GOD is of utmost importance for followers of Christ. In fact, Paul told Timothy that he needs to be able to accurately handle the Word of Truth (2:15), and be able to teach and gently correct those in opposition (2:24-25). Further, in 3:16-17, Paul reminded Timothy that “16 All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; 17 so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.” And finally, in 4:1-5, Paul wrote, “I solemnly charge you in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who is to judge the living and the dead, and by His appearing and His kingdom: preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort, with great patience and instruction. For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers in accordance to their own desires, and will turn away their ears from the truth and will turn aside to myths. But you, be sober in all things, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry.”

In summary, Timothy would not have been able to fulfill his ministry and do the work of an evangelist unless he already knew GOD’s Word (which included the Gospel at that time).

In John 14:25-26, Jesus said to His disciples, “25 These things I have spoken to you while abiding with you. 26 But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I said to you.”

Therefore, if anyone desires to hear from GOD, then that person must have the Holy Spirit dwelling within him/her while actively listening to what the Spirit says because the Spirit will bring to our remembrance the Word of GOD already within us. But how can the Spirit remind us of the Word we received if we never received the Word? For example, David – a man after GOD’s own heart – often wrote psalms via inspiration of the Holy Spirit. But what had the Spirit often called to David’s remembrance? Psalm 119 is the longest psalm, which is a poem of meditations and prayers relating the Law of GOD. David already had GOD’s Word within him when the Spirit recalled that Word to his mind.

Further, in Luke 12:11-12, Jesus said, “11 When they bring you before the synagogues and the rulers and the authorities, do not worry about how or what you are to speak in your defense, or what you are to say; 12 for the Holy Spirit will teach you in that very hour what you ought to say.”

In John 16:12-15, Jesus said, “12 I have many more things to say to you, but you cannot bear them now. 13 But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all the truth; for He will not speak on His own initiative, but whatever He hears, He will speak; and He will disclose to you what is to come. 14 He will glorify Me, for He will take of Mine and will disclose it to you. 15 All things that the Father has are Mine; therefore I said that He takes of Mine and will disclose it to you.”

Thus, the Bible is the Word that has already been revealed and the Holy Spirit will speak the Word to us in GOD’s perfect timing regarding what we do not yet know but will know in that hour. Therefore, a child of GOD needs to know the written Word and remain actively listening to what the Spirit will say. For this reason, Paul wrote in Romans 8:14, “For all who are being led by the Spirit of God, these are sons of God.” And again, in Galatians 5:25, Paul wrote, “If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit.” Why? Because if we do, then we will produce the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).

Do you believe that GOD exists? Have you read His Word? Have you studied His Word? Like David, do you meditate on His Word and pray about the Word you’ve read and studied? Do you trust what He says in His Word that He desires to communicate with us? Is the Holy Spirit within you? Are you remaining righteous while actively listening for what the Spirit says? What is the Holy Spirit saying to you right now? If the Holy Spirit is speaking to you right now, is that message in alignment with what is written in GOD’s Word? How would you know unless you know GOD’s Word?
I challenge you to spend some time right now in prayer, asking GOD to speak to you, whether via the Holy Spirit highlighting the Word you’ve already received, or in a vision, or even through another believer. “Speak Lord. Here I am. I’m listening. What do you want me to know? What do you want me to do?”


NOAH’s ARK

Genesis 6:14-16 says, “14 Make for yourself an ark of gopher wood; you shall make the ark with rooms, and shall cover it inside and out with pitch. 15 This is how you shall make it: the length of the ark three hundred cubits, its breadth fifty cubits, and its height thirty cubits. 16 You shall make a window for the ark, and finish it to a cubit from the top; and set the door of the ark in the side of it; you shall make it with lower, second, and third decks.”

To the surprise of many critics, the ark was rightly designed for a universal flood; for seaworthiness, it had an accurate ratio (length to breadth to height). The ark was six times longer than it was wide and ten times longer than it was high. This ratio is what modern cargo ships use to withstand the strength of the sea. In fact, modern stability tests have shown that such a vessel could take up to 200-foot-high waves and could tip as much as 90 degrees and still right itself. How would Noah – a desert dweller of such an ancient time period – have known how to construct such a vessel of seaworthiness? In modern measurements, the ark would have been around 450 feet (140 m) long, 75 feet (23 m) wide, and 45 feet (14 m) high, yielding a displacement of about 43,000 tons (about 39 million kg). The inside capacity would have been an estimated 1.4 million cubic feet (39,644 cubic m), with an approximate total deck area of 95,700 square feet (8,891 square m).

Genesis 6:19 says, “And of every living thing of all flesh, you shall bring two of every kind into the ark, to keep them alive with you; they shall be male and female.”

Many critics like to argue that Noah’s ark could not have contained all known animals because there would have been too many animals and the ark simply wasn’t large enough to contain all animals – especially in a peaceful environment where the animals would not attack each other or Noah and his family. However, all arguments presuppose that GOD does not exist and that GOD was not in control. Scripture informs us multiple times that the animal kingdom is subject to GOD’s command. In 1Kings 17:1-7, GOD commanded a raven of the air to feed Elijah until the appointed time for Elijah to leave that area. In 1Samuel 6:7-16, GOD commanded cows of the land to bring the ark of the covenant back to the Levites. And GOD even commanded a great fish of the sea to swallow Jonah (Jonah 1:17) and vomit him back out three days later (2:10). Therefore, all animals, whether of the air, land, or sea, are subject to GOD’s commands. If GOD commanded all the animals to go to Noah, they would have obeyed His command. Is anything too difficult for GOD who created the entire universe, the earth, and all life within? What is impossible with man is possible with GOD (Genesis 18:14; Jeremiah 32:17,27; Job 42:2; Matthew 19:26; Luke 1:37; 18:27). In addition to the animals being subject to GOD’s command, Noah also could have stored the youngest of all animals, which means they would have been smaller and took up less space. Moreover, it is possible that Noah stored eggs, which are even smaller and take up less space than young animals.

Can you think of any other verses in the Bible where the animal kingdom was subject to GOD’s command? If so, where are those verses located in the Bible?
Have you ever been to the Ark Encounter theme park in Williamstown, Kentucky? If so, describe your experience there.

Chronological-002

Chronological Study (001/365)

Genesis 1:1 – 3:24


GOD Created

Referring to the invisible GOD Almighty, Genesis 1:1 says, “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.”

But if that was the beginning, then how could a GOD exist to create? How can GOD exist before the beginning? Or did GOD come into existence at the same time “in the beginning”? And if a Creator created everything, then who created this Creator? To answer that, we need only to know if The Creator (GOD) would exist contingently because only contingent beings need a cause. The answer is that GOD must exist necessarily because GOD exists by necessity of GOD’s own nature. Things that exist necessarily exist by necessity of their own nature. An example could be abstract objects such as numbers. Many mathematicians would concur that numbers exist by necessity of their own nature. Some, however, would argue that numbers simply cannot exist if nothing exists; numbers can only come into existence once the first something comes into existence. Things that exist contingently are caused to exist by something else. For example, a painting exists because an artist created it. A globe that many teachers use in classrooms only exists because it was created. Earth is the same – it exists contingently. How do we know this? Almost all physicists and cosmologists agree that at some point in the finite past the universe began to exist. In other words, there was nothing — no time, space, matter or energy — and then there was something. It is logically possible that the entire universe did not have to exist. But it does exist. Why? The universe doesn’t exist necessarily; rather, it exists contingently. The universe didn’t create itself because nothing cannot become something unless a certain Something (or Someone) creates that something. Therefore, creation comes from either GOD or abstract objects; however, abstract objects do not create anything; therefore, GOD is The Creator. It is argued that GOD created the entire universe and all life – specifically humankind. The only adequate explanation of a contingent universe existing is that it was created by a non-contingent and supernatural Being. GOD exists necessarily. Who made GOD? That question is like asking “Who caused the ‘uncaused first cause’?” A “created GOD” is not even a coherent concept. However, supposing that the universe has always existed and energy is eternal and uncreated, of course no one created it. But if it is meaningless to ask, “Who created energy or the universe?” since it has always existed, then it is equally meaningless to ask “Who made GOD?” since GOD has always existed. If, however, energy and the universe is not eternal, it needs a Cause. On the other hand, if it has no beginning, it does not need a cause of its beginning. Likewise, if GOD had no beginning, it is absurd to ask, “Who made GOD?” It is simply a category mistake to ask, “Who made the Unmade?” or “Who created the Uncreated?” However, the vast majority of physicists and cosmologists agree that at some point in the finite past, the universe did have a beginning. If the universe had a beginning, the universe exists contingently; therefore, the universe was created; GOD is the Creator and GOD exists necessarily. In conclusion, GOD was not created, GOD simply is. GOD is the uncaused, beginningless, changeless, immaterial, timeless, spaceless, enormously powerful cause of the universe and is also a free agent who is not a mere abstract object. All minds can only come from a Mind. Life can only come from life. Creation comes from a Creator. Therefore, “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.”


Was GOD Lonely?

Genesis 1:1 says, “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.”

But what was GOD doing before He created? Did He merely exist in boredom, surrounded by void? Was He isolated and lonely?

In John 17:24, Jesus says in a prayer for His disciples, “Father, I desire that they also, whom You have given Me, be with Me where I am, so that they may see My glory which You have given Me, for You loved Me before the foundation of the world.”

The Trinity of the Father, Son, and Spirit have always had relationship and union. 1John 4:8,16 informs us that “GOD is love.” And because love requires a beloved and a Spirit of love between the One who loves and the One who receives love, GOD is unable to be lonely. This illustration has the advantage of being personal, since it involves love, a characteristic that flows only from persons. And this three-in-one is even depicted and praised in the act of marriage. In marriage, the two become one with the spirit of love (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5; 1Corinthians 6:16; Ephesians 5:31). So, 1 male + 1 female + 1 spirit of love = 1 marriage, which is 1 unity. [see Genesis 2:22-24]

Referring to Jesus Christ (the Son), Colossians 1:16-17 says, “16 For by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or authorities—all things have been created through Him and for Him. 17 He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.”
But if Genesis 1:1 states that GOD created the heavens and the earth, then Jesus is GOD even though Jesus is the Son. Therefore, the very first verse of the Bible contains Christ even though Christ has not yet been revealed in the Biblical story.

Genesis 1:2 says, “The earth was formless and void, and darkness was over the surface of the deep, and the Spirit of God was moving over the surface of the waters.”

Genesis 1:3-5 says, “Then God said, ‘Let there be light’; and there was light. God saw that the light was good; and God separated the light from the darkness. God called the light day, and the darkness He called night.”

John 1:1-5 says, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God. All things came into being through Him, and apart from Him nothing came into being that has come into being. In Him was life, and the life was the Light of men. The Light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it.”

The phrase “in the beginning” brings us back to Genesis 1:1 and the “Word” is what is written in Genesis 1:3 when “God said” and then creation was formed through the Word. John makes it clear that the “Word” and “God” are distinct from each other yet at the same time the “Word was God.” The “Word” is Jesus (the Son) and “God” is the Father. The Son and the Father are distinct yet they are One.

John 3:19-21 says, “19 This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil. 20 For everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. 21 But he who practices the truth comes to the Light, so that his deeds may be manifested as having been wrought in God.”

In John 14:6, Jesus said, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.”

John 8:12 says, “Then Jesus again spoke to them, saying, ‘I am the Light of the world; he who follows Me will not walk in the darkness, but will have the Light of life.’ ”

John 9:5 says, “While I am in the world, I am the Light of the world.”

John 11:9-10 says, “Are there not twelve hours in the day? If anyone walks in the day, he does not stumble, because he sees the light of this world. 10 But if anyone walks in the night, he stumbles, because the light is not in him.”

John 12:35-36 says, “35 So Jesus said to them, ‘For a little while longer the Light is among you. Walk while you have the Light, so that darkness will not overtake you; he who walks in the darkness does not know where he goes. 36 While you have the Light, believe in the Light, so that you may become sons of Light.’ ”

John 12:46 says, “I have come as Light into the world, so that everyone who believes in Me will not remain in darkness.”

Colossians 1:13-14 says, “13 For He rescued us from the domain of darkness, and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son, 14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.”

So, Jesus was the Light of the world while He was in the world, but because Jesus ascended to Heaven after His resurrection, He gave authority to His children. Matthew 5:14-16 says, “14 You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden; 15 nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. 16 Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.”

Revelation 21:23-25 says, “23 And the city has no need of the sun or of the moon to shine on it, for the glory of God has illumined it, and its lamp is the Lamb. 24 The nations will walk by its light, and the kings of the earth will bring their glory into it. 25 In the daytime (for there will be no night there) its gates will never be closed;”

Genesis 1:14 says, “Then God said, ‘Let there be lights in the expanse of the heavens to separate the day from the night, and let them be for signs and for seasons and for days and years”

Genesis 15:5-6 says, “And [GOD] took [Abraham] outside and said, ‘Now look toward the heavens, and count the stars, if you are able to count them.’ And He said to him, ‘So shall your descendants be.’ Then he believed in the Lord; and He reckoned it to him as righteousness.”

In Matthew 2:2, the magi from the east said, “Where is He who has been born King of the Jews? For we saw His star in the east and have come to worship Him.”

Matthew 2:9-11 says, “After hearing the king, they went their way; and the star, which they had seen in the east, went on before them until it came and stood over the place where the Child was. 10 When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy. 11 After coming into the house they saw the Child with Mary His mother; and they fell to the ground and worshiped Him.”

Matthew 24:29-30 says, “29 “But immediately after the tribulation of those days the sun will be darkened, and the moon will not give its light, and the stars will fall from the sky, and the powers of the heavens will be shaken. 30 And then the sign of the Son of Man will appear in the sky…” [see also, Joel 3:15; Isaiah 13:10; Revelation 6:12-17]

Therefore, Genesis informs us that GOD made stars and they would serve as signs. The stars also represented the seed of Abraham being fruitful, from which Jesus eventually came. A specific cosmic sighting expressed as being a star led the wise men to Jesus. And in the end, the stars will again serve as a sign of Christ’s second coming when they fall from the sky and shine no more. And so yet again, Christ is in the beginning, which is Genesis.

What have you noticed about creation that calls attention to GOD’s design? Is there anything specific that has the signature of GOD?


Image of GOD

Genesis 1:26-28 says, “26 Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” 27 God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. 28 God blessed them; and God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth.’ ”

Us? Our image? Our likeness? Why the plural form? The plural pronoun “us” is simply required by the plural Hebrew noun אֱלֹהִים [H430] ‘ĕlōhîm (el-o-heem’), which is translated “God.” The plural nature of the Hebrew word is designed to give a fuller, more majestic sense to GOD’s name. “Us” portrays GOD deliberating in the midst of His court just as a king might have a court and discuss his plans among them (2Kings 22; Job1-2; Psalm 82; Isaiah 6). But “Our” cannot be so easily explained in the context of the ancient world. No evidence exists for the creation of people in both the image of GOD and the image of His angels. So, is it a coincidence that the plural Hebrew noun translates to “us” and “our”? It seems more likely that this implies a greater complexity to GOD’s nature and is a reference to the Trinity (Father, Son, Spirit). But should it truly surprise us that GOD’s greatness cannot be fathomed? It is written in Isaiah 55:8-9, “‘For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways,’ declares the Lord. ‘For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways And My thoughts than your thoughts.’ ” And though the special divine revelation of the Trinity is not fully developed in the Old Testament, it is definitely foreshadowed (Psalm 110:1; Proverbs 30:4; Isaiah 63:7-10). Now examine: Genesis 1:1 describes the Father, Genesis 1:2 describes the Spirit, and Genesis 1:3 describes the Word (who is the Son). That’s the Trinity in the first three verses of the Bible. Yet we are created in “His” image? Whose image? In the image of the invisible GOD? No, but yes. We were created in the image of Jesus (the Son). From the beginning, humans were designed according to the design of Jesus’s body. We were modeled after Jesus. Daniel 3:1 describes the statue of Nebuchadnezzar with the same Hebrew term for image. Thus, “image” and “likeness” and synonymous. But even the use of Elohim is an incomplete picture of GOD. In Hebrew thought, a name was not just a way of identifying a person; it was a way of revealing his/her very identity and essence. It is the same with the names of GOD, but in Scripture, GOD’s identity is expressed not just in one name but in multiple different names, each one describing something new we need to learn and know about GOD. Each name of GOD is like a curtain covering a window. When the curtain is drawn back, the name becomes more fully known and glimpses of GOD can be seen. Elohim is the most common of the names used within Scripture, but there are many names associated with GOD because GOD’s greatness cannot be described by only one name.

Colossians 1:15 says, “He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation.”

Jesus (the Son) is the image of the invisible Father, and humans were created in His image. The word “firstborn” is an English translation of the Greek word πρωτότοκος [G4416] prōtotokos (pro-tot’-ahk-ahs), which references Jesus’s preeminence over all and superiority in position. Even Israel had been referred to as GOD’s firstborn (Exodus 4:22; Deuteronomy 21:16-17). Paul depicts Christ in terms similar to the presentation of the person of “Wisdom” in Proverbs 8:25-31 in that when everything was established, “I was there.” Wisdom was always present; likewise, Jesus was always present. In later Jewish wisdom literature, personified divine wisdom is described as the image of GOD. So, it would be a grave mistake to think in purely physical terms here, as if Paul were asserting that the Father existed before the Son and that the Son had a physical origin or was somehow created (the classic Arian heresy) rather than existing eternally as the Son, with the Father and the Holy Spirit, in the Godhead. What Paul had in mind was the rights and privileges of a firstborn son— especially the son of a monarch who would inherit ruling sovereignty. This is how the expression is used of David in Psalm 89:27: “I also shall make him My firstborn, the highest of the kings of the earth.” So, not only are we created in Jesus’s image by physical appearance of the human body GOD designed, but we are also created in His image because we are supposed to be a reflection of GOD’s glory and character in our capacity for reason, creativity, humor, joy, speech, and free will for love and all its characteristics. As the image and likeness of GOD, humans were granted authority over earth, but that rulership only equates to stewardship because as it is written in Psalm 24:1, “The earth is the Lord’s, and all it contains, The world, and those who dwell in it.” But even though we were supposed to be children of GOD who reigned over creation as fruitful males and females (Genesis 1:28), Paul would later write in Romans 1:22-32 that the opposite happened due to the Fall:
22 Professing to be wise, they became fools, 23 and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and crawling creatures. 24 Therefore God gave them over in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, so that their bodies would be dishonored among them. 25 For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. 26 For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 27 and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. 28 And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper, 29 being filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, evil; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malice; they are gossips, 30 slanderers, haters of God, insolent, arrogant, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, 31 without understanding, untrustworthy, unloving, unmerciful; 32 and although they know the ordinance of God, that those who practice such things are worthy of death, they not only do the same, but also give hearty approval to those who practice them.”

But how did that happen? It happened due to the Fall (which will soon be discussed). Before the Fall, however, in Genesis 1:31, “God saw all that He had made, and behold, it was very good.” The creation is good because GOD the Creator is good (Psalms 34:8; 100:5; Jeremiah 33:11; Nahum 1:7; 1Peter 2:3). And because we were created in His image and likeness, we were designed for the very purpose of being good and doing good.

How many attributes of GOD can you think of that are good? How many of those good attributes do you accurately reflect for all mankind to see so that they might see your goodness and glorify GOD who is in Heaven?
If every human being is created in the image of GOD, how should you treat every human being you encounter? Do you meet that requirement? If not, what can you do to meet that requirement?


Breath of Life; Living Being

Genesis 2:7 says, “Then the Lord God formed man of dust from the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being.”

The Hebrew אָדָם [H120] ‘āḏām (aw-dahm’) for “man” sounds like the Hebrew אֲדָמָה [H127] ‘ăḏāmâ (ad-aw-maw’) for “ground” in order to highlight the fact that human beings truly are nothing special without GOD’s breath of life. GOD spoke everything else into existence (Genesis 1:3,6,9,11,14,20,24), but He was intimate and personal when He created us in His image (1:26-27)! We were shaped and formed! Though the most common English translation of the Hebrew עָפָר [H6083] ʿāp̄hār (aw-fawr’) is “dust”, it may also be translated as dry earth, loose earth, ground, or even clay. And this would make sense because the Lord is the Potter and we are the clay (Isaiah 29:16; 64:8; Jeremiah 18:6; Lamentations 4:2; Zechariah 11:13; Romans 9:20-21). And then we received the Breath of Life! When it is written that man became a “living being”, that is the Hebrew נֶפֶשׁ [H5315] nep̄hešh (neh’-fesh), which means soul, self, life, that which breathes, that which possesses the breath, the inner being of a person, mind, living being, creature, desire, emotion, passion, or activity of the mind, will, or character. This is the same word used in Genesis 1:20,21,24,30 which describes all sea, land, and air animals that possess breath. And so the breath of GOD is what gives the creature its value. Humans have value; however, what is the value of the chemical elements that make up our bodies? If humans are without souls, what would the body be worth based on the material value? We were formed from the ground. Without the Breath of Life, the body is a mere shell. Scripture calls our bodies vessels and holy temples (John 2:21; Romans 9:21; 1Corinthians 6:19-20; 2Corinthians 4:7; 1Thessalonians 4:4; 2Timothy 2:20-21; Revelation 2:27). The substance is dependent upon its Source. GOD spoke to the source to create the substance. Without the source, the substance dies. Water is the source of fish; if you take a fish out of water, it will die. If you pull the vegetation out of the ground, it will die. If you separate a human body from the Breath of Life, the body will die. Is death an instantaneous response to the separation? No. The death happens slowly. Does a flower automatically die once you pluck it from the ground? No, it slowly withers to nothing. A human without GOD is like a fish out of water or a flower plucked from the ground. GOD spoke to the source to create the substance! But GOD spoke to Himself when He created humans! Nothing else was created by GOD speaking to Himself. Only humans. But GOD is The Source of everything (Deuteronomy 8:3; Psalm 42:1-3; Matthew 4:4; 5:6; Luke 4:4; John 4:10-14; 6:35,41,48,51; 7:37-38; Revelation 7:17)!

So, are you seeking the Source? David – a man after GOD’s own heart (1Samuel 13:14; Acts 13:22) – would later seek the Source while writing Psalm 8:3-9, declaring, “When I consider Your heavens, the work of Your fingers, The moon and the stars, which You have ordained; What is man that You take thought of him, And the son of man that You care for him? Yet You have made him a little lower than God, And You crown him with glory and majesty! You make him to rule over the works of Your hands; You have put all things under his feet, All sheep and oxen, And also the beasts of the field, The birds of the heavens and the fish of the sea, Whatever passes through the paths of the seas. O Lord, our Lord, How majestic is Your name in all the earth!”

Genesis 2:15 says, “Then the Lord God took the man and put him into the garden of Eden to cultivate it and keep it.”

This is the rulership that becomes stewardship. GOD appointed Adam to be over the garden. Similar verbs describe the later role of the priests and Levites in the tabernacle and temple (Numbers 3:7-8; 8:26). These verbs, however, can also be translated as “serve” and “guard”. So, the man (Adam) was appointed a priestly role to protect the garden sanctuary.

You are a living being because you possess GOD’s breath of life within you. How long can you hold your breath? How long can you claim you don’t need GOD? After holding your breath for as long as you can, what adjectives can you use to describe the gift of breathing?

How does Adam’s priestly role over the Garden of Eden relate to your life? What has GOD allowed you to rule over? Are you being a good steward of what GOD has allowed you to rule over? If so, what are the ways you believe you are a good steward? If not, what do you need to start doing to be a better steward of all that GOD has given you?


The Woman

Genesis 2:18-20 says, “18 Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him.” 19 Out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the sky, and brought them to the man to see what he would call them; and whatever the man called a living creature, that was its name. 20 The man gave names to all the cattle, and to the birds of the sky, and to every beast of the field, but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him.”

This is the first occurrence we see of GOD’s great gift of free will granted to man. Whatever Adam chose to call the animals, GOD permitted Adam’s freedom of choice. Why? Because GOD was setting Adam up for an even greater decision he would soon need to make regarding his compatibility with the animals. GOD first showed all the animals to Adam so that he could realize on his own that animals are not suitable for being a sexual partner and life helper. That’s simply not the design. Animals are not equal to humans in value.

Leviticus 18:22-23 says, “22 You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination. 23 Also you shall not have intercourse with any animal to be defiled with it, nor shall any woman stand before an animal to mate with it; it is a perversion.” [see also, Exodus 22:19; Leviticus 20:10-22; Deuteronomy 27:21]

Genesis 2:22-24 says, “22 The Lord God fashioned into a woman the rib which He had taken from the man, and brought her to the man. 23 The man said, ‘This is now bone of my bones, And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man.’ 24 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.”

Therefore, one male and one female for one lifetime is GOD’s design because GOD made female for male and presented her to him as a gift. Marriage was GOD’s idea. For this reason, no relationship other than what GOD designed and approved of can ever be called a marriage. GOD used Adam’s “rib” to form Eve in order to show that they were actually the same created being, two halves of a whole — two become one (Matthew 19:5; Mark 10:8; 1Corinthians 6:16; Ephesians 5:31). The female was not created as a separate being, second to the male. She was formed as part of the initial man, as the continuation of the creation, in order to be a suitable helper for the male, being compatible, complementary, and complete just as the North Pole and South Pole are both necessary for the whole earth to be complete as one. And because the two are one, if a man hates, hits, or hurts the woman, he hates, hits, and hurts himself. In fact, man was incomplete without woman; likewise, woman is incomplete without man. Relationship is essential to purpose. Adam lost a “rib”, but what he gained was more valuable than what he lost. Everything of value is worth the sacrifice that is required to obtain that something of value. But why did GOD use Adam’s “rib”? The Hebrew word for “rib” is צֵלָע [H6763] tṣēlāʿ (tsay-law) and always means “side” where it occurs elsewhere in Scripture. Marriage, therefore, is a natural relationship of the side reuniting with the man missing his side. The puzzle is not complete without the missing piece. Eve came from Adam’s side. In other words, Eve is the other half of Adam. This would explain why Adam exclaimed that Eve was bone from his bone and flesh from his flesh. This also explains why he calls her woman — she was taken from man. And because bone refers to strength and flesh refers to weakness, Adam’s declaration of his delight of the woman would be equivalent to a modern marriage vow: “In strength and weakness, whether good or bad, health or sickness, we are one!” When GOD created Eve from Adam’s side, He accomplished the act in such a way that showed the woman was to complement and complete man in the integral union of marriage. Woman was created to be “beside” man, not beneath him nor above him. Side by side. Equal. And this would explain why there is neither male nor female, that all are one in Christ Jesus (Galatians 3:28). Adam sacrificed some of himself in order to have Eve as a partner in life. Ponder on that. Some people won’t donate any part of their bodies – not even to save a life – but Adam made the sacrifice of his side just to have Eve by his side and abolish loneliness from his life. He was thankful that he was able to make a sacrifice in order to abolish loneliness. What sacrifices are you willing to make in order to abolish loneliness from your life? Talk to people? Actually give someone a chance? Decide not to be judgmental about the way they look and instead make a decision to get to know that person’s character and personality? You may not need to have your side surgically removed, but you will have to give up something spiritually in order to gain something spiritual. If you think about it, all that you’re really giving up is the loneliness itself and trading it in for the joy of fellowship or relationship. And though Eve became the female human “helper” for Adam, all females are only capable of help according to the limits of being a finite and fallible human. Scripture informs us that ultimately, the Lord is our Helper (Psalm 33:20; 70:5; 115:11; 121:2) and He will help us return to the original design of relationship with Him while having joy, peace, security, and fulfillment of purpose on the New Earth under the new heavens (Revelation 21-22).

If you are a male, do you have a wife? If you are a female, do you have a husband? If so, when was the last time you thanked GOD for your helper?
When was the last time you thanked your spouse for being your helper?
What sacrifices are you willing to make for your marriage?
When was the last time you both prayed, praised, and/or worshiped GOD together as one?


The Serpent’s Slippery Slope

Genesis 3:1 [a] says, “Now the serpent was more crafty than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made.”

Is Satan the serpent? Yes; he is also known as the dragon and the devil.

2Corinthians 11:3 says, “But I am afraid that, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, your minds will be led astray from the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ.”

2Corinthians 11:14 says, “No wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light.”

Revelation 12:9; says, “And the great dragon was thrown down, the serpent of old who is called the devil and Satan, who deceives the whole world; he was thrown down to the earth, and his angels were thrown down with him.”

Revelation 20:2. says, “And he laid hold of the dragon, the serpent of old, who is the devil and Satan, and bound him for a thousand years;”

Satan is described as being crafty, cunning, calculating, and indirectly deceiving. The word “crafty” is an English translation of the Hebrew word עָרוּם [H6175] ʿārûm (aw-room’), which means shrewd, crafty, wise, sensible, or prudent. Now, it’s important to realize that this is a good quality to possess. In fact, the same word is used in Proverbs 14:15, saying, “The naive believes everything, But the sensible man considers his steps.” Unfortunately, neither Eve nor Adam would be sensible enough to consider their steps and would soon be naïve enough to believe the serpent who would use a good quality in order to do evil and achieve an evil end.

Genesis 3:1 [b] continues, “And he said to the woman, ‘Indeed, has God said, “You shall not eat from any tree of the garden”?’ ”

Satan didn’t approach Adam directly; the serpent’s tactic was to slither in from the side in Adam’s blind spot. If Satan can’t get to you directly, he’ll go after all you love (see the book of Job). Just as Satan went after the wife (Eve) because he wasn’t able to get to the husband (Adam), Satan is after “the wife”/Bride of Christ/Church because he wasn’t able to get to “the husband”/Bridegroom/Jesus (Ephesians 5:22-33; 2Corinthians 11:2; Matthew 9:15; Mark 2:19-20; Luke 5:34-35; John 3:29; Revelation 19:7-9; 21:1-2; 22:17). Why did the serpent target Eve rather than Adam? Is it because females are inferior to males? No. Genesis 2:15-17 informs us that GOD had personally commanded and warned Adam about the forbidden fruit and then put him in charge of cultivating, keeping, and guarding the garden. It seems the serpent was confident that he would be able to trick Eve directly, but only be able to trick Adam indirectly through Eve because Adam already trusted Eve.

Genesis 3:2-6 says, “The woman said to the serpent, ‘From the fruit of the trees of the garden we may eat; but from the fruit of the tree which is in the middle of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat from it or touch it, or you will die.’” The serpent said to the woman, “You surely will not die! For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate.”

At first, Eve responded by repeating what GOD had said. Whether she heard the command and warning directly from GOD, we do not know, but she did possess knowledge of what GOD had said. If it had been Adam’s responsibility to tell Eve, then it is possible that she only knew because Adam told her. Noteworthy is the fact that Eve omitted the name of the tree (the knowledge of good and evil), which contains the rationale for not eating from it. So, did she know its name or had Adam simply told her about the tree in the center? Eve also added in a command that they shouldn’t even touch the fruit, which was not recorded in chapter 2. So, did GOD command not to even touch it or is that what Adam had told her? Regardless, the serpent’s first approach was to put GOD’s Word into question, but when the serpent realized she knew what GOD had said, his next tactic was to attack the true meaning of GOD’s words. This is what happens when we have GOD’s Word as head knowledge only without it being deeply rooted in our hearts. The serpent built off the foundation of what Eve knew and then used what she did not know in order to reinterpret GOD’s words to mean what GOD had never meant to say. Satan denied the consequence of sin and glorified its reward. If you’re going to lean on GOD’s Word, then Satan will try to use any area of ignorance about GOD’s Word in order to fill in the gaps with lies so that he can redirect you away from the straight path (Proverbs 4:20-27). Later on, Satan attempts to use this same tactic with Jesus while He is fasting in the wilderness, but Satan fails miserably because he tries to argue the Word with the One who is the Word (Matthew 4:1-11; John 1:1). And with the twisting of GOD’s words, the serpent presented to Eve a temptation to become her own god. All the serpent had to do was convince Eve that what she believed to be bad was not actually bad, but good that was being withheld from her by a deceiving dictator who wanted to prevent her from reaching her full potential. Have you ever heard a child say to a parent, “You just don’t want me to be happy!” or, “You never let me have any fun!”?

The serpent convinced Eve that she deserved better and that he wanted what was best for her. Sadly, even though we have GOD’s Word we can study, in 2024, there are deceived people who are claiming that Satan is actually the “good guy” and that GOD is the true villain because GOD wants to enslave us and withhold pleasure from us while Satan is trying to set us free so we can be happy without unjust restrictions. Ironically, both Adam and Eve were created in the image of GOD and were created to be like GOD, yet the serpent convinced Eve that she didn’t need GOD but needed to become her own god. Consequently, the tree became a “delight” to her eyes. That word translated as “delight” is the Hebrew תַּאֲוָה [H8378] ta’ăvâ (tah-ah-vaw’), which is a strong desire, a longing for something, or even a lustful appetite. This same word is used in Numbers 11:4 to describe the “greedy desires” of the Israelites who complained to GOD that they wanted what they did not have. When it says that “the tree was desirable”, the word translated as “desirable” is the Hebrew חָמַד [H2530] ḥāmaḏ (khaw-mad’), which means to covet. The same form appears in the Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:17; Deuteronomy 5:21) where GOD forbids the Israelites from lusting after what does not belong to them. Eve desired to possess what was not hers to possess.

The devil is the deceiver and original liar (John 8:44; 2Corinthians 11:14; Revelation 12:9). We know that’s what GOD’s Word says. But do we truly believe it? To know what is written is mere intellectual assent, but to trust in GOD’s Word is the faith GOD desires. To question GOD’s commands is to question His love for us. To question GOD is to put GOD on trial and accuse him of wrongdoing; in fact, the adversary is the accuser who desires to put GOD on trial (see the book of Job).

Satan told a “white lie” (half truth) when he told Adam and Eve they would not die. There is a difference between the physical death and spiritual death. Adam and Eve immediately died spiritually; however, their physical deaths didn’t come until much later. Just as a flower slowly withers and dies after being plucked out from the ground, Adam and Eve were plucked out from the Garden and so began to slowly wither and die. And because of this spiritual death, Satan is known as the father of all lies and a murderer from the beginning. When the conniving counterfeiter conjured up his plan to ruin a blissful and content life for Adam and Eve, he did it with intentions of ruining life for their children as well. Satan knew what he was doing — he is crafty, remember? Never underestimate the enemy. Satan will use the truth against us, but embellishing the truth, building his clever lies on the foundation of truth in order to persuade us to do or not do something. Think of the classic fairy tale, Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. The evil Queen convinced Snow White to eat the poisonous apple in order to kill her. Snow White only saw the outer truth which was the apple, but she did not see the inner truth of the poison. And so she died. Eventually, Snow White had a prince come to her rescue and save her through true love, taking her out of death’s hands. We also had a Prince that saved us and took us out of death’s hands because He saved us through true love – Christ Jesus (Isaiah 9:6; John 3:16-17; 1Corinthians 15:51-58).

Another example to consider is the seaweed decorator crab — it places objects on itself in order to disguise itself. Like the crab, the conniving counterfeiter also disguises himself (2Corinthians 11:14). The seaweed decorator crab is the truth – it is what it is. But then it places different sets of truths on itself so that you only see those particular truths and can no longer see the truth of the crab. When the crab disguises itself in this manner, it makes it easier to catch prey. Likewise, Satan is the same. For this reason, it is written in 1Peter 5:8 that “Your adversary, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.” Satan distracts us with surface truth sometimes so that we may be easier prey. I call Satan “The Salesman” because he always tries to sell us on different sets of surface truths by highlighting the good about them without mentioning the bad in order to persuade us to take him up on his offer. You have a choice to make: Deal or no deal. But in the skillful art of negotiation, the key is knowing when to walk away. In fact, GOD will always provide for us an escape or way out if we are seeking Him and His will. For this reason, Paul wrote in 1Corinthians 10:13, “No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it.” For this reason, 1Peter 5:9 continues with a solution to the problem: “But resist him, firm in your faith.” If Satan is the Salesman, then you must be the negotiator who seeks his/her Consultant (Holy Spirit) prior to making a damning deal. It’s important to realize that the Salesman will often present two options as if they are your only two choices. This is the fallacy of false dilemma. Satan essentially presented Eve’s situation to her in this way: “Well, you could either not eat that fruit and forever be devoid of complete joy and never know your full potential or you could eat that fruit and be like GOD, know your full potential, and possess complete joy. Listen, GOD simply doesn’t want you to be like Him. But you don’t have to be like Him. You can be you, but the best version of yourself, living out your full potential.” However convincing that false dilemma may sound, there is definitely a third choice that could have been made! Eve could have responded by saying, “Or I can trust in GOD’s goodness, believe He wants what is best for me, and be content with all that I have already been given. Why do I need more when I’m already happy? GOD has given me a great variety of fruit to eat from this entire garden. So, if He says I should stay away from that one, then I’ll trust Him.”

Satan’s reasoning was as if he presented a prize to Eve. The goal was to get Eve to doubt GOD’s goodness and then convince Eve that she no longer needed GOD because she could become her own god. This is an attack on identity. This is the original sin – pride. Satan also got Eve to redirect her focus from what she did have to what she did not have. And then the tree in the center became her center focus. Eve then harped on what she believed was being withheld from her and she became self-entitled, believing she deserved what was forbidden [even though it was forbidden for her own protection]. Genesis 3:6 informs us that Eve was convinced — she had been convinced that she could not be content with what she had and that she needed more. The battle was lost in the mind. The best use of free will is not in doing everything we want to do but in the discipline of choosing to act in faithful obedience because we know what not to do. For this reason, Paul said that all things were lawful for him, but but not all things were profitable or edifying, and so he refused to be mastered by anything (1Corinthians 6:12; 10:23). When GOD told Adam and Eve what not to do, it was for their own good. Whenever GOD tells us not to do something, it’s not because GOD loves controlling us and enjoys withholding something good from us. No, it’s because GOD loves us and is giving us inside information, or helpful hints. When GOD gives us a list of what not to do (like the Ten Commandments in Exodus 20:1-17), He is essentially giving us a cheat sheet of correct answers so we can pass the test easier. That is an act of love! But take notice of Eve’s process: she listened to Satan, received his words, allowed Satan’s words to have more authenticity and authority than GOD’s Word, she looked where Satan instructed her to look, desired what Satan promised, justified wrongdoing, took action, and then passed the sin along because she didn’t feel any immediate consequences. The battle is often lost as soon as a person concedes to the process of the slippery slope. Perhaps that is why Jesus told us that even a lustful look equates to adultery in the heart (Matthew 5:28) and the heart is where evil starts (Matthew 15:19). Sin is contagious and spreads like a virus (Matthew 13:24-30,36-43). Therefore, we need discernment to recognize Satan’s snares so that we will not even allow the process of the slippery slope to begin.

Sin gets accepted when it arrives in disguise under the notion of it either being able to bring us happiness or it being “progress.” But is it all truly progress? For what ultimate goal is this progress made? We are always making progress; we are always getting closer to a goal. But in which direction are we traveling? It is possible to travel with good intentions and still end up going in the wrong direction. Are we getting closer to praise or discipline? Every single step we take brings us closer to either Heaven or Hell. Humans have a long history of justifying their wrongdoings. Do any of the following sound familiar to you?
“It’s just a little bit…”;
“It’s only…”;
“Just for a little while…”;
“It’s not like I’m doing…”;
“At least I’m not doing…”;
“It’s not like it’s going to kill me.”;
“Well, it makes me happy, so…”;
“It feels good, so…”;
“Everyone does it.”;
“If it doesn’t hurt anybody else, it’s all right.”;
“If it feels okay, it must be.”;
“It’s not that bad.”;
“I’m just going to do it one more time…”;
“I deserve to be happy.”;
“My will be done.”
These subtle entreaties make Satan to be the salesman, the cunning counterfeiter, the master manipulator, the devil who deceives. For this reason, it is written in John 10:10 that “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy.”

How well do you know GOD’s Word?
Where do the gaps exist in your knowledge of GOD’s Word where Satan could fill in those gaps with surface truths that will ultimately lead to living out a deadly lie?
Where are you at in the process of the slippery slope?
If you have a spouse, is there anything your spouse does and/or wants you to do that is leading you away from GOD’s will? If so, how can you address this with your spouse in order to come back into alignment with GOD’s will?
How many counterfeits has Satan the salesman sold to you? What were they? Why were you fooled by them? What can you do to ensure it won’t happen again?
If you’re focusing on what you do not have, what can you do to shift your focus so that you can be grateful and content for all that you do have?
How many excuses are you making while trying to justify wrongdoing?
If you have justified your sin, have you passed the sin along to others? If so, who? And what can you say to that person now that you realize the wrong you’ve done?


The Fall

Genesis 3:7-13 says, ‘Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loin coverings. They heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden. Then the Lord God called to the man, and said to him, ‘Where are you?10 He said, ‘I heard the sound of You in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid myself.’ 11 And He said, ‘Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you not to eat?’ 12 The man said, ‘The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me from the tree, and I ate.’ 13 Then the Lord God said to the woman, ‘What is this you have done?’ And the woman said, ‘The serpent deceived me, and I ate.’ ”

This section showcases GOD as the Good Father who is patient and loving. GOD is the One who sought them out; it was the Lord who came looking for them. So, are we all truly so different from Adam and Eve? Ultimately, Jesus seeks every single one of us out, leaving the 99 just to come get the one (Luke 15:3-6; 19:10). While it’s true that GOD sought them out in order to discipline and correct them, He also sought them out for the purpose of restoring their relationship with each other and their relationship with Him. The first disconnect and loss was when Adam and Eve felt shame at their nakedness. Why would they cover themselves simply because they discovered they were naked? Why would that matter? Adam and Eve already knew each other and had previously seen each other naked on many occasions. So, why would the fact that they were naked disturb them now? Apparently, out of their innocence, they had been ignorant of the concept of being naked because GOD asked them how they knew they were naked, implying that they should not have known they were naked. Like young innocent toddlers who don’t yet realize the concept of nakedness, Adam and Eve had not realized the concept of nakedness because they had been without the knowledge of evil. I personally believe they had not had sexual relations prior to the Fall. Not only is their sexual relation not documented until Genesis 4:1 (after the fall), but in Matthew 22:30, Jesus said, “For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.” But if our future resurrection and life on the New Earth is the restoration of the original Garden design, why did GOD design for Adam and Eve to be married if there will not be marriage in the future? Because from His omniscience, He knew they were going to sin, that He would have to banish them from the Garden of Eden, that they would need to be fruitful and multiply, and that a future Seed would bring eternal restoration. This would explain why they both covered their reproductive parts immediately after their eyes had been opened. Most likely, it was the first time they felt the power of the lust of the flesh. It might have even been the first time Eve witnessed Adam with an erection. The concept of clothing had not yet been invented — clothing didn’t exist until GOD created it from animal skins (Genesis 3:21) — but Adam and Eve attempted to create covering from leaves. By covering themselves, they uncovered their sin and also revealed that they no longer believed they were good enough. And that is exactly what Satan desired to accomplish; Satan wanted them to disobey GOD and believe they weren’t good enough for GOD’s love. But what caused Adam and Eve to believe they weren’t good enough? This is the second disconnect and loss. Sin has a domino effect. Did Adam and Eve suddenly become self-conscious and perceive each other’s glances as negative spotlights that highlighted insecurities? A newfound awareness of nakedness would create many questions. What was the cause of this insecurity they felt? Perhaps the sudden rushing wave of emotions created confusion and uncertainty. It was all so new to them and they most likely felt overwhelmed and simply didn’t know how to respond. But the one thing that is certain is that both Adam and Eve suddenly felt as if they needed to hide themselves from each other. Satan created a divide between Adam and Eve. In addition, they both felt as if they weren’t good enough for GOD’s love and that they needed to cover up their guilt, confusion, and insecurities. They hid themselves from each other and then they attempted to hide from GOD.

The dominoes keep falling. The third disconnect and loss was when they experienced fear and attempted to hide from the Lord when they heard Him walking. But how could they hear Him walking if GOD is Spirit and invisible? Again, the Son is the physical exact representation of the Father. For this reason, Jesus said in John 14:9, “He who has seen Me has seen the Father.”

But why would Adam and Eve have experienced fear? Again, guilt was a new concept to them and it probably created confusion. Due to the uncertainty and new insecurities, they panicked and also desired to hide from GOD. Prior to this moment, they only knew GOD to be perfect, Holy, and just. How would a Holy GOD respond to their disobedience and the consequences that came from their choices? It’s easy for us to look back in time and look down on them in their situation and wonder how they could have been so ridiculous as to believe they could hide from GOD, but everything was new to them. Think about it: both Adam and Eve had to learn how to be human by themselves. We have had others to teach us and show us by example, but they were without that benefit. The entire concept of evil was new to them. Plus, we have all attempted to hide our sins in one way or another, haven’t we? If you’re honest, you’ll confess that you have. How many sins have you hoped to get away with in your lifetime? How many sins have you committed in “secret”? But are your sins truly veiled in secrecy? Isn’t GOD omniscient?

If GOD is omniscient, why did He inquire of Adam’s location? Well, when GOD asks us questions, it is not because He does not know the answer, it is for our benefit so that we may seek the answer (Mark 10:18). And even though Adam and Eve desired to hide from GOD, these verses reveal GOD’s desire to have a relationship with us — He made the effort to seek them even when they were making an effort to hide. Hide and Seek is a popular game children play. Think about this: it’s not fun to go hide unless you are eventually found. If you remain in hiding for too long, you will soon feel forgotten and/or get tired of hiding and come out of your hiding place. If the seeker decides not to seek, then how could the one hiding ever be found? Some people are hiding in their shame; however, some people are lost and don’t even realize they’re in danger and need to be found. But GOD is the loving Father and Seeker of souls who actively looks out for the lost (Luke 15:20,24; 19:10).

Everyone who has a guilty conscience is without excuse (Romans 1:19-20; James 4:17). A guilty conscience is a warning signal GOD installed within us to let us know when we have violated the absolute moral standard. The “no regrets” lifestyle will be the biggest regret of your life. We are designed to learn from our mistakes. Some regrets are good to have because they keep us humble and help us grow. And this is why Adam confessed to GOD that he was somewhere he wasn’t supposed to be (hiding in fear among the trees). But we all need to answer the question GOD asked Adam: “Where are you?” So, are you in hiding? Are you lost? Where are you? Are you where you are supposed to be? If not, why are you there? GOD does not launch a monologue-missile toward you with intentions of destroying His target; rather, He asks questions and listens carefully, hoping for a dialogue that will lead to genuine relationship. He wants to hear you confess your wrongdoings and then learn from your mistakes so that you can become the person He designed and purposed you to be. For this reason, Paul wrote in 1Thessalonians 4:3, “For this is the will of God, your sanctification.” Therefore, it is GOD’s will that we go through a purification process so that we will end up being Holy vessels fit for the Kingdom (Proverbs 17:3; 25:4; 2Timothy 2:20-21; 1Peter 1:6-7). In Romans 6:19, Paul explains that we must die to our flesh and sin, continue practicing righteousness, and that practicing righteousness will result in our sanctification.

Examine closely the questions GOD asked Adam. Where are you at in life right now? How did you get there? Whose words were you listening to? Did you act on those words or My words? When confronted with sin, how do you respond? At first, Adam refused to take responsibility for his action and he blamed Eve. After blaming Eve, he even blamed GOD for giving Eve to him. However, after blaming Eve and GOD, he confessed that he did eat the forbidden fruit. How do you think that made Eve feel toward Adam? How did that affect their relationship? How would you feel if your spouse shifted the blame onto you in front of GOD – even if it was your fault? Would you feel betrayed and hurt? And even though Eve confessed to eating the forbidden fruit, she also refused to take responsibility for her action and she blamed the serpent. And though it’s not written in the passage, the serpent (Satan) refused to look inward; instead, he tried to blame humans while putting GOD on trial for creating the humans (see the book of Job). But was Adam guilty or was Eve the only one who was guilty? Yes – Adam was also guilty. Eve certainly did give the forbidden fruit to Adam, but it was his decision to receive it from her. Certainly, the serpent was guilty for convincing Eve to eat the forbidden fruit, but Eve possessed free will and did not have to choose to eat of the fruit. The victim mentality refuses to look inward and/or accept responsibility. What about you? Do you take responsibility for your actions or do you try to shift the blame onto others? Is it truly your parents’ fault? Does the blame truly fall on that person or people you have in mind? Are you completely blameless? Are you sinless? Certainly not (Psalm 51:5; Romans 3:23). Is it possible that you have avoided looking inward and have refused to accept responsibility for what you have chosen to do? Sometimes people truly are victims and are not guilty in certain situations such as rape or death due to a vehicle accident, but most people reap what they sow (Job 4:8; Proverbs 14:14; 22:8; Jeremiah 17:10; Hosea 10:12-13; Luke 6:37-38; 2Corinthians 9:6; Galatians 6:7-8). However, we must have the mentality that we are not victims; rather, we are conquerors in Christ (Romans 8:37-39)! And what do conquerors do? They take responsibility for their own actions and they overcome evil by doing good (Romans 12:21)!

Genesis 3:14-15 says, “14 The Lord God said to the serpent, ‘Because you have done this, Cursed are you more than all cattle, And more than every beast of the field; On your belly you will go, And dust you will eat All the days of your life; 15 And I will put enmity Between you and the woman, And between your seed and her seed; He shall bruise you on the head, And you shall bruise him on the heel.”

Satan wanted GOD to blame and curse the humans, but GOD – as the Holy Judge – pronounced a guilty verdict on Satan and sentenced him with a curse. Not only does dust symbolize humiliation (Genesis 18:27; Job 30:19; 42:6; Psalm 72:9; Isaiah 49:23; 65:25; Micah 7:17), but man was created from the dust of the earth and so Satan will be forced to eat dust as a daily reminder that the humans he wanted to corrupt and destroy will forever be a bad taste in his mouth as he will forever be beneath them, never to be elevated above them. And then GOD promised that through the woman the Son of Man will “bruise” his head and he will only “bruise” His heel (Romans 16:20; Galatians 4:4; 1John 3:8). This, of course, is prophecy concerning Jesus finally cutting the head off the serpent and putting an end to his venomous bite that brings death. This prophecy concerning the Seed becomes the seed of all future prophecies. That word “bruise” is an English translation of the Hebrew word שׁוּף [H7779] šhûp̄h (shoof), which means to snap at, to lie in wait for something/someone, to fall upon, or to overwhelm. Therefore, the depth beyond the surface of this promise is all about GOD’s perfect and precise timing. When the time is right, the Lord will crush the serpent’s head while the serpent believes his timing in striking will be most effective. In other words, GOD essentially said, “I already know what you will plan to do and it won’t work. I’m going to allow you to strike and then I’m going to use your own plan against you and strike you down.” Interestingly, David used this same Hebrew word in Psalm 139:11 while describing GOD’s omniscience and omnipresence, stating that even if he were to be overwhelmed by the darkness of night, darkness is not dark to GOD because both darkness and light are alike to the Lord who can see everything.

Genesis 3:16-19 says, “16 To the woman He said, ‘I will greatly multiply Your pain in childbirth, In pain you will bring forth children; Yet your desire will be for your husband, And he will rule over you.’ 17 Then to Adam He said, ‘Because you have listened to the voice of your wife, and have eaten from the tree about which I commanded you, saying, ‘You shall not eat from it’; Cursed is the ground because of you; In toil you will eat of it All the days of your life. 18 “Both thorns and thistles it shall grow for you; And you will eat the plants of the field; 19 By the sweat of your face You will eat bread, Till you return to the ground, Because from it you were taken; For you are dust, And to dust you shall return.”

GOD didn’t threaten Eve with greater pain, He merely promised her what was going to happen as consequences of her choices. If she wanted to be like GOD, then she would have to bring children into the world via creation and experience the pain they will bring her. Eve had never given birth before, but GOD warned her in advance to expect it to be painful. Just as GOD’s children brought (and will bring) Him pain, she will also understand what it will feel like for a child of her own to bring her pain. May we understand GOD’s words not as prescriptive but descriptive. Ponder on this: Adam and Eve got exactly what they desired. Eve desired to be like GOD, to know good and evil, and to be the one to make all of her own decisions. Adam was with her and also desired the same. However, getting what we want doesn’t necessarily mean that it will be what is best. How many times have you gone out of your way to get what you want only to later find out that it was not what was best or what you needed? All of GOD’s commands are for our own good. Just as a child trusts the parent(s) to give him/her what is best and right, we need to trust GOD that He wants the best for us and will give to us what is good (Proverbs 3:5-7; Matthew 6:26; 7:11; Luke 11:13; 12:24,28). Satan’s ultimate goal is for you to freely choose disobedience and rebellion. Doubt, discouragement, diversion, division, delay, and defeat will all amount to disobedience. Satan desires for you to question GOD’s goodness, focus on your problems rather than possibilities, keep your attention on attractive lures that will derail you, procrastinate and keep projects incomplete, and make you feel like a failure so that you will give up. Be careful about pursuing pleasantries. We can’t always get what we want — and that’s a good thing! The pursuit of pleasure can often lead us to pain. In fact, GOD tells Eve that her disobedience will bring pain in childbirth. Given the fact that Eve’s first son will later murder her second son (Genesis 4:8), perhaps the promised pain is less about the physical pain of giving birth and more about the emotional pain she will experience in seeing the violence and brokenness in her family due to everyone being born into sin (Romans 3:9-18; 5:12).

Genesis 3:20 says, “Now the man called his wife’s name Eve, because she was the mother of all the living.”

Up to this point, Adam’s wife had only been referred to as “the woman”, but now Adam gives her a name. Following GOD’s judgment, it is interesting that Adam gives his female partner in life the name “Eve” because the name Eve sounds like a Hebrew term that means, “to give life.” Both Adam and Eve were promised death because of their sins, yet Adam desired to restore his relationship with his wife and proclaims that even through death, life will come through her! There is hope in the midst of judgment! Life will conquer death! In fact, GOD even promised victory in Genesis 3:15 that her Seed will crush the serpent’s head (Romans 16:20; 1Corinthians 15:25; Revelation 12:9-10). And so Eve’s name proclaims the Gospel message: through death, life will come through her because the future Seed will be Jesus who will conquer death once and for all (1Corinthians 15:53-57).

Genesis 3:21 says, “The Lord God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife, and clothed them.”

The theological importance of this needs to be understood. GOD covered them. This is a divine covering. Throughout the Old Testament, one of the meanings of “to atone” is “to cover.” It’s no wonder that GOD’s righteousness is compared to clothing (Ecclesiastes 9:8; Luke 9:29; Revelation 3:5), as is unrighteousness being represented by “filthy garments” (Isaiah 64:6; Zechariah 3:3-4). Consider the father in Luke 15:22 who clothed his wayward son with the “best robe” upon the son’s return. It is also important to note that GOD covers Adam and Eve before they were expelled from the Garden. Grace always covers the Law. However, at least one animal that GOD called “good” (Genesis 1:25) had to die in order for Adam and Eve to be covered. This is truly where the sacrificial system begins: at the fall of mankind. Why? Because the promised spiritual death began in Genesis 3:6 with Eve’s covetousness. And as Paul would later write in Romans 6:23, “the wages of sin is death.”

Genesis 3:22-24 says, “22 Then the Lord God said, ‘Behold, the man has become like one of Us, knowing good and evil; and now, he might stretch out his hand, and take also from the tree of life, and eat, and live forever’— 23 therefore the Lord God sent him out from the garden of Eden, to cultivate the ground from which he was taken. 24 So He drove the man out; and at the east of the garden of Eden He stationed the cherubim and the flaming sword which turned every direction to guard the way to the tree of life.”

Why would a loving GOD banish Adam and Eve from the Garden of Eden? Did the punishment match the crime? GOD is Holy and sin simply cannot coexist with holiness (1Corinthians 10:21). GOD still loved them, but sin must be dealt with and evil must be purged. The difficult part to grasp in all of this is that GOD driving them out of the Garden and protecting the tree of life was a good thing and was for humanity’s best interest. Why? GOD had a plan to bring restoration. GOD is both justice and mercy. Even though Adam and Eve had to be punished for their sins, GOD had already made up His mind to love them, redeem humanity, and restore relationship through Christ Jesus. The big picture provides proper prospective and helps us understand GOD’s sacrificial love. GOD loves us so much that He allowed us to use our free will to make mistakes so that we can learn to love like Him. GOD only desired to prevent Adam and Eve (all of us) from living forever at that time because they (and all of us) were simply not yet ready to live eternally with a Holy GOD. Being able to rightly use free will to live in holiness requires not only a lifetime of training and practice, but because we are simply incapable of doing so without the help from the Holy Spirit, GOD needed to enact His plan for the relentless rescue operation of Jesus to atone for all of our sins. In the big eternal picture, the banishment is only temporary. Revelation 21-22 reveals that humanity will not be banished forever; in fact, we will live in His presence once again, but this time with glorified bodies (1Corinthians 15:35-58). GOD knew Adam and Eve were going to partake of the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil. He didn’t prevent them from doing so (as He did with the tree of life) because the Fall was absolutely necessary in order for us to go through the process of purification, learning how to be righteous and understanding why being righteous is good. The Fall serves the purposes of teaching us humility and gratitude. This life on this earth is mere training for the real life on the New Earth. All of us — in one way or another — had to partake of the fruit of the knowledge of good and evil before we could ever partake of the fruit of the tree of life. For this reason, Jesus said in Revelation 2:7, “He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To him who overcomes, I will grant to eat of the tree of life which is in the Paradise of God.” And then Revelation 22 reveals that the children of GOD will finally partake of the tree of life on the New Earth under the new heavens. And it is there we will realize that the process of purification, though painful, was worth it in the end. And our humility and gratitude will prevent us from ever having another Fall again.

In summary, Genesis means “beginning.” This is the beginning of space, time, matter, and all life. This is the telling of the Creator and His creation. GOD showcased His mastery as He created order in the cosmos and as He brought order to His relationship with people. GOD created everything perfect; one aspect of GOD’s perfection is revealed in His loving gift of free will, which was represented by the tree of the knowledge of good and evil (2:17). Adam and Eve had to make a choice: will they trust GOD’s definition of good and evil and live by His absolute standard or will they choose autonomy and define good and evil for themselves? This is where the adversary, Satan — depicted here as the serpent (3:1) — comes into the picture as an image of rebellion against GOD’s absolute standard. The serpent tells Adam and Eve that they will be like GOD if they possess all knowledge (3:5). This is the introduction to the origin of sin — pride. Through free will, the humans chose to sin and then sin separated us from GOD’s presence and Holy standard. Human relationships are a constant downward spiral due to the original sin and consequences continue to fall like dominoes. As a result of the separation (the Fall), people no longer had an accurate idea of who GOD is and what GOD is like; consequently, humans started to lose their identity. GOD’s love brought about a covenant with His chosen people so that sin would not win; GOD’s love will prevail. Even after the original sin, GOD makes a promise of victory through prophecy regarding the Son of Man (3:15) and a picture of redemption through sacrifice (3:21) from the animals GOD had called good (1:25) – all of which foreshadows what will follow throughout the entire Bible — GOD has a plan for restoration. However, the promise does not erase the consequences of sin; humanity will still need to persistently plow through the painful process of purification until the promise arrives. In the fallen world, evil accumulates and sin piles up. Obstacles are overcome one by one as GOD demonstrates His love and supremacy; however, the decision to be like GOD (3:6) causes widespread evil on Earth (6:5), which begins with Adam and Eve’s son, Cain (4:8)…

Has Satan led you to believe that you aren’t good enough for GOD’s love because of the mistakes you’ve made in your life? But what has GOD said about this?
The Lord is constantly pursuing you. Will you attempt to hide from the Lord? Or will you accept correction so He can make things right again?
Where are you at in life right now? How did you get there? Are you where you’re supposed to be? If not, why not? Whose words were you listening to? Whose words did you receive and act upon?
When confronted with sin, how do you respond? Do you take responsibility for your actions or do you try to shift the blame onto others? Is it truly someone else’s fault? Does the blame truly fall on that person or people you have in mind? Are you completely blameless? Are you sinless?
The Fall came about due to a disconnect of head knowledge of GOD’s Word and a deep trust in the Lord within the heart. Are there any areas in your life right now where you lack trust in the Lord even though you know what GOD’s Word says about that topic? If so, what are those areas and why do you think it is so?
As a serious consideration, when you arrive on the New Earth under the new heavens, what do you think you will want to say to Adam and Eve when you see them there? I think I will say, “If I’m honest, I think I would have done the same thing you did. But praise the Lord that He allowed us the opportunity to temporarily taste the bitterness of evil so that we will be eternally grateful for the sweetness of the tree of life. Amen.”

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What Is Love?

The following article is Lesson 3 from my book, Superhero University: The Ultimate Superhero Training Manual:


Superheroes, having the correct understanding of what is good and right, are full of love, and they are compelled to act out from love. This is the only reason we can distinguish the hero from the villain. Spider-Man doesn’t save a falling person from splatting on the ground because he hates the person he saves, right? The superhero saves someone from danger/death because he/she has love for the person he/she is saving. In stark contrast, the villain performs acts of evil, not love. Again, evil is merely a privation of what is good; hatred is a privation or lack of love. It is written in James 2:8 that we are doing right by living a life of love toward others. But what is love? 

Love is not something we can have or hold like materialists would like us to believe. Not everything in life can be boiled down to materialism. Think about it: Can you describe the physical features of love or even the thought about love? How much does love weigh? Of what is the love molecule comprised? There is no infinity stone of love we can possess that can be contained in a gauntlet. In fact, of all the infinity stones Thanos (from the Avengers) had been able to collect that provided him with seemingly unlimited power and ability, it is evident that he lacked love, and that is why he had no qualms about murdering half of the created creatures in the universe—including his own daughter! In fact, Thanos had to sacrifice love in order to be able to obtain one of the infinity stones. Ultimately, Thanos traded love for power because he could not possess both. 

But what is love? And why do humans possess the capability to love? If love is not a material that can be weighed, or measured, how are humans able to possess love? How do we even know that love exists? Does love exist? We know that love exists—not because humans have defined the term—but because the Creator provided the definition of love and humans live by that defined divine design. 

Think about this: Oxygen—the air we breathe—exists whether humanity believes in it or not. In fact, oxygen exists even if humans call it something else. Humanity never created or invented oxygen; we merely discovered it. Likewise, love exists whether humanity believes love exists or not. Love exists even if humans call it something else. In fact, the definition of love is so confused by many humans because they believe it to be something it is not. Many people misuse the word love when they are actually referring to something else that love is not. And this is why it is important that the word love be clearly defined. 

(1 John 4:7–8, NLT)
“Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love.”

(1 John 4:19, ESV)
“We love because he first loved us.”

Scripture makes sense. If GOD is love, then we would love because GOD first loved us because GOD created us. We are able to love because GOD is love and we are from GOD. If love is GOD, then we must know who GOD is so we can better understand what love is. So who is GOD? We will examine that in detail in Lesson 32, but for now suffice it to say that GOD is love and the absolute moral standard and therefore provides the definition of love (which we will soon examine and define). But we can also better understand love by examining what love is not. 

Love Is Not An Emotion 

Many people in the world claim that love is an emotion, but that simply isn’t true. Love affects our emotions and even causes us to produce emotions within us, but love is not an emotion in and of itself. You may claim that you can feel as if someone loves you, but love is not a feeling. 

Love Is Not Sexual Intercourse 

It is unwise to confuse sex for love and love for sex. Sex needs love to be relevant and meaningful; however, love does not need sex to be relevant and meaningful. A person can have sex with another person simply for the pleasure all while possessing no love for that individual. Examples of this, of course, is prostitution or rape. Such acts of sexual intercourse are meaningless because there is no love in the act of sex. That kind of sex serves a selfish purpose, but has no ultimate meaning. And of course, sex isn’t necessary for love to exist, to be relevant and be meaningful (I will expound upon this later when I define love). Now sex may be found in one of the definitions of love (Eros—I’ll get to this soon), but Eros is within the definition of love; love is ultimately selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional. A distorted desire is often misconstrued, mistaken as love. It is unwise to confuse lust for love. 

Even if love is not an emotion, a feeling, or even the act of sexual intercourse, does it matter if love can be clearly defined? If so, why does it matter? Consider what is written: 

(1 Corin. 13:1–3, NLT)
“If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.”

The definition of love matters because GOD is love and GOD created us in His image (Gen. 1:27). For without GOD, love would not matter because life would ultimately be meaningless and purposeless. And if we are to be loving beings, it is important that we understand the definition of love. 

What Is Love? 

(1 Corin. 13:4–8, NLT)
“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever!”

Love Is an Action 

Though it is not specifically and solely the act of sexual intercourse, love is definitely an action; it is something we do. Read verses 4–7 again and take notice of the fourteen different active descriptions the Holy Spirit (via Paul) uses to define love (patience, kindness, etc.). It’s important to note that this is not Paul’s definition of love, but the definition of love written by Paul while he was inspired by the Holy Spirit. 

Love Is a Choice 

The fourteen active descriptions are actions that we choose to do or not to do. There’s a nonsensical saying that states, “You can’t help who you love.” But yes—you can! We get to decide if we love and who we will love if we decide to love. And this is because we have free will (discussed in Lesson 41). 

Also, there’s a saying that states, “I fell in love.” It sounds so romantic, but this is also nonsense. Love is not a hole or trapdoor we can fall in. You don’t fall in love any more than you fall out of love. Love is a choice. You choose to love. You choose not to love. People do not fall in love; people decide to love. People do, however, fall into the trapdoor of lust. When people talk about love at first sight, what they really mean is lust at first sight. Now is it possible to possess love for someone at first sight? General love? Yes. Complete love? No. Love in the sense that you want the best for someone? Yes. Love in the sense that you desire the best for someone despite all his/her flaws and mistakes? No. It’s not possible to love someone so deeply at first sight because you wouldn’t know the flaws and mistakes associated with the person. And how is it possible to truly love someone unless you love despite the flaws and mistakes? 

Love, in a nutshell, is the good you will show toward someone and/or others. It’s treating someone else with the qualities described in 1 Corinthians 13:4–7. Take the Supreme Superhero (Jesus) as an example (after all, the Savior is the definition of love and the ultimate example of love): 

(John 15:12–13, NLT)
“This is my commandment: Love each other in the same way I have loved you. There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”

However, the Supreme Superhero goes even further by commanding us to love our enemies (Matt. 5:43–48). And then the Savior did exactly that—Jesus went out and laid down His life for us by dying on the cross as our atoning sacrifice while being mocked, spat on, beaten, lacerated, and murdered by those who hated Him for no good reason. Love is caring more for others than for self because love is selfless. Love is sacrificial. Love is unconditional. 

Love Defined 

Unlike the English language, which uses the one word of love ambiguously, the ancient Greek language used different words to define the one word of love so that people wouldn’t be confused as to which definition of love should be inferred. Examine the four following words and their associated definitions: 

• Storge/stergo—This is a familial love such as the love of a parent toward offspring and vice versa. Devotion can be a key word associated with this type of love.

• Phileo—This love is companionable and relational. It means brotherly/sisterly love or friendship. It carries the idea of two or more people who feel compatible with each other.

• Eros—This is the word for sexual or romantic love. In fact, this is where we get the word erotic. This word implies a sexual demand. And because it is unwise to confuse lust for love, it is imperative that we not confuse lust for Eros. The passion and intimacy of Eros is to be confined within the covenant bond between husband and wife, as was designed by the Designer. Lust is only about the pelvic thrust, to seek pleasure and fulfill a selfish desire. Lust is committed only to fulfilling a distorted desire whereas love (eros) is committed to fulfilling the needs of the partner within the covenant union. Therefore, be wise: pursue love and reject thoughts produced from the lustful lair of the Liar—they are lies created in the cave of the contemptible con artist and Counterfeiter, the Salesman that is Satan. Don’t buy the lies. Even a lustful look is adultery in the heart (Matt. 5:28). Money can’t buy you love. And no—that’s actually not from the Beatles—it’s from the Song of Solomon 8:7.

• Agape—This is the highest and deepest level of love. This is the ultimate love and is selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional. This is the love of GOD. This is the type of love all superheroes should possess. 

(1 Pet. 4:8, NLT)
“Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins.”

Love covers a multitude of sins? Is that true? Yes! In fact, that is exactly what Jesus did for us:

(Rom. 5:6–8, NLT)
“When we were utterly helpless, Christ came at just the right time and died for us sinners. Now, most people would not be willing to die for an upright person, though someone might perhaps be willing to die for a person who is especially good. But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.”

For love, compassion is the key and empathy is everything: 

(Luke 23:34, NLT)
“Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.”

Jesus is able to see us as His precious people, not a pervasive problem such as a plague. The Savior sees us as eternal beings, not mortal enemies. The Supreme Superhero sees us as family who belong in His heavenly home, not failures to be flung in the fiery furnace. Hell is where evil belongs and will ultimately be quarantined, but GOD doesn’t desire for us to go to that awful place. In fact, the Lord desires for everyone to be saved and doesn’t take any delight in the destruction of the wicked (Ezek. 18:21–23; 33:11; 1 Tim. 2:4; 2 Pet. 3:9). 

Jesus is our awesome, ardent advocate who absorbed for us the penalty of sin. Apostle Paul assists us by providing an important reminder that helps us put people into proper perspective: 

(Eph. 6:12, NLT)
“For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.”

It is of the utmost importance that all superheroes remember this: we are to hate evil/sin, but we are to love people. 

Conclusion 

1. Love never fails. 

(Song of Sol. 8:7, NLT)
“Many waters cannot quench love, nor can rivers drown it. If a man tried to buy love with all his wealth, his offer would be utterly scorned.”

2. Love perfects us. 

(1 John 4:12–18, NLT)
“No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us. And God has given us his Spirit as proof that we live in him and he in us. Furthermore, we have seen with our own eyes and now testify that the Father sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. All who declare that Jesus is the Son of God have God living in them, and they live in God. We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love. God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them. And as we live in God, our love grows more perfect. So we will not be afraid on the day of judgment, but we can face him with confidence because we live like Jesus here in this world. Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love.”

3. Love is supreme. 

(1 Corin. 13:13, NLT)
“Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.”

Reflection 

If you want to be a superhero, you must possess love and choose to love others. A superhero can only be a superhero if the hero first and foremost possesses love for others. Do you possess love for others? If not, you resemble a villain. But wait—is that a fair statement? Consider the words of the Supreme Superhero:

(Matt. 12:30, ESV)
“Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.”

The late and great Martin Luther King Jr. once posed a powerful question to the clergymen of Alabama in his renowned letter, “Letter from Birmingham Jail.” He asked, “So the question is not whether we will be extremists, but what kind of extremists we will be. Will we be extremists for hate or for love?” 

And that’s not a fallacy of false dilemma—if we’re not loving others, then…we’re not loving people. Therefore, I implore everyone to examine the motives and intentions of each and every choice/decision you make. Are you able to recognize good from bad? Right from wrong? Are you living a life of love or hate? For if you’re not living a life of love, what are you doing and what is your life? I choose to live an extreme life of love (not lust), and I urge you to do the same. Don’t scatter. Be a gatherer. Ironically, the best way to be a gatherer of people is to scatter seeds of love. How many seeds of love can you sow today? 

So ask yourself, do you love others? From where did you get this desire to love? Do you feel compelled to act out from love? If so, why do you think that is? All superheroes possess love for people. If you love people, then you possess one of the qualities of a superhero and you just might be one someday! 

Sexual Immorality: Promiscuity / Polyamory / Polygamy / Polygyny / Polyandry

This article is my response to a question I received via email:
“So here’s the questions and I’m pretty sure if I’m asking them I already know the answer, I just need to hear it from someone else I trust that knows God too. Is polyamory wrong? Is it a sin? Is marriage only supposed to be one man and one woman? If so, how do I stop the course we are on and move forward? Can it be stopped? If premarital intercourse is wrong and after marriage there is no sin between the married people, is it a sin to agree upon open relationships?”
You already know the answer within your spirit, but I’m going to expound upon it so that the Holy Spirit may speak more clearly to your heart and mind in this matter. 
Polyamory / Swinging:
An open marriage is generally defined as a marriage in which one or both spouses are allowed by the other spouse to have sex with other people. The two primary types of open marriages are polyamory and swinging. Polyamory is when the extramarital affairs purportedly involve emotional love. Swinging is when the extramarital affairs only involve recreational/casual sex.

The idea that one spouse should consent to the other spouse having sex with other people is absolutely foreign to the Bible. Or do you not remember that GOD commanded in Exodus 20:14 that you shall not commit adultery? Or that in Leviticus 20:10 it is written that “the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death”? Under the New Covenant of Christ, we will no longer put the adulterers to death, but Hebrews 13:4 says, “Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.” Moreover, GOD’s Word speaks of sex outside of marriage as immoral and adulterous (1Corinthians 6:13,18; 10:8; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1Thessalonians 4:3).

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Many critics raise the objection that if multiple partners is consensual then it’s acceptable. But no — it is still adultery! GOD is the one who defines what marriage is and what adultery is. GOD, in His Word, has declared sex outside of marriage to be adultery. A spouse’s consent to sin does not overrule GOD’s Law. We do not have the authority to create exceptions to what GOD has declared to be sinful.

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Aside from the biblical declarations that they are sin, polyamorous relationships cannot fulfill what the Bible says a marriage is to be. A married couple cannot be “one flesh” (Genesis 2:24) if multiple “fleshes” are involved. A married couple cannot fully love one another if that love is divided among other people. There cannot be true intimacy if what is supposed to be intimate is shared with others. Polyamory is not marriage. In no sense is a marriage supposed to be open to sexual activity outside of the covenant union of marriage.

Polyamory is, in reality, “poly-lust-ory.” There is nothing loving about it. This perversion of marriage is confirmation that “every intention of the thoughts of our hearts is only evil continually,” and that, without GOD, “everyone does what is right in his own eyes” (see Genesis 6:5 and Judges 21:25).

Polygamy / Polygyny / Polyandry:
In Genesis 4:19, Lamech took for himself two wives, but GOD does not approve of polygyny / polyandry. There is a difference between GOD’s acceptance of polygamy (even though GOD doesn’t like it) and GOD’s approval of polygamy. To define marriage, we need only to examine the original design. Marriage should be defined as a covenant between one male and one female, both being of a proper age of maturity that would enable a mutual consent to a lifelong partnership that is designed to unite the two as one in a committed relationship of equal service in love. The union of the two as one should not be detached, divided, disconnected or divorced unless death separates them or the sin of sexual immorality defiles the covenant and creates a chasm between the commitment that would cause division. The monogamous male-female union, introduced in Genesis between Adam and Eve, is the only model of sexual behavior consistently praised in both the Old and New Testaments (Genesis 1:27-28; 2:18,23-24; Leviticus 18:22; 20:13; Deuteronomy 17:17; Malachi 2:14-16; Matthew 19:4-6; Romans 1:26-27; 1Corinthians 6:9-10; 7:2; 1Timothy 1:9-10; 3:2,12; Titus 1:6).
Jesus said that in the beginning, they were created male and female. In addition, Jesus said that a man will leave his father and mother and will become one with his wife. Marriage was clearly identified as a union between a male and a female. Furthermore, Jesus specifically mentioned father and mother. Why? Because father is male and mother is female. No living thing, until GOD made woman, was capable of becoming one flesh with the man. In Genesis 2:18, GOD pronounced the absence of woman as being “not good” because it left man alone and incapable of accomplishing GOD’s purposes for humanity in His world.
Scripture conveys marriage as being closely tied to procreation (biology confirms this). In addition, we must realize that the design of marriage is a reflection of humanity in relationship with the one true GOD (Hosea; Ephesians 5:22-33; Revelation 19:7-8). And if marriage is a picture of our relationship with GOD, then multiple wives or husbands would be the same as humans being able to have multiple [false] gods; however, Scripture is clear that we are to only be in relationship with the one true GOD (Exodus 20:3,23; 23:24; Leviticus 19:4; Deuteronomy 6:4-5,14; Jeremiah 25:6; Matthew 4:10; 22:37). Thus, GOD’s design for marriage was disregarded and broken when Lamech chose to be unfaithful to his first wife by taking a second wife. And just as GOD allowed divorce due to a hardness of heart (Matthew 19:8; Mark 10:4-9), GOD also allowed polygamy for the same reason even though GOD did not approve of it.
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Another reason GOD may have allowed it was due to the fact that a woman’s value was largely unrecognized in that ancient culture; women were viewed as property, and were typically unable to provide for themselves because men owned and controlled everything. In light of this, GOD might have allowed multiple women to be under the umbrella of one man so that they might at least have provision and protection. While definitely not ideal, living in a polygamist’s palace might have been better than the alternatives: prostitution, slavery, or starvation.
The decision to disregard GOD’s design produced many problems. Multiple partners always created conflict, confusion, identity crises, and even led to idolatry (examine the lives of Abraham + Sarah + Hagar [Genesis 16:5-6; 21:9-11], or Jacob + Leah + Rachel [Genesis 29:17-18,30-31; 30:1-2,20,23], or even Solomon + hundreds). Even in David’s life, his sinful lust spilled over into his own family’s lives and affected them and caused disastrous results (2Samuel 11:1-12:23; 13:4-37). Further, David’s lack of discipline in this matter spilled over into Solomon’s life and it created disastrous results for Solomon as well (1Kings 11:3-4). Any addition to GOD’s design is a subtraction in quality of life and a division of loyalty, which ultimately leads to multiplied problems. The fact that all of these events were documented in the Bible is proof that GOD wants us to learn from their mistakes (Romans 15:4; 1Corinthians 10:6-13; 2Timothy 3:16-17).
Sexual Immorality:
The Bible is clear: sexual immorality is a sin (Acts 15:20; Romans 13:13; 1Corinthians 6:9; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1Thessalonians 4:3; Hebrews 13:4; Revelation 21:8). This includes defiling the marriage bed by bringing another person into it who is not the spouse. 
1Corinthians 6:18-20 says, “18 Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? 20 For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.”
 
Conclusion:
The sexual intimacy shared between a husband and wife is to be reserved for that couple alone. GOD created the sexual union to be between one husband and one wife. Period. Only. End of story. No other use of sexuality is ever approved of and praised in Scripture. All polygamy led to problems. To abuse or misuse GOD’s gift of sex is to defile the marriage bed. To remain faithful to a spouse, there can be no other love interest or sexual partner apart from the spouse.
Here’s my advice: seek a Christian marriage counselor and get to the root of the issues that is causing problems within your marriage. May you and your spouse completely dedicate yourselves to living out the right design of marriage in obedience to GOD’s Word. You can still come back into alignment with GOD’s will and be redeemed through genuine repentance.
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What About Divorce And Remarriage?

Many Christians have questions regarding divorce. After all, in Malachi 2:16, GOD says, “I hate divorce.”

Why does GOD hate divorce? Because divorce is defilement and a desecration of a committed covenant to remain faithful. Thus, divorce is unfaithful. Sadly, most people view divorce from the modern mindset of our society which is saturated in sin, and celebrates sexual immorality as a liberty for pleasure. But GOD’s Word is clear: divorce is a sin and GOD hates it. Therefore, marriage is to be defended at all cost. But are there any reasons why divorce would be acceptable?

(Matthew 19:3-12)
3 Some Pharisees came to Jesus, testing Him and asking, ‘Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?’ 4 And He answered and said, ‘Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning made them male and female, 5 and said, “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh”? 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.’ 7 They said to Him, ‘Why then did Moses command to give her a certificate of divorce and send her away?’ 8 He said to them, ‘Because of your hardness of heart Moses permitted you to divorce your wives; but from the beginning it has not been this way. 9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” 10 The disciples said to Him, ‘If the relationship of the man with his wife is like this, it is better not to marry.’ 11 But He said to them, ‘Not all men can accept this statement, but only those to whom it has been given. 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way from their mother’s womb; and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men; and there are also eunuchs who made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. He who is able to accept this, let him accept it.’ ”

Understand this: GOD’s Word is not a condemnation of those devastated by a divorce he/she did not want to happen; rather, it is a stern warning to adulterers who create situations leading to divorce. GOD’s original design for marriage is seen in the first couple, Adam and Eve. One male and one female in a committed, loving, lifelong relationship. Such faithfulness in a relationship is meant to reflect GOD’s eternal agape (love that is selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional) for His people (Hosea 2:19; Ephesians 5:31-32).

Now, our sinful society has become so desensitized to divorce, and so self-centered, that they typically seek an easy way out from faithful commitments. Typically, they are more concerned about their own pleasure than the fulfillment of their partners. And because GOD hates divorce, it must be understood that whatever grounds the Bible possibly gives for divorce, that does not mean GOD desires divorce to happen. Divorce is always a last resort. Rather than asking “is ______ a grounds for divorce,” our first and foremost response should be “is _______ grounds for confession, repentance, forgiveness and restoration?”

But with that said, there have been many cases of divorce where someone had reasonable grounds to separate. As Jesus said, the only real reason for divorce is immorality. Paul, speaking about an issue Jesus never addressed, says in 1Corinthians 7:15 that if an unbelieving spouse abandons the marital covenant, then the believer should allow the unbeliever to leave because GOD has called us to peace. 

But the most frequent additional grounds for divorce that people inquire about are spousal abuse (emotional or physical), child abuse, addiction to pornography, drug / alcohol use, crime and imprisonment, and mismanagement of finances (such as through a gambling addiction). None of these can be claimed to be explicit biblical grounds for a divorce. That does not necessarily mean, however, that none of those reasons are grounds for divorce of which GOD would accept. For example, knowing GOD’s nature as being love (1John 4:8,16), I cannot imagine that it would be GOD’s desire for a wife to remain with a husband who physically abuses her and/or their children. In such an scenario, the wife should definitely separate herself and the children from the abusive husband. However, even in such a scenario, a time of separation with the goal of repentance, forgiveness, and restoration should be the goal, not immediately beginning divorce proceedings. Please understand, by saying that the listed reasons are not explicit biblical grounds for divorce, I’m certainly not saying that a man/woman whose spouse is engaging in such destructive and harmful activities should remain in the situation. If there is any risk of harm to self or children, separation is a good and an appropriate response. The Bible is silent on the issue of spousal abuse as a reason for divorce, although it is evident what GOD expects a marriage to look like by examining Ephesians 5:22–33, which states that wives are to be subject to their husbands and husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her. Husbands are to love their wives as their own bodies because they are in fact two who became one flesh. Thus, abuse is contrary to everything godly. Physical violence against a spouse is immoral and should not be tolerated by anyone. No one should remain in an unsafe environment, whether it involves a family member, friend, employer, caregiver, or stranger. Physical abuse is also against the law, and civil authorities should be the first ones contacted if abuse occurs. It is not GOD’s will for you to accept physical or sexual abuse. Therefore, it is acceptable to leave the situation, find someone to help you stay safe, and involve law enforcement immediately. However, through it all, the person should pray for GOD’s guidance and protection. So, seek first separation, which is different from divorce. And in the separation, seek confession, repentance, forgiveness and restoration. If, however, repentance and restoration is not possible, perhaps divorce should be an option. But even in divorce, forgiveness is not optional and should be sought out (Matthew 6:14-15).

Now, when Jesus said that the only acceptable reason for divorce is immorality, we must thoroughly examine what immorality means. It is the Greek word porneia (por-ni’-ah), which comes from the word pornos (por’-nos). The word denotes a person who indulges in fornication (sexual intercourse between people who are not married to each other). This is a person who yields him/herself to defilement, typically driven by lust, but sometimes by gain. This word includes all sexual activity outside of marriage. The word “pornography” comes from this same Greek word. In fact, pornography is from the Greek word pornos and from the word grapho (graf’-o), which means to write. Thus, pornography refers to the writings or reflections about sexual defilement outside of marriage. This means that when an individual meditates on the writings or the photography contained in pornography, it is the equivalent of committing mental prostitution.

(Matthew 5:27-28)
27 You have heard that it was said, “You shall not commit adultery”; 28 but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

According to Scripture, willful and unrepentant use of pornography is adultery and is therefore grounds for acceptable divorce. Some wives/husbands believe they have prayed, appealed, fought, waited, pleaded, and sought counsel until there is nothing left to do. An unrepentant husband/wife who refuses to take accountability for his/her sinful actions and seek help is in fact providing his/her spouse with biblical grounds for divorce. He/she is no longer stumbling into lust as everyone does from time to time while striving to flee from temptation (1Corinthians 10:13); rather, he/she has chosen to live out an immoral lifestyle. He/she is forcing his/her spouse to live with an immoral adulterer and, in some ways, to participate in his/her sin. When they have sex, he/she is not making love to him/her alone. He/she is acting out his/her lust for other women/man on his/her spouse’s body. That is mental adultery, and the victim can tell. Addicts who refuse to change have hardened their hearts. So, if a spouse can honestly say he/she did everything possible to save the marriage, but the addiction is destroying everything marriage means, then divorce may be an allowable decision.

As for remarriage after divorce, the allowance for remarriage after divorce is GOD’s mercy for the one who was sinned against (the victim), not for the one who committed the sexual immorality (the perpetrator). Scriptures clearly state that remarriage after a divorce is adultery, except in the instance of marital unfaithfulness. Therefore, remarriage is for the victim, not the perpetrator. GOD offers His mercy and grace to the innocent party in a divorce and allows that person to remarry. The only specific allowances for remarriage after a divorce is for adultery (Matthew 19:9), and when an unbelieving spouse leaves a believing spouse (1Corinthians 7:12–15). In both cases, it is the victim, not the perpetrator, who is blameless and thus allowed to remarry. However, in special circumstances, it is possible that a person had been the reason for a divorce in the past but has since genuinely repented of his/her sinful actions. In this scenario, genuine repentance always leads to forgiveness. With GOD’s grace, people are given second chances and would be allowed to “do it right this time.” However, everyone must realize that we are never to abuse GOD’s grace in order to continue living out a sinful lifestyle (Romans 6:1-7). So, should you get remarried after a divorce? Pray to GOD for wisdom regarding what He would have you do (James 1:5). Pray with an open mind and genuinely ask the Lord to place His desires on your heart (Psalm 37:4). Seek the Lord’s will (Proverbs 3:5-6) and follow His leading. After all, it is possible that GOD may want you to remain single so that your devotion to Him will not be divided (1Corinthians 7:32-35).