Chronological Study (009/365)

Genesis 25:27 – 28:9


DESPISED BIRTHRIGHT
(Genesis 25:27-34)

Genesis 25:27-28 begins by informing us that when the twins grew up, Esau became an outdoorsman and skillful hunter whereas Jacob became a mild person of quiet temperament who preferred to stay inside the comfort of his tent. Isaac loved and favored Esau because he enjoyed eating the wild game Esau brought home; however, Rebekah loved and favored Jacob. And so this information immediately sets the stage for conflict due to a divided house out from favoritism.

As a side note, it is written that Isaac favored Esau due to him being an outdoorsman and hunter. It is also written that Ishmael was an archer who was accustomed to living life in the wilderness (21:20). Therefore, Isaac’s admiration for outdoorsmen might also be another reason why Isaac and Ishmael managed to work together to bury Abraham (25:9).

Returning to the twins, 25:29-30 informs us that at some point on some day, Esau returned from an apparent unsuccessful hunt. Exhausted and hungry, he begged Jacob for the red stew he made. This emphasis on the stew being red becomes the reason for Esau’s other name, Edom, which means “red”; however, it is also most likely the reason why Esau was described as “red” when he was born (25:25). The word “red” used to describe Esau at birth is the Hebrew אַדְמֹנִי [H132] ‘aḏmōnî (ad-mo-nee’). The word “red” used to describe Jacob’s stew is אָדֹם [H122] ‘āḏōm (aw-dome’). The nickname “Edom” is אֱדֹם [H123] ‘ĕḏōm (eh-dome’). And all three of these words come from the root word אָדַם [H119] ‘āḏam (aw-dam’), which means to be or appear red. And if you remember, the name “Adam” derives from that word as well and is the word אָדָם [H120] ‘āḏām (aw-dahm’). But what does Adam have to do with the color red? Well, blood is red, and as we already saw in 9:4, the Lord told Noah and his family that blood is equated with life and so they were not to consume the blood. In fact, later in Leviticus 17:11,14 and Deuteronomy 12:23, the Israelites will be told and reminded not to consume blood because the blood is life. Further, if you remember, after Cain murdered Abel, in Genesis 4:10, GOD said to Cain, “The voice of your brother’s blood is crying to Me from the ground.” Therefore, blood is life, blood is red, Adam (man) describes the red life within the body, and Esau’s nickname, Edom, is a play on words, which means red. Why? Well, it is written in 25:31-34 that after Esau begged for the red stew, Jacob, seeing a rare opportunity to take advantage of his brother, told Esau he could have the red stew only if he sold/transferred his birthright to him in a trade. Esau, claiming to be famished to the point of being near death, swore an oath to Jacob, ate a good meal, and then went on his way. And thus “Esau despised his birthright.”

But what exactly is a birthright? The birthright consists of the material blessings of a father being passed on to his sons. By right, the oldest son received a double portion of the inheritance received by the children (Deuteronomy 21:15-17; Luke 15:11-32). This birthright is often connected to, but needs to be distinguished from, ‘the blessing’. The blessing generally involved more of a focus on a spiritual allotment, but it crossed paths with the birthright with respect to future leadership and authority of the person (Genesis 27; 49). Royal succession was also a birthright, though GOD could countermand this privilege (2Chronicles 21:3; 1Samuel 23:17; 1Kings 2:15).

In Genesis 25:29–34, Esau willingly sold/transferred his birthright to Jacob, which, as we will soon see, forfeits his blessing (Genesis 27). Esau made an impulsive decision to give Jacob his birthright (a double portion of the family inheritance and position of future family leader) for some red stew—even though his birthright was never his to give away. By trading his birthright for some stew, Esau displayed contempt for the blessing GOD had given to him. What Esau despised is they very thing Jacob desired because he recognized its value. Esau did not grasp the significance of all that GOD had promised to fulfill through the unique line descended from Abraham, of which he was the natural heir as the firstborn. Esau did not appreciate that his birthright was linked to GOD’s plan of redemption for the whole world. So, Jacob grasped at his heel.

Consequently, Esau traded a long-term benefit/blessing for short-term pleasure, and it negatively affected his life. Although he will later swear at Jacob (27:41), here in this story he is content to swear to Jacob. Now, it’s easy for people to read Esau’s story, to look down on him, and believe themselves to be better than Esau, but is this situation really so uncommon? It would be wise to take the Lord’s advice for us to first examine ourselves before we make a quick judgment about Esau (Matthew 7:1–5; Luke 6:37–42). Have you ever traded a long-term blessing for short-term pleasure? Have you ever indulged in sexual relations prior to marriage in order to appease a short-term appetite in your pursuit of pleasure? If so, you traded a long-term benefit/blessing (keeping your virginity and purity sacred and holy for your partner in marriage) for a short-lived thrill. Have you ever spoken terrible words in the heat of the moment to satisfy your pride, only for those words to cause lasting damage to the relationship and for you to live in regret of those words later on? Have you ever given in to your desire for destructive drugs? Even if you haven’t yet experienced the long-term consequences of your decision to secure short-term satisfaction, you most assuredly will sooner or later. Many people have lived out the “Esau syndrome.” We can avoid making this mistake by comparing short-term satisfaction with its long-range consequences prior to making a decision and putting that decision into action. Our desires can demand our attention so much that we often magnify them in our field of focus. I call this the “Aperture Appetite.”

In photography, four main factors will determine if the background is blurry, leaving the focus solely on the foreground:

  1. Aperture: A wide aperture equals a narrow or shallow depth of focus.
  2. The distance from subject to background: The greater the distance between the subject and the background, the blurrier the background will be.
  3. The distance between the lens and the subject: The closer the lens is to the subject, the blurrier the background will be.
  4. The optical length of your lens (but all humans have the same “lens”).

So, putting everything together, if a person’s focus on a specific item or person is shallow and narrow, the details of the surrounding scenario will be difficult to ascertain. The distance from the subject to the background will always be great because the distance between a person’s life here on Earth is a great distance away from the new life in eternity. If a person is literally too close to a subject, the surroundings will not be in the frame and will thus be unknown. Esau’s focus narrowed to the shallowness of the surface situation, and he did not consider the surrounding scenario. The distance between Esau’s future and his present situation was great. Not taking that great distance into account, he made the mistake of allowing his lens to get too close to the subject. Because Esau was too close to the temptation and allowed himself to have a narrow focus on that temptation, the background of eternal consequences became blurred. The unfortunate part about a blurred background is that deception blends in with the rest of the blurred details. Therefore, Jacob’s deceitfulness went undetected because Esau’s desire dominated over his discernment. This is the Aperture Appetite.

But what about you? Is your temptation in your frame at all? If it is, do you start to make it the point of focus? Do you draw closer to your temptation while keeping your focus on it? Imagine this example of an Aperture Appetite in action: Within a man’s frame, there exists multiple items and people in a particular place. In this frame, an attractive female with flirtatious facial features exists. The man narrows his focus onto the specific depth of field for the female’s features. The man then draws closer and closer to the female until the man’s frame consists of only the female in focus and everything else is just a blurred background. Unfortunately for the man, in that blurred background is that female’s innocent yet ignorant husband. The female might be married, but because her husband isn’t in the man’s field of focus, that husband’s feelings and future will not be considered to be important. In fact, what I just described is what we will later see in 2Samuel 11 when David’s focus on Bathsheba leaves her husband, Uriah, in the blurred background to be buried. Acts of adultery are examples of the Aperture Appetite in action. Consider this: also, in the blurred background, let’s say there was a homeless woman sitting on the curb, hungry and cold. But because that woman was in the blurred background, her feelings and future will not be considered to be important either.

Sometimes it’s good to narrow our focus in order to examine something or someone closely; however, we should be able to see the bigger picture most of the time. In fact, both are necessary for Bible study. So, while it’s important for us to obtain precise focus on a particular word, verse, passage, or story, we also need the ability to zoom out to see how each word, verse, passage, or story fits into the entire salvation story. Ultimately, we need to set our sights on the Lord and keep our focus on heavenly things rather than the ways of this world (Matthew 5:27–29; 16:26; John 17:14; 18:36; Philippians 3:8–11,20; Colossians 3:2; Titus 3:7; Hebrews 13:14; 1Peter 5:10). And so for this particular story of Esau despising his birthright, the details help us to realize the bigger picture of how and why Jacob will take center stage in the genealogical line from Abraham so that we will eventually see how this will lead to Jesus.

  • What are you willing to trade for the thing or person you desire? Will it truly be worth the trade?
  • Do you ever find yourself willing to negotiate anything for immediate pleasure?
  • Does your spouse, children, integrity, body, or soul get included in these damning deals?
  • Do you sometimes feel that the important parts of life escaped while you were grabbing for your desire(s)?
  • Who or what is in your frame? Where is your focus?
  • How many important things or people might be in your blurred background that need to come into focus?
  • How many things or people are in focus that actually belong in your blurred background?

WELL, WELL, WELL…
(Genesis 26)

Genesis 26:1-2 says “Now there was a famine in the land, besides the previous famine that had occurred in the days of Abraham. So Isaac went to Gerar, to Abimelech king of the Philistines. The Lord appeared to him and said, ‘Do not go down to Egypt; stay in the land of which I shall tell you.’ ”

A famine in the land? What land? Well, 25:11 says “Isaac lived by Beer-lahai-roi.” So, this chapter begins by referring us back to the famine Abraham experienced in 12:10, which had forced him to go down to Egypt. Yet with the famine in this story, The Lord instructs Isaac not to go to Egypt but to stay in the land which He tells him (Gerar). That is the same command GOD gave Abraham in 12:1 when he was first called, except Abraham was told to “go” whereas Isaac was told to “stay”. And in 26:3-5, the Lord says that if Isaac stays in the land, He will bless him, repeating the blessings Abraham heard in 12:2-3. Since Isaac had been present when GOD had again declared that oath (22:15-18), he would easily recall that occasion. And after GOD emphasized faithful obedience (26:5), it is written in 26:6 that Isaac acted in faithful obedience and stayed in Gerar. So, yet again, GOD’s chosen vessel meets up with king Abimelech.

In 26:7-11, copying his father’s mistakes from 12:11-20 and 20:1-13, Isaac lies about Rebekah, telling the men of the land that she is his sister. Whereas Abimelech tried to take Sarah to be his wife, he does not try to take Rebekah to be his wife, indicating that he is most likely too old at this point in the story. Instead, it is written that “the men of the place” are the ones interested in Rebekah. Eventually, Abimelech confronts Isaac about his lie and he then confesses. Isaac explains how he was afraid for his own life whereas Abimelech explains his care and concern for all people not to fall into sin. Therefore, it is evident that Abimelech is still a man of GOD just as he proved to be while interacting with Abraham and Sarah (20:3-4,11,14-16). In fact, in 26:11, Abimelech issues a public proclamation that anyone who touches Isaac or his wife will be put to death.

Eventually, 26:12-14 informs us that the Lord, fulfilling His promise from 26:3, blesses Isaac so much that he became wealthy. However, because he became wealthy, the Philistines envied him and then filled up all of his wells with dirt (26:14-15). The same thing happened to Abraham until he made a covenant with Abimelech; and the place at which they made their covenant was called Beersheba (21:25-31). And so a picture is already being painted to show how the Philistines are becoming a wicked people. But all of this also showcases the reasons why GOD raised Abimelech up to be king – others, including Abraham and Isaac, were blessed by his leadership over the land at that time. If not for Abimelech having the fear of the Lord, it is likely the Philistines would have murdered both Isaac and Abraham. So, GOD strategically positioned Abimelech to shield Abraham and Isaac from death as if a chess player had strategically positioned any one of his/her pieces as a shield for the king. And if you think about it, because the King of kings (Jesus) comes from the line of Abraham and Isaac, the King had literally been strategically shielded from Satan and all demons.

However, because the Philistines were so envious and wicked, Abimelech said to Isaac in 26:16, “Go away from us, for you are too powerful for us.” And so in 26:17, “Isaac departed from there and camped in the valley of Gerar, and settled there.” In 26:18-22, Isaac reopened his father’s wells of water, which the Philistines filled in after Abraham’s death, and gave them the same names which his father had given them. However, when Isaac’s servants dug in the valley and found flowing water, nearby herdsmen argued over that location, and so he moved on from there. Then they dug another well, but herdsmen argued over that location as well, and so he moved on again. On his third attempt at digging a well, no one argued with him over that location; “so he named it Rehoboth, for he said, ‘At last the Lord has made room for us, and we will be fruitful in the land’ ” [for “Rehoboth” means “open space” or “room”].

Thus, the Lord told Isaac to stay in the land, knowing that Abimelech would issue a public proclamation for his protection, so that Isaac could become wealthy. However, when it was time for the Lord to guide Isaac away from there, the Lord used wicked people to steer Isaac in the direction He desired him to go. And so Isaac might have felt as if things weren’t going right for him due to his plight, but GOD permitted that persecution as part of His divine guidance. But if the Lord was guiding Isaac, where was He guiding him to go? Well 26:23 says Isaac then left there and went to Beersheba. But what is the significance of that place? Well, in 21:31-33, Abraham and Abimelech had made a covenant with each other and then that location was called Beersheba. And 22:19 informs us that Beersheba is where Abraham lived and returned to after passing his test of faith with Isaac. And now Isaac once again finds himself in Beersheba, almost to signify that he had passed yet another test and returned to that place. While there, 26:24-25 says, “24 The Lord appeared to him the same night and said, ‘I am the God of your father Abraham; Do not fear, for I am with you. I will bless you, and multiply your descendants, For the sake of My servant Abraham.’ 25 So he built an altar there and called upon the name of the Lord, and pitched his tent there; and there Isaac’s servants dug a well.”

This location is where it all began for Isaac, and now he is at this location once again, and with the same GOD as before. The fact that Isaac built an altar and called upon the name of the Lord is significant because that is what his father had done as well (12:7-8; 13:18; 21:33). Therefore, the Lord orchestrated everything so that Isaac would realize that the Lord is with him just as He was with his father, and that the promise regarding countless descendants would continue through Isaac and Rebekah.

In 26:26-27, after an unknown amount of time had passed, Abimelech came to Isaac from Gerar with his adviser and commander of his army, and “27 Isaac said to them, ‘Why have you come to me, since you hate me and have sent me away from you?’ ”

If you remember, Isaac’s father, Abraham, had also assumed the worst about Abimelech in 20:11 when he told him he thought they were all godless. Yet in 21:22-23, Abimelech said to Abraham, “God is with you in all that you do”, and then asked Abraham to make a covenant of peace with them. So, what is Abimelech’s response to Isaac? In 26:28, he says, “We see plainly that the Lord has been with you”, and then he asks Isaac to make a covenant of peace with them, concluding in 26:29 saying, “You are now the blessed of the Lord.” Therefore, the entirety of chapter 26 showcases Isaac not only following in his father’s footsteps, but also filling his shoes just as Rebekah filled the tent of Sarah (24:67).

Noteworthy is the fact that in 21:22, Abimelech stated that “God” was with Abraham, using the Hebrew אֱלֹהִים [H430] ‘ĕlōhîm (el-o-heem’); however, in 26:28-29, Abimelech now uses GOD’s name, יְהֹוָה [H3068] YHWH. Therefore, I believe it is reasonable to infer that between the timeframe of Abraham and Isaac, Abimelech came to know the one true GOD. Over time, Abimelech matured from believing in a god to believing in the one and only true GOD.

It is written in 26:32-33, “32 Now it came about on the same day, that Isaac’s servants came in and told him about the well which they had dug, and said to him, ‘We have found water.’ 33 So he called it Shibah; therefore the name of the city is Beersheba to this day.”

And as a cliffhanger, 26:34-35 ends with, “34 When Esau was forty years old he married Judith the daughter of Beeri the Hittite, and Basemath the daughter of Elon the Hittite; 35 and they brought grief to Isaac and Rebekah.”

Esau not only married Hittite women, but he took for himself two wives, falling into the same sin that the wicked Lamech had fallen into (4:19). If you remember, Abraham had instructed his trusted servant, Eliezer, that it was important that his son Isaac not marry a Canaanite woman (24:3). And if you remember, Hittites are descendants from Canaan (10:15) and so are technically Canaanites. Isaac himself knows that Esau’s marriages were not good (28:1), and yet Esau made two poor decisions in the form of Hittite women.

In conclusion, Esau, by his own free will, disqualified himself from being the rightful successor of Isaac’s blessing because he chose to not only despise his birthright (25:34), but he also chose to disregard GOD’s design for marriage and to disregard the specific lineage from which GOD promised the blessing would come. Therefore, the stage is now set for Jacob to grasp at Esau’s heel (25:26).

  • Apparently, neither Abraham nor Sarah taught Isaac the lesson about lying that they learned from their own experiences. And because they seemingly never talked about it, Isaac made the same mistake. Parents need to confess their mistakes to their children as they mature so that their children will not repeat their mistakes. If you have an opportunity to help your child(ren) learn from your mistakes, it would be loving of you to teach those lessons. What kind of example are you setting for your children? Children know that parents aren’t perfect. Therefore, you might as well swallow your pride, share your mistakes, tell them how to avoid your failures, and then set your children up for success. Or would you rather remain prideful simply because you don’t want them to view you as someone who makes mistakes even though they already know you do? So, are you willing to confess your mistakes to your children so that you can save them from making the same mistakes?
  • The Philistines filled up Isaac’s wells with dirt! In those ancient days, wells were sources of life! That was a declaration of war! The enemy essentially told Isaac, “I’m not interested in your life and I don’t care if you die!” But what about you? Are there people in your life who want to cover your life with the dirt of death? Figuratively, is anyone in your life throwing dirt in your well? This act of wicked warfare happened after Isaac received blessings from the Lord. Understand this: the blessings of GOD will attract the attention of the Adversary. If you find yourself under attack, it’s probably because the enemy sees GOD’s love for you and realizes your potential. So, in your plight, are you still grateful for GOD’s divine guidance? Do you remain faithfully obedient to the Lord even while the enemy comes against you? Do you remain thankful that the Savior is still steering you to safety in your salvation story? And knowing that the difficult times are for our sanctification, do you still trust in the Lord and praise Him for all the good He is doing behind the scenes that you don’t even know about?
  • Abimelech told Isaac to leave because the Philistines became too envious of Isaac and Abimelech didn’t want trouble because of him. He told Isaac that he was too big for their small-minded situation. When GOD works in your life and you become anointed for greater things, you will become too big to stay where you are currently at in your present scenario. You will no longer wear size ‘small.’ When you grow, you need something larger to fit in. In the 2003 movie, Big Fish, young Edward (Ewan McGregor) says, “Kept in a small bowl, the goldfish will remain small. With more space, the fish can grow double, triple, or quadruple its size.” Now, is it the size of the bowl that prevents the growth of the fish? Or does the size of the bowl dramatically affect the quality of water within the bowl thereby depleting the life of the fish within the bowl? There are many factors that need to be considered, not just one or two. Regardless, humans do need room to ‘swim’ and grow, but we also need fresh water and not stagnant water – we need the Living Water, Christ Jesus (Jeremiah 2:13; 17:13; Zechariah 14:8; John 4:7-14; 7:37-39; Revelation 7:17)! We are designed to grow (1Corinthians 13:11)! Just as a child outgrows his/her clothes and environment, we spiritually outgrow our childish ways of selfish living and immature thinking. And if we refuse to leave our comfort zones that are too small for our futures, GOD will sometimes allow things to happen to us that will force us to leave so that we may grow. So, what about you? Are you currently going through difficulties that are forcing you to grow? While you may not enjoy the process or the growing pains, it is imperative that we maintain proper perspective in that process. Do you realize that GOD loves you through the process? What recent events in your life forced you to grow in your spiritual maturity? Are you thankful for that growth?
  • When the Philistines ruined Isaac’s wells, he chose not to retaliate; instead, he chose to keep the peace by moving forward in faith. Isaac dug another well; however, he lost that well over arguments. So, he dug another well. But then he lost that well over hostility. So, he dug another well. And in his third endeavor, his efforts worked in his favor. It’s important to note that Isaac had to dig many wells before he was ever able to build the altar. Likewise, we will need to do a lot of work before our efforts are finally rewarded. But it’s also important to note that Isaac dug another well after building the altar. Isaac’s work in life wasn’t done when he decided to praise the Lord after one success. We can praise GOD even while we are still digging more wells. Understand this: creating wells required sufficient knowledge of hydrology to identify the location of aquifers and the ability to dig down to them, but also sufficient knowledge of the construction process of the lining to stabilize the shaft and prevent seepage from the sides or collapse altogether. The significant amount of labor necessary for such an undertaking makes it obvious why wells were worth fighting over, and yet Isaac did not choose the path of revenge and violence. But what about you? When people wrong you, do you set your focus on going in reverse to seek revenge or on moving forward in faith, trusting in the Lord? Creating a well required a lot of digging for a long period of time! So, what about you? Figuratively, how much digging are you willing to do in life to get to where GOD wants you to be? How long are you willing to dig? How deep are you willing to go to receive the Living Water? How many different wells are you willing to dig? In that ancient time, those people realized the hard truth that they would need to seek water along their journeys and so they dug as many wells as was necessary. It is the same for us in our journey of this chronological study of the Bible. As we continue throughout this journey, we will dig deep throughout every chapter so that the Living Water can sustain us and help us get to the next book. And so it is with life in general as well – we will not be done digging until the Lord calls us Home. So, are you willing to keep digging and moving forward in faith? And are you ensuring to build altars of praise and worship along the way?

THE BLESSING
(Genesis 27:1 – 28:9)

Genesis 27:1 begins by informing us that Isaac is now old and blind. Typically, whenever Scripture provides us with minor details that do not seem to matter, it’s because those details actually do matter. In this story, GOD’s Word is setting the stage with the intent of equating blindness with something specific. In 27:4, Isaac, nearing the time of his death, summons Esau – the firstborn – because he desires to impart ‘the blessing’ upon him. This link between the firstborn, the birthright, and the blessing is emphasized in a wordplay involving all three terms. In Hebrew, “birthright” is בְּכוֹרָה [H1062] beḵôrâh (bekh-o-raw’), whereas “firstborn” is בְּכוֹר [H1060] beḵôr (bekh-or’), and “blessing” is בְּרָכָה [H1293] berāḵâh (ber-aw-kaw’). Immediately, as the reader, we should remember that while Esau was technically born first, he had despised his birthright and traded it to Jacob for some red stew in 25:31-34 because he had Aperture Appetite. Therefore, Scripture sets the stage that blindness is somehow connected to the blessing. But because blindness is a defection from GOD’s design of vision, linking blindness with the blessing informs us that the blessing is going to be a defection from the design of how the blessing is typically imparted.

In 27:5-10, Rebekah heard Isaac’s plan to bless Esau and so she quickly devised a plan of deception so that Jacob would receive Isaac’s blessing rather than Esau. But why would Rebekah do such a thing, especially knowing that her plan went against her husband’s wishes? Well, if you remember, in 25:22-23, the Lord told Rebekah that “the older shall serve the younger.” Thus, it is evident that Rebekah believed what she was doing was the right thing to do even though it required deception to achieve the goal. But why did she feel that deception was necessary? Wasn’t Isaac also aware that the older shall serve the younger? Did she not share that message from the Lord with Isaac, her husband? Or did she share with Isaac and yet he rejected the message she told him? Was either Isaac or Rebekah aware of the fact that Esau traded his birthright to Jacob for some red stew? We don’t know. All we know is that Rebekah believed what she was doing was right even though it required deception to achieve the goal. Consequently, we now have the blessing connected with both blindness and deception. Rebekah used her knowledge of both Isaac’s weakness and his desire against him. Isaac’s weakness was his blindness and his desire was tasty food. If you remember, Esau was Isaac’s favorite son because Esau hunted and Isaac got to eat the game Esau brought home (25:28). In fact, Isaac’s weakness and desire may have been intertwined in that his love for food might have made him blind to Esau’s character flaws, which might have influenced his decision to impart the blessing on Esau. Again, this is all conjecture because we only know what Scripture tells us.

In 27:11-27, an examination of the events that unfold reveals that Jacob had 12 opportunities to abandon the mission of deception. First, Jacob tried to excuse himself with a logical truth that Esau was hairy, but he was not hairy, and Isaac was smart enough to know the difference even from his sense of touch (27:11-12). So, it is this moment that helps us understand that the minor details of Esau’s descriptions at birth of being “red, all over like a hairy garment” (25:25) were indeed important to notate even though those details seemed insignificant at the time. The description of being red led to the red stew and Esau despising his birthright due to lack of vision, and the description of being hairy led to this moment of deception regarding the blessing. Thus, the descriptions of “red” and “hairy” connects the blessing with blindness and deception.

In Jacob’s second and third opportunities to abandon the mission of deception, he had been instructed to go to the flock and get two young goats (27:13). Jacob “went and got them, and brought them to his mother; and his mother made savory food such as his father loved” (27:14). But how much time passed between those events in which Jacob could have chosen not to deceive his father? Jacob’s second opportunity was when he walked to the flock and his third was during the period of time it took for Rebekah to make the meal.

In his fourth opportunity, Rebekah convinced Jacob to put on Esau’s clothes (27:15). Unfortunately, by doing this, he assumed a false identity. In his fifth opportunity, Rebekah put the skins of the goats on his hands and neck (27:16). Yikes! Who was Jacob now? He was losing his identity! Jacob’s sixth opportunity was when he served the meal to his father (27:17-18). Jacob’s seventh opportunity came when Isaac asked Jacob to identify himself, and then Jacob lied and told his father that he was Esau (27:18-19). Noteworthy is the fact that Jacob’s deceptive lie regarding his identity was on the seventh opportunity because seven is often equated with completeness. Essentially, Jacob had been provided every moment possible to abandon the mission of deception, but then his decision to deceive was made complete in his lie. Who had Aperture Appetite now? Just as Esau had Aperture Appetite for the red stew, Jacob had become oblivious to the blurred background details of the devil at work because he narrowed his focus on the blessing he desired. Jacob’s weakness was his insecurity in his own identity as the one who grabs at the heel (25:26); his desire was to have the identity of the one with the birthright and the blessing. Consequently, Jacob was willing to lie, assume someone else’s identity, and even deceive his own father. However, within this lie lies a good desire because Jacob’s desire to receive his father’s blessing was good. Again, what Esau despised, Jacob desired; the birthright Esau had been blind to see as being valuable is the very thing Jacob saw clearly to be of great value. For this reason, in Jacob’s eighth opportunity to abandon the mission of deception, Isaac asked him how he was able to bring him the meal so quickly and Jacob responded by saying, “Because the Lord your God caused it to happen to me” (27:20). Now, in this response, Jacob told his father a half-lie and a half-truth. He lied because the Lord did not help him to successfully hunt and bring home any game, as Isaac had assumed to be the case; however, he told the truth because the Lord did in fact provide the two young goats for the meal. Further, his statement was true in that the Lord did cause this to happen for Jacob because Esau had despised his birthright. For that reason, Jacob receiving the blessing had been foretold by the Lord in 25:23.

Jacob’s ninth opportunity came when Isaac asked him to come close so he could feel him (27:21-23). The tenth opportunity was when Isaac asked him if he were truly Esau, but Jacob chose to lie again and claimed to be someone he was not (27:24). At this moment, Jacob could have confessed or even conjured up another lie to play his actions off as if it was all a joke, telling his father he just wanted to trick him for fun. But his Aperture Appetite caused him to focus on his desire for the blessing. Jacob’s eleventh opportunity came when Isaac told him that if he brought the meal to him, then he would bless him (27:25). And then Isaac ate the meal; however, in doing so, he also swallowed Jacob’s deception. And finally, after Isaac consumed a meal of deception, Jacob’s twelfth and final opportunity came when Isaac asked him to come closer and kiss him (27:26). Later on, we will see that Judas Iscariot, “one of the twelve”, will betray Jesus with a kiss (Luke 22:47-48). Interestingly, Jacob betrays his father with a kiss on his twelfth opportunity to confess the truth. And Isaac, now convinced after smelling Esau’s scent on the clothes, gives Jacob the blessing (Genesis 27:27-29), thus fulfilling the Word of the Lord that the older would serve the younger (25:23).

In 27:29, Isaac imparts his blessing, “May peoples serve you, And nations bow down to you; Be master of your brothers, And may your mother’s sons bow down to you. Cursed be those who curse you, And blessed be those who bless you.”

While it is true that this blessing is for Jacob, we will later see that this blessing seems to match more precisely with Jacob’s son, Joseph (37:5-8; 41:40-44; 42:6). In fact, it will become evident later on that this blessing clearly builds on the divine promise to Abraham that kings will be among his descendants (17:6). And not only does the promise that those who curse will be cursed and those who bless will be blessed echo the promise GOD had given to Abraham in 12:3, but it also sets the stage for a later scene between Balak and Balaam in Numbers 24 when the Israelites will be cursed and yet instead will receive a blessing.

In Genesis 27:30-33, Esau returns, provides a meal for his father, Isaac becomes confused and asks Esau to identify himself, Esau identifies himself as the “firstborn”, and then Isaac trembles violently and informs Esau that he already blessed someone else and that the blessing must stand. But why did Esau identify himself as the “firstborn” when he traded away his birthright to Jacob (25:31-34)? This seems to imply that Isaac had been unaware of the fact that Esau had despised his birthright. Even if that is true, nothing can be hidden from the Lord and the truth was known (Psalm 33:13-15; Ecclesiastes 12:14; Luke 8:17; 12:2-3; Hebrews 4:13). But why did Isaac tremble violently? Because that was a natural consequence of devouring deception. He got deceived and ended up giving the blessing to someone whom he never intended to bless.

In 27:34-38, Esau cried out bitterly and asked his father to also bless him. Isaac told Esau that Jacob deceitfully took his blessing. But how did he know it was Jacob? He simply returned to his initial instinct when he had heard Jacob’s voice (27:22). In response, Esau became exceedingly angry toward Jacob and blamed him for the loss of his blessing and then asked his father if he had reserved any blessing for him. Isaac said that he had already given the good blessings to Jacob and there was nothing he could do. And in a final anguished plea, Esau said to his father, “Do you have only one blessing, my father? Bless me, even me also, O my father.”

Was Esau justified in blaming Jacob that he lost out on Isaac’s blessing? Again, Esau willingly chose to despise his birthright and therefore forfeited his blessing as the firstborn. So, while Jacob’s actions were deceitful in acquiring the blessing from his father, his desire was good because he valued what Esau despised and took for granted. Some Jewish scholars even go so far as to say that GOD sovereignly placed this zeal for the birthright and blessing within Jacob, that the Bible does not criticize Jacob for desiring the birthright and blessing, and so neither should anyone else criticize Jacob. In fact, some think that Jacob might not have attempted to take the blessing had Esau never traded away his birthright to Jacob.

But why did Isaac say that the blessings he gave to Jacob must stand and could not be revoked? Because in those ancient days, men of GOD held to the belief that their word was binding, not only to the human with whom they made the oath or agreement, but also with GOD. For this reason, people said such statements as, “The Lord is witness between us; surely we will do as you have said” (Judges 11:10). But why couldn’t Esau also receive a blessing? Because the blessings connected with the birthright had already been given, and the blessing, much like an oath, could not be revoked because it was binding with GOD as the witness. By involving the Lord, the one who broke the promise/agreement would be held accountable by the Lord.

But, after an unspecified amount of time, Isaac then said in 27:39-40, “39 Behold, away from the fertility of the earth shall be your dwelling, And away from the dew of heaven from above. 40 By your sword you shall live, And your brother you shall serve; But it shall come about when you become restless, That you will break his yoke from your neck.”

As this story will unfold, we will see that Jacob works off debt to his uncle Laban for 20 years (31:38). So, how is it that Esau will serve Jacob if Jacob will be busy serving Laban? And how is it that he would break free? And from what would he break free? When? Well, 27:41 says, “So Esau bore a grudge against Jacob because of the blessing with which his father had blessed him; and Esau said to himself, ‘The days of mourning for my father are near; then I will kill my brother Jacob.’ ”

Esau’s sinful desire to murder his brother should remind us of Cain when he desired to murder his brother, Abel. If you remember, in 4:7, GOD said to Cain, “If you do well, will not your countenance be lifted up? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door; and its desire is for you, but you must master it.” Thus, I believe it is reasonable to infer that Scripture refers to the period of time it would take Esau to break free from the bondage of unforgiveness and hatred in his heart. So, whenever Esau will be able to roam about free from thoughts of vengeance and violence against his brother, then he would truly be set free. Later on, Jesus will say in Matthew 5:22-24, “22 But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother shall be guilty before the court; and whoever says to his brother, ‘You good-for-nothing,’ shall be guilty before the supreme court; and whoever says, ‘You fool,’ shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell. 23 Therefore if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, 24 leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering.” And again, in 6:14-15, Jesus will say, “14 For if you forgive others for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions.” Also, in 1John 3:15, the disciple whom the Lord loves will say, “Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer; and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him.”

However, it will become evident that Isaac’s words in Genesis 27:39-40 also refers to Esau as a nation, which will be referred to as “Edom”. At first, the nation of Edom will become hostile toward Israel, and then they will become subjugated to Israel, and then they will break free from Israel (25:30; 36:1-19; Numbers 20:18-21; 2Samuel 8:14; 2Kings 8:20-22). So, as we will see all throughout our chronological journey, GOD’s Word is often so powerful that it has more than one meaning and even becomes mirrored in the New Testament.

In Genesis 27:42, it is written that Esau’s murderous words were reported to Rebekah. But who would have reported those words to her? Most likely, it was a servant of their household. Ponder on that for a moment. That servant could have decided to remain silent or even help Esau to murder Jacob, but he/she chose instead to inform Rebekah about Esau’s wicked plan. So, I believe it is reasonable to infer that the unknown servant was not only righteous, but also loved the family enough to bring a warning of potential disaster and division. And yet the informant remains anonymous in Scripture. This reveals how someone who might be considered to be insignificant could actually be someone of great significance even if that person never receives any recognition for the significant acts he/she did.

In 27:42-43, Rebekah then informs Jacob of Esau’s plan and then tells him to flee to her brother in Haran, concluding in 27:44-45 by saying, “44 Stay with him a few days, until your brother’s fury subsides, 45 until your brother’s anger against you subsides and he forgets what you did to him. Then I will send and get you from there. Why should I be bereaved of you both in one day?”

Bereaved of both? Who was the second person referred to by Rebekah? And why would she bereave that person in addition to Jacob? One possible interpretation is that she was referring to Esau. In 9:6, the Lord commanded, “Whoever sheds man’s blood, By man his blood shall be shed, For in the image of God He made man.” Further to this command, later in our chronological journey, we will learn about the duty of an “avenger of blood”, which is someone who acts in revenge on behalf of a kinsmen who was unjustly murdered (Numbers 35:9-27; Deuteronomy 19:11-13; Joshua 20). And so an “avenger of blood” would hunt down the murderer and exact justice by killing the murderer. This will all be connected to the principle of “eye for an eye” (Exodus 21:24; Leviticus 24:20; Deuteronomy 19:21). However, because Isaac and Rebekah were too old to be avengers and they lacked the kinsmen necessary to have an avenger, it is unlikely this text is referring to Esau’s death due to an avenger of blood. Another possible interpretation is that if Esau murdered Jacob, Esau would essentially have been written off as a son and thus Rebekah could have referred to her bereavement as if mourning over two dead sons even though Esau would not have literally died. However, because Esau had plainly stated that his intention was to murder Jacob on the day Isaac died (Genesis 27:41), it is more likely that Rebekah was referring to that future day of when she would bereave both Isaac and Jacob. She has already accepted the fact that she is going to lose her husband, but she does not want to also bereave over a dead son on the same day.

Sadly for Rebekah, she thought the son she favored would only be gone for a few days until Esau’s anger subsided, but as we will later see, Jacob is going to be stuck in servitude to Laban for 20 years in order to work off debt to marry his daughter, Rachel (31:38). Rebekah’s last words to Jacob was that she would send for him to return once Esau’s anger subsided. But what did she know about the future? As we will later discover, it is likely that Rebekah dies while Jacob is gone and never gets to see Jacob again. For this reason, the brother of Jesus will later say in James 4:14-15, “14 Yet you do not know what your life will be like tomorrow. You are just a vapor that appears for a little while and then vanishes away. 15 Instead, you ought to say, ‘If the Lord wills, we will live and also do this or that.’ ”

In Genesis 27:46, after conjuring up another plan, Rebekah puts on a dramatic performance for Isaac, stating that Hittite women make her tired of living and it would be utterly devastating if Jacob ever took one of them to be his wife. Now, it’s not clearly stated in this chapter, but her words only add fuel to Esau’s fire. How do we know this? Well, not only does 28:8 inform us of this, but if you remember, 26:34 informed us that Esau had taken two Hittite women as his wives. And so adding fuel to the fire, in 28:1-5, Isaac comes into agreement with Rebekah, charges Jacob to go to Haran and find a wife from one of Laban’s daughters, and then he blesses him as he sends him on his way. Therefore, Esau lost his birthright, lost his blessing, heard his parents badmouth his wives, and then heard his father bless Jacob yet again before sending him away.

Now, it is at this point in the story that critics like to point out an apparent contradiction, claiming that 28:2 states that Jacob’s reason for going to Haran is to find a wife, whereas 27:42-45 states that Jacob’s reason for going to Haran is to flee from his brother. So, which is it? Both are true. The critic presents a fallacy of a false dilemma when claiming I have to choose one or the other. It’s not a genuine contradiction because it’s not an either-or scenario. At first, the most urgent reason for Jacob going to Haran is to flee from his brother. However, because Rebekah wants him to go there, she uses Jacob’s need for a wife as an excuse for him to go. And because Isaac agrees that the plan is good for Jacob to find a wife, that becomes the new plan; consequently, both reasons merge together into one plan.

Interestingly, in 24:3, Abraham charged his faithful servant Eliezer to ensure that Isaac did not acquire a Canaanite wife. And then in 28:1, Isaac charges Jacob with the same warning. Also, in 24:6-7, Abraham charged Eliezer to see to it that he never took Isaac back to his homeland because the Lord promised that his descendants would be given the land currently inhabited by the Canaanites. And then in 28:2-4, though Isaac sends Jacob back to the homeland, he blesses Jacob, saying, “may [you] possess the land of your sojournings, which God gave to Abraham.” Therefore, this sets the stage for Jacob to eventually return to the land promised to Abraham. But when will he return? Well, Rebekah believes his return will be sometime in the near future, but as we will soon see, his return will not be anytime soon.

After Jacob departs for his journey, it is written in 28:6-9 that Esau, knowing that the daughters of Canaan displease his father Isaac, he visits Ishmael and marries his daughter Mahalath in what seems to be a belated attempt to gain his parents’ approval. Ironically, Esau’s link with the family of Ishmael – Nebaioth (Esau’s brother-in-law) is Ishmael’s firstborn son (25:13) – further signals that GOD will not fulfill His promises through Esau because GOD passed over Ishmael in favor of Isaac (21:12). And with Esau now being passed over, Jacob will now receive favor and take center stage in the story.

  • Esau was blind and unable to see the value of his birthright. Isaac was blind and unable to see he was being deceived by Jacob. Jacob was blind and unable to see that his actions would lead to Esau desiring to murder him. Rebekah was blind and unable to see that her favoritism of Jacob would lead to her never seeing him again. And yet GOD’s blessing was given despite their blindness. But what about you? In what ways has GOD given you His blessing despite your blindness? And how many times has He blessed you despite your blindness?
  • Esau had been deceived because he believed food of the physical realm was more important than the blessing of the spiritual realm. Jacob had been deceived because he believed that he could deceive his father without any consequences. Isaac had been deceived because he believed he could rely upon his physical senses to discern spiritual matters. Rebekah had been deceived because she believed she could help Jacob deceive Isaac without any consequences. But what about you? What past experiences do you have of when you had been deceived? What were the consequences that came from those incidents of deception? What have you learned from them?
  • Did Rebekah ever tell Isaac that the Lord said the older would serve the younger or did she keep that a secret? Secrets only keep spouses separated. Two are designed to be one, remember (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5-6)? If you’re married, are you keeping any secrets from your spouse? If you are, I admonish you to prayerfully consider breaking down those walls of secrets that separate and choose instead to be bonded in transparent love. A secret can easily slide down the slippery slope into becoming sin. Sin is a parasite that takes over its host. So, are you willing to share your secrets with your spouse?
  • Both Isaac and Rebekah played favorites and the favoritism created a divided house. Do you have children? If you do, do you play favorites? Should you? If you do play favorites, are you blind to the consequences of such a divisive act? Are you deceived into believing there will be no consequences?
  • Jacob sought to be blessed while he was actively sinning. How could Jacob possibly ask to receive a blessing while sinning? But what about you? Have you ever desired to receive a blessing from the Lord while living in sin? What was your focus on at the time? How did the Lord respond to your desire?
  • Jacob got what he desired. He received the blessing. But at what cost? Although Jacob got the blessing he desired, assuming a false identity and deceiving his dad cost him greatly. Some of the consequences are as follows: (1) It is likely he never saw his mother again; (2) the relationship with his brother was damaged and Esau wanted to murder him; (3) he will soon be deceived by his uncle Laban and used for labor; (4) his own family will become torn by strife; (5) Esau will became the founder of the enemy nation “Edom”; and (6) he becomes exiled from his family for 20 years. Now, at a quick glance, it seems as if one wrong decision will lead to years of pain and suffering; however, upon closer examination, we can clearly see that Jacob had 12 opportunities to escape from one wrong decision. But what about you? Think back at all the times when you had made a wrong decision. How many opportunities did you have to escape prior to making that one wrong decision?
  • How many times has GOD blessed you despite the fact that you made a wrong decision?
  • Are you seeking to receive the blessing? Who has lost out on being blessed so that you can receive the blessing? What about the One who might be referred to as the “the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation” (Colossians 1:15)? The One crucified on the cross? Sure, Jacob received the blessing even while he was a sinner, but what is written in Romans 5:8? “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” Indeed, Jesus died so that we might receive the blessing.

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Picture Scripture: “Become Like Children” (Matthew 18:3)

(Matthew 18:3)
“Truly I say to you, unless you change and become like children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven.”

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As we learned in the previous Picture Scripture, true believers are children of GOD (Matthew 7:11; John 1:12; Romans 8:15; Ephesians 1:5; 1John 3:1-10). So, what does it mean that we must change and become like children?

In 1Corinthians 13:9-13, Paul said, “For we know in part and prophesy in part; but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away with. When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully, just as I also have been fully known. But now faith, hope, and love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”

So, did Paul contradict Jesus? Not at all. In context, Paul is saying that we are currently spiritual children and won’t reach our fullness until the resurrected life when we will become our perfect selves. However, while we grow to maturity, we need to rid ourselves of immature ways. In Ephesians 4:12-16, Paul also refers to the immaturity of children in the sense that they are gullible and can be easily deceived. But in 1Corinthians 14:20, Paul says “Brothers and sisters, do not be children in your thinking; yet in evil be infants, but in your thinking be mature.”

In fact, Paul wrote in Philippians 2:19-22, “But I hope, in the Lord Jesus, to send Timothy to you shortly, so that I also may be encouraged when I learn of your condition. For I have no one else of kindred spirit who will genuinely be concerned for your welfare. For they all seek after their own interests, not those of Christ Jesus. But you know of his proven character, that he served with me in the furtherance of the gospel like a child serving his father.”

Thus, Paul also refers to being a child as a good thing. So, using children as an example is only to point to character qualities. In fact, in Ephesians 5:1-2, Paul says “Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children; and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma.”

It is for this reason that Paul says in Philippians 2:15, “prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation.” And this goes full circle back to that second chapter of Philippians where the main point is to imitate Christ Jesus. In this way, we are children who imitate the Father just as the Son imitates the Father (Matthew 26:39; John 5:19,30; 6:38; 8:28,38; 12:49; 14:10; 15:10).

Psalm 131 is only three verses in length and it is a song about having childlike trust in the Lord. In verse one, David declares, “O Lord, my heart is not proud, nor my eyes haughty.” Thus, childlike trust in the Lord originates from humility. David essentially said, “Who am I? I am humbled before You Lord and my trust and hope is entirely in You.” Thus, this childlike trust in the Lord is what we see in Proverbs 3:5-7: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and turn away from evil.”

In Matthew 3:7-9, John the baptist “saw many of the Pharisees and Sadducees coming for baptism, he said to them, ‘You offspring of vipers, who warned you to flee from the wrath to come? Therefore produce fruit consistent with repentance; and do not assume that you can say to yourselves, “We have Abraham as our father”; for I tell you that God is able, from these stones, to raise up children for Abraham.’ ”

And later, Jesus tells the Pharisees that they are not children of GOD; rather, they are children of Satan (John 8:38-47) because they were prideful, hypocrites, and had hatred in their hearts, which made them murderers (Matthew 5:21-26; 1John 3:15), just like their father the devil.

Some critics say that in Isaiah 53:10, it is written that the Suffering Servant will “see His offspring.” But the word “offspring” is the English translation of the Hebrew word zera, which literally means “seed.” But if Jesus is the Suffering Servant and it is written that He will see His seed, that means Jesus had children. However, the early church and the Bible teach that Jesus never had children; therefore, this proves that this was a false prophecy about Jesus. But is that true? Are the critics correct?

It is true that the Hebrew word is zera (zeh’rah) is used in Isaiah 53:10. This word means “seed; sowing; seedtime; harvest; offspring; descendant(s); posterity.” In fact, zera comes from the word zara (zaw-rah’), which means to sow. In an agricultural society such as ancient Israel, zara would be most important and very commonly used, especially to describe the annual sowing of crops (Judges 6:3; Genesis 26:12). The universal law of the harvest, sowing and reaping, applies to all areas of life and experience. Essentially, zera means that which is sown; consequently, this Suffering Servant would see His harvest, which would be the children of GOD. Those who strayed like sheep (Isaiah 53:6) return as children. The Bible often has more than one meaning behind particular words or phrases and the depth beyond the surface is only revealed by allowing Scripture to interpret Scripture. In Isaiah 23:3, zera and the usual Hebrew word for “harvest” (qatsiyr) are in synonymous parallelism. But the seed as being the children of GOD originates back from the very beginning. It is written in Genesis 3:15: “And I will put enmity between you [the devil] and the woman [Eve], and between your seed and her seed.” And this is the same message Jesus referenced in John 8:41-47 when He made a distinction between the children of Satan and the children of GOD. John also echoed this truth in 1John 3:7-10Zera is used of groups and individuals marked by a common moral quality. This usage was already seen in Genesis 3:15. But Isaiah 65:23 mentions the “seed” of the blessed of GOD. The Messiah or Suffering Servant will see His “offspring,” or those who believed in and follow Him (Isaiah 53:10). We also read about the followers of the righteous (Proverbs 11:21), the faithful “seed” (Jeremiah 2:21), and godly “offspring.” In each case this word represents those who are united by being typified by the modifier of zera. Therefore, the great harvest to which Jesus refers is the harvest of souls who are the true children of GOD. Jesus spoke of a spiritual harvest waiting to be reaped. As Jesus traveled, “he saw the crowds, [and] he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then he said to his disciples, ‘The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few; therefore pray earnestly to the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest’” (Matthew 9:36–38). Here, Jesus referred to the many souls needing to be brought to repentance and faith as a harvest waiting to be realized. Jesus used the same metaphor of a spiritual harvest in Samaria. After talking to the woman at the well, Jesus told His disciples, “Don’t you have a saying, ‘It’s still four months until harvest’? I tell you, open your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvest” (John 4:35). In the days following this statement, many of the Samaritans became believers in Christ (John 4:41). Jesus saw the spiritual harvest of souls awaiting in that village. A spiritual harvest is the result of GOD’s work in the heart of man. It is clear from the parable of the seed and the sower that some people’s hearts are good soil; when the Word of GOD is sown there, the person accepts it and continues to mature. Jesus’s mission on earth was to make spiritual sons/daughters, not physical ones (Galatians 4:4–5; Ephesians 1:5; Hebrews 2:10). Ultimately, those who have the seed of GOD within them (Luke 8:11,15) will become true children of GOD. And the true children of GOD will enter into the Kingdom of GOD and the Lord most certainly will see His seed; the Lord will see His harvest.

Now, returning to the Scripture under examination (Matthew 18:3), Jesus tells His disciples (and us) that we must “change and become like children” in order to enter the Kingdom of GOD. So, what did Jesus mean by this? The word “change” is the English translation of the Greek word strepho (stref’-o), which means to turn around or to convert into. In this sense, this change refers to repentance of a previous way of living. This does not imply, however, that they weren’t true believers; rather, they were merely heading in the wrong direction, going their own way, and they needed to turn in order to continue following Christ. The disciples believed that Jesus would reign as other kings did. They supposed He would have His great officers of state, as other monarchs had, and they were ambitiously inquiring who should hold the highest offices. And this unrealistic expectation came from their wrong belief regarding the Messiah. Many at that time believed the Messiah would be coming as a conquering king and would overthrow the Roman empire. But Jesus had to inform them that their worldly views were wrong. No such things would take place in this first coming. From these notions they must be turned, changed or converted, or they could have no part in His Kingdom. This worldly idea of status did not fit at all the nature of His Kingdom. The disciples were simply unaware at the time that Jesus had come to be the suffering servant (Isaiah 53) and that He wouldn’t arrive as a conquering King until His second coming (Revelation 19:11-16).

The word “children” is the English translation of the Greek word paidion (pahee-dee’-on), which simply means little children. Certainly, the Lord was not commanding us to reverse our age or even to become gullible and easily deceived. So, which character qualities of children was Jesus highlighting? To discover the answer to this, we must examine the passage in context. In Matthew 18:1-5; Mark 9:33-37; Luke 9:46-48, the disciples argued amongst themselves about which of them was the greatest. In response to this, Jesus used a child as an example and said to them that they must be humble like a child. Jesus also told them that if anyone wants to be first, that person must be last of all and servant of all; the one who is least is the one who is great. The way up is down; the first will be last and the last will be first.

When Jesus told them that they must humble themselves, that word “humble” comes from the Greek word tapeinos (tap-i-nos’), which means to come down to the lowest degree, to bring low, to bring to the ground. In other words, it means to come back down to earth from having your head in the clouds; depart from fantasy and return to reality. Humility is a virtue and exists when a person through most genuine self-evaluation deems himself unworthy or worthless. It involves evaluating ourselves as small because we are so. The humble person is not stressing his sinfulness, but his creatureliness, of absolute dependence, of possessing nothing and of receiving all things from GOD. Humility involves submission to one in authority, especially to GOD (Exodus 10:3; Deuteronomy 8:2-3,16; Psalm 119:67,71,75). On some occasions, humility is related to the act of repentance before GOD (Zephaniah 2:1-3). When paired with the “fear of the Lord,” humility implies a person who lives in a posture of pious submission before GOD (Proverbs 15:31-33; 22:4). In the New Testament, Christ is the model for humility (Matthew 11:29; Philippians 2:6-11). And as children of GOD, we are called to humble ourselves before GOD because GOD gives grace to the humble but opposes the proud (Proverbs 3:34; James 4:6,10; 1Peter 3:8; 5:5-6). And it was for this reason Jesus had previously warned His disciples against the yeast of the Pharisees and Herod (Matthew 16:5-12; Mark 8:14-21) and even told them later on to observe what the Pharisees teach but not do as they do because the Pharisees do not practice what they preach (Matthew 23:3). In fact, Paul reiterated this truth of yeast in 1Corinthians 5:6-8; Galatians 5:9.

In Matthew 5:5, in the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus said, “Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.” This is also stated in Psalm 37:11 as “But the humble will inherit the land and will delight themselves in abundant prosperity.”

The word “meek” is the English translation of the Greek word praes (prah-ooce’), which essentially means to be humble. This meekness or humility is a mildness of disposition and gentleness of spirit. Meekness toward GOD is that disposition of spirit in which we accept His dealings with us as good, and therefore without disputing or resisting. Those who are meek truly acknowledge themselves as sinners; consequently, this acknowledgment of sin leads to humbly enduring the provocations of others and not to withdraw from the burdens their sins impose on them (Galatians 6:1-2; 2Timothy 2:25; Titus 3:2). The meek are those wholly relying on GOD rather than their own strength to defend themselves against injustice. It is for this reason that we proudly proclaim GOD as the Avenger (Deuteronomy32:35; Psalm 2:9; 94:1; Matthew 26:52; Romans 12:17-19; Hebrews 10:30; Revelation 19:11-16; 20:11-15). (Indeed, GOD as the Avenger is why the Lord is the Supreme Superhero!) Thus, meekness toward evil people means knowing GOD is permitting the injuries they inflict, that He is using them to purify His elect, and that He will deliver His elect in His time (Isaiah 41:17; Luke 18:1-8). Gentleness or meekness is the opposite of self-assertiveness and self-interest. It stems from trust in GOD’s goodness and control over the situation, knowing that GOD will work together all things for our good (Romans 8:28). The gentle person is not occupied with self at all. This is a work of the Holy Spirit, not of the human will (Galatians 5:23).

At a later time, in Matthew 19:13-15; Mark 10:13-16; Luke 18:15-17, Jesus again used children as examples of who will enter the Kingdom of GOD, saying that whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all. Jesus had to repeat this message because it had not yet completely taken root in His disciples’ hearts and minds.

Ironically, the disciples had behaved as children, arguing over who was the greatest. They were disputing about precedence in the Kingdom; instead of seeking a place of service, they sought positions of advantage. And by that very dispute they were showing that they were not truly in the Kingdom. Not yet. And so Jesus, recognizing the weed of Pharisaism sprouting up, decided to spray weed killer on the argument by using a child to explain the character qualities which are deserving of entering the Kingdom of GOD: humility,  teachability, obedience, servitude, and trust.

The main message of the example of becoming like children is to humble ourselves, live as doers of the Word while loving and serving others, and to place our complete trust in the Lord. Jesus said that people should trust in Him with a childlike faith just as a son would do with his father. Children humbly recognize that they are not supremely powerful, perfectly righteous, or totally autonomous. Children are the sheep in need of a shepherd and Jesus is that Shepherd (Psalm 23; 78:52,70-72; Isaiah 40:11; Jeremiah 23:2-3; 31:10; Ezekiel 34:11-16,22-24; 37:24; Micah 2:12; 5:4; Zechariah 9:16; Matthew 2:6; 9:36; 25:32; 26:31; Mark 6:34; 14:27; Luke 12:32; 15:4-7; John 10:7-18; Hebrews 13:20; 1Peter 2:25; Revelation 7:17). And so we look to the Lord with loyalty for guidance so that He may make our paths straight and we may find safe pasture (John 10:4,9,14-15).

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The Artist J:

God loves to use what seems foolish or backwards to confuse those who perceive themselves to be wise. It’s one of the ways He uses to help lower ourselves in humility. The most “MATURE” of Christians has the most “CHILDLIKE” of faith.

What is faith though, and what does faith look like in a child? When you put your faith in something, you’re putting your complete trust in the reliability of something or someone. People are required to trust and place their dependency and faith on others since birth. We are born into this world completely depending on the reliability of our parents or caretakers. As infants we depended on them to feed us, to take care of our needs, to keep us safe. We reached out to them with arms open toward them, hoping and trusting they would carry us. As we got a little older as young children and began to walk and move around, they started giving us commands to obey out of their love for us, like “Don’t walk out on the road” or “Don’t touch the stove or fire.” You had to trust that they knew better than you did, and if you didn’t, you probably soon realized if you burned yourself, that they did know better than you. You had to trust them to give you something you wanted, and even if they didn’t you still asked unashamedly because you trust them enough to ask. When you were frightened and scared by something you ran to them, because you trusted that they would protect and comfort you.

The point is that as a child you were dependent on your parents or whoever raised you in order to live. They supplied all your needs, the food and drink needed to help you grow, and the wisdom you needed to increase in knowledge so you wouldn’t hurt yourself. When you did make dumb choices you were disciplined. Not because they hated you but because they loved you and didn’t want you to make the same foolish choices. Your every need was casted upon them because you trusted it was their job to sustain you.

This is exactly what God wants from us. David says in Psalms 55:22 “Cast your burden on the Lord, and he will sustain you.” When we believe on Jesus Christ, God the Father adopts us as His children and wants us to trust in Him and Jesus Christ’s work on the cross to sustain and save us. God wants us to have faith like children again, except who solely trust on JESUS CHRIST to supply not only our physical needs but more importantly our spiritual need. The need of an atonement, an adequate appeasement for sin.

This reliance and faith on Christ to supply all our needs is not a burden to God, or taxing to Him, but is instead something that He takes glory in doing so for us. For God is the only one who is able and capable of keeping His children from stumbling and presenting them as blameless before Himself with joy, so He receives all the praise for it! What Father wouldn’t love having their children talking to others about how their dad is the best!

So faith is relying on God to meet our spiritual and physical needs. Which includes trusting him for Salvation, provision, teaching us, correction, comforting us, and casting our cares and even our desires on Him who is able to accomplish them all if He wills it so. Meanwhile, we should have a heart of gratitude and thankfulness towards God for these things.

David is a perfect example of what childlike faith looks like. In Psalm 55 David was scared and terrified and the first thing he did was run to his Heavenly Father who he knew and trusted with his every need. Listen to these verses 4-5, and 17-18:
“My heart is in anguish within me; the terrors of death have fallen upon me. Fear and trembling come upon me, and horror overwhelms me…. But I call to God, and the Lord will save me. Evening and morning and at noon I utter my complaint and moan, and he hears my voice. He redeems my soul in safety from the battle that I wage.”

Now that’s faith like a child! I may be scared and anxious right now, but I called my Father and I know He will save me. That is literally the Christian life. “I was a sinner but I called out to Jesus and I know He will save me.” It’s that simple, but it’s also that simplicity which makes it a struggle for us. Our flesh still has a sinful nature that has a “No, let me…” mindset that we have to battle with until Christ returns and we obtain our glorified bodies like His.

God says “I’ll provide your every need.” While sometimes we say “No, I’ll find a way to handle this.” God says “Salvation comes through Jesus Christ and is a gift.” While we can think “Nah, I’ll work for it, or I’ll meet you halfway and we’ll split it, or at the very least I’ll find a way to pay you back.” But what we are actually doing when we try to do for ourselves what only God can do, is rob Him of the Glory that He so greatly takes pleasure in, and try to place some of it on ourselves. But God is a jealous God who gives His glory to no other. We were created for His glory and to share with others the riches of His glory. Isaiah 42:8 says “I am the Lord; that is my name; my glory I give to no other, nor my praise to carved idols.”

So a childlike faith is humbling ourselves and realizing that God deserves all the credit. He supplied us with the faith. He gave the Holy Spirit to seal our inheritance in Him. He gives us the grace and power needed to walk in obedience to Him. He disciplines us when we don’t obey. He leaves the 99 sheep to go get the lost one to bring it back into the fold. He defends us from the enemy and keeps us until the end. God deserves the glory, not us. Does a child “DESERVE” praise when he obeys what he’s told to do? No, because a Father expects obedience from his children. A Father will reward a child for obedience though, not because the child deserves it, but out of the Father’s love and gratitude for the child’s obedience. So when Jesus says to become like children. We are to trust God to supply for us, abide in his love and do what He says.

Proverbs 3:5-6 says “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”

Now that we’ve established what becoming like a child looks like, why should we do it? Why shouldn’t I rely on my own understanding? Why place our complete trust on God, and acknowledge Him? I think the easiest way to answer that is understanding who God is. God is omniscient, meaning He knows all things. He has perfect knowledge. Since He has perfect knowledge He is able to accurately point us to the best path. God guides us the way we should go, and all we have to do is call on His name and trust Him. Sometimes things happen in our lives that hit us so hard that we have no idea where to go from there. We don’t know which path to take, or what to do. The fear of not knowing is what makes us scared or anxious. So wouldn’t having a father who has perfect knowledge take away that worry?

God is all knowing. He knows everything about you. He knew you before you were born. He knows everything that has happened to you, is happening, and will happen. He is also completely good. He’s the only one that truly is, because His very nature is goodness. Good is not just how God acts, it’s who He is. Everything that is good comes from God, because He is the originator of it. It’s impossible to have anything good without God. Everything that God does is good, and is working for the good of those that love Him, and for His glory. Even some of the things we perceive to be bad in our lives is really just our skewed perspective of what is actually God working for our good. An example of this would be Joseph in Genesis. He was sold by his brothers into slavery, then he was falsely accused by his master’s wife and thrown into prison for years, but from there he eventually became second in command of all of Egypt and kept everyone fed during a famine which lasted seven years, including his brothers who sold him. Then God reconciled him and his brothers. God allowed the things Joseph perceived as bad, and that his brothers meant for evil because all of it was really God’s plan for GOOD. Romans 8:28 says “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.”

So you can completely trust God with your life, and have faith like a child because God knows you and wants what is good for you. When you realize God is good and knows everything that is best for you, then even in the worst of circumstances you can still trust God, because you know Him. That whatever you’re going through is going to turn out for your good and God’s glory. So when we don’t know how to go forward, we don’t need to lean on our own understanding, but instead ask God and He will point you in the right direction. The only thing you have to do is move in faith toward the direction that your Father gives you. One step at a time in faith, and if you start to deviate from that path He will discipline or correct you to put you back on it where you need to be. God did that to Jonah, but it’s best just to stay on the path He puts you on, because it’s the best path and will save you a lot of extra hardships.

I’ll end by saying this: we can place our full dependance on Christ because He is the cornerstone. Jesus is the rock, a firm foundation for us to stand on. When everything around us in our lives that we have placed trust in is shaking and feels like it’s going to move out from under our feet, Jesus is still immutable. He’s never changing. We can confidently stand on the Gospel of Jesus Christ with childlike faith, just as confidently as the disciples did 2000 years ago. Jesus was as trustworthy a foundation to stand on then as He is now. So have faith and depend on the gospel of Jesus Christ as confidently as a child!

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Superhero: Ability & Availability


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This is Part 7 of my Superhero series. In the introduction of this series, I provided the argument that heroes are real and then I distinguished between heroes and superheroes. I also provided a list of what defines a superhero. In Part 1, we learned that superheroes recognize the absolute standard of Good and realize that evil is a mere privation of what is good. In Part 2, we learned that superheroes recognize the absolute moral standard and realize that what is wrong can only be known by the standard of what is right. In Part 3, I defined and expounded upon love because all superheroes are full of love and are compelled to act out from love. In Part 4, I explained that superheroes desire to save people from all forms of danger and/or death and this desire comes from love. In Part 5, we learned that superheroes are solution seekers. In Part 6, we saw that solution seekers are willing to sacrifice if necessary.


In this message (Part 7), we will see that sacrificial love steps forward and offers service. But in order to do that, we must be available. If we are able, we should also be willing. Superheroes need to be able and available.

With television shows such as American Idol, The X Factor, So You Think You Can Dance, America’s Got Talent, The Voice, etc., it’s obvious that our nation is infatuated with talent and entertainment. Even when our country went through a recession back in 2008-2009, box office sales for the movie theaters still boomed. With that said, I’m going to use the entertainment industry in order to help you better understand this message.

Actors Tom Cruise and Rob Lowe were both slated to play the lead role in the classic movie, “Footloose” (1984). The casting directors were impressed with Tom Cruise because of the famous underwear dance sequence he performed in “Risky Business” (1983); however, Tom Cruise was unavailable for the part because he was filming “All the Right Moves” (1983). Rob Lowe auditioned three times and had dancing ability and the ‘neutral teen’ look that the director wanted, but he pulled his knee; consequently, the injury rendered him unavailable and prevented him from getting the part. Kevin Bacon was offered the leading role for the Stephen King movie, “Christine” (1983) at the same time that he was asked to do a screen test for “Footloose.” The producers from “Footloose” convinced Kevin Bacon that turning down a sure role in “Christine” for a part he might not even get in “Footloose” was the wiser choice by telling him that if he did get the part for “Footloose,” the role would make him an instant star. And in just 30 seconds into the screen test reading, Kevin Bacon was offered the lead role in “Footloose.” However, it was the director of “Footloose,” who only after watching “Diner” (1982), convinced the producers to go with Kevin Bacon. And Kevin Bacon almost didn’t get the part in “Diner” because he was sick on the day of his screen test reading for the role of Fenwick. But Kevin Bacon had previously decided that his character (Fenwick) would probably be half-drunk during the entire movie anyway, so he forged ahead, auditioned, and then got the part. And because of all this, there is now what Hollywood refers to as the “six degrees of Kevin Bacon”:

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Here is the same information (as above), but put into a different perspective: Kevin Bacon only got the part in “Diner” because he made himself available for the audition even though he was sick. Because he made himself available and got the part in “Diner,” the director of “Footloose” saw him in “Diner” and then had reason to push Kevin Bacon to his producers; consequently, Kevin Bacon got the lead role in “Footloose.” However, the only reason Kevin Bacon got the lead role in “Footloose” was because he turned down “Christine” and made himself available for “Footloose.” However, Kevin Bacon was only chosen after Tom Cruise and Rob Lowe had both been unavailable.

Now, the only reason I chose to use this example was because Kevin Bacon played the evil villain, Sebastian Shaw, in the 2011 movie, X-Men: First Class. Kevin Bacon is now forever a part of superhero history and because of that, he is now in my book about superheroes. So, let’s use this message of ability and availability to see how it applies to our lives according to GOD’s Word:

One day as Jeroboam was leaving Jerusalem, the prophet Ahijah from Shiloh met him along the way. Ahijah was wearing a new cloak. The two of them were alone in a field, and Ahijah took hold of the new cloak he was wearing and tore it into twelve pieces. Then he said to Jeroboam, ‘Take ten of these pieces, for this is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: “I am about to tear the kingdom from the hand of Solomon, and I will give ten of the tribes to you! But I will leave him one tribe for the sake of my servant David and for the sake of Jerusalem, which I have chosen out of all the tribes of Israel. For Solomon has abandoned me and worshiped Ashtoreth, the goddess of the Sidonians; Chemosh, the god of Moab; and Molech, the god of the Ammonites. He has not followed my ways and done what is pleasing in my sight. He has not obeyed my decrees and regulations as David his father did.”‘
(1Kings 11:29-33) -NLT

Solomon was David’s son. Solomon started out as an average man, became the wisest man (1Kings 3:5-12), but then ended up crashing and burning due to his sins. The irony is that Solomon was wise enough to foresee his downfall, but he blinded himself to Truth because he chose to set his focus on personal pleasure. Solomon’s story saddens me and not just because he was David’s son or that he had once been so wise, but because his story is like many Christians of today’s culture. So many Christians today have taken their focus off GOD’s will and have become distracted by the pleasures that our sinful society offers. Let’s examine what tripped Solomon up and how it relates to us today: GOD’s Word tells us that Solomon abandoned GOD and worshiped Ashtoreth, Chemosh, and Molech.

Ashtoreth (Astarte, Ashtarte, Ashtaroth, Ishtar, Attar):

This deity was a mother goddess linked with fertility, love, and war. This deity was associated with carved trees or nature, as being the female deity of the moon, and also associated with sexual immorality. Sex and nature. Or as the hippies claimed, “it’s love and peace, man!” But as we learned in chapter 3, sex and love are not one and the same: sex needs love to be relevant and meaningful; love does not need sex to be relevant and meaningful. Love can survive and even thrive without sex, but sex without love is pleasure without purpose. Solomon ruined his life because he allowed sex to become his love. Ashtoreth was essentially the same ‘god’ that the hippies of the 1960’s worshiped. The goal was satisfaction for self. And so many of those misguided hippies of the 1960’s ended up being the people who influenced our politics and society; consequently, many of the dangerous indoctrinations and misguided beliefs have carried over into the present day in which we live. Nowadays, worship of Ashtoreth can be compared with the people who call themselves “ecosexuals” because they essentially worship ‘Mother Nature’ and center their lives on the pleasure of sex. The scattered remains of Ashtoreth are still evident in the entertainment and advertisement industries. If you haven’t noticed, sex sells. If you haven’t noticed, the lure of lust is the rust that causes a person’s stainless steel character to corrode and crumble.

Chemosh:

According to the Moabite Stone (the Mesha Stele), Chemosh was associated with the goddess Ashteroth. This deity was [in general] of the same nature as Baal (Baal-Hadid). The word baal means “lord.” Baal was most often associated with being the god of weather, war, or fertility. So, Baal was a god who was believed to enable the earth to produce crops and people to produce children. Nowadays, our secular society who supports scientism essentially worships themselves as the only beings capable of ensuring the growth of crops and allowing/denying human fertility. The modern version of Chemosh or Baal is most likely celebrities and scientists. Many people idolize celebrities, viewing them as superhuman; many people essentially worship scientists, viewing them as our saviors.

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Molech (Moloch, Molek, Melek, Malik):

Children were burned to death as a sacrifice while worshiping a false god. Nowadays, Molech can be compared to Planned Parenthood and the thousands of abortions (murders) that take place every day. As of 2018, it was estimated that Americans have aborted (murdered) about 60 million babies since our sinful society demanded the ‘right’ to do so in 1973. (Click here to read my logical argument against abortion.)

Ancient Sin Is Modern Sin:

There’s nothing new about sin; Satan is subtle, evil is deliberate, and the devil’s demons haven’t changed their tactics. Even today, people are still placing their focus on false gods and idols. And if a wise man such as Solomon was able to be beguiled by physical beauty and enticed and entranced by the temptations that surrounded him, you better believe that you are susceptible to falling as well. In fact, GOD’s Word tells us that we are not exempt from falling:

“These are all warning markers—danger!—in our history books, written down so that we don’t repeat their mistakes. Our positions in the story are parallel—they at the beginning, we at the end—and we are just as capable of messing it up as they were. Don’t be so naive and self-confident. You’re not exempt. You could fall flat on your face as easily as anyone else. Forget about self-confidence; it’s useless. Cultivate God-confidence. No test or temptation that comes your way is beyond the course of what others have had to face.”
(1Corinthians 10: 11-13) -MSG

“God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure.”
(1Corinthians 10:13) -NLT

“Stay alert, be in prayer, so you don’t enter the danger zone without even knowing it. Don’t be naive. Part of you is eager, ready for anything in God; but another part is as lazy as an old dog sleeping by the fire.”
(Mark 14:38) -MSG

“So be on your guard, not asleep like the others. Stay alert and be clearheaded.”
(1Thessalonians 5:6) -NLT

But referring back to 1Kings 11:29-33, Ahijah the prophet tore his cloak into 12 pieces and announced that Jeroboam was to replace Solomon as king. Even if Ahijah had not told Jeroboam what the tearing of the cloak meant, the same thing was about to happen to Solomon and to Jeroboam regardless. Most of the time, we experience only signs and symbolism in our lives without any explanations. GOD doesn’t always tell us the ‘why.’ Therefore, we need to constantly and consistently keep our focus on GOD and the ways of GOD so that we can have our eyes open, alert, and ready to see the signs that GOD gives us when they arrive in our lives. We need to pay attention, be aware of where we are and if we’re living right before GOD. We need to keep ourselves in check at all times. Indeed — check yourself before you wreck yourself! We need to constantly self-examine ourselves to ensure we’re living the right way.

“But I have taken you in hand. Rule to your heart’s content! You are to be the king of Israel. If you listen to what I tell you and live the way I show you and do what pleases me, following directions and obeying orders as my servant David did, I’ll stick with you no matter what. I’ll build you a kingdom as solid as the one I built for David. Israel will be yours!”
(1Kings 11: 37-39) -MSG

GOD declared a promise to Jeroboam while pouring out His heart and love. GOD chose Jeroboam. However, let’s be honest — GOD only chooses and works with whomever is available. Why? Because we have the great gift of free will. And if someone isn’t willing, that person would not be available. This is why GOD always promises things, but inserts special stipulations into the contract agreement. GOD can only follow through with the promise or the miracle if we do our part. This is the reason why so many people have come and gone as leaders. If there is only one choice to work with, GOD will use that person until someone better is available to use, and so on and so forth. If we are chosen as someone of great significance, as an anointed one, it’s important that we always do our best and try to continually improve. There will always be a chance that someone coming out of the shop will be better than you. A lot of people will make themselves available yet they lack ability. A lot of people have ability, but who will make themselves available? There will always be a chance that you will injure your knee at the ‘audition’ and render yourself unavailable to be chosen for the part. We don’t want to be replaced by someone because we didn’t try our best. It would be even worse if GOD replaced us with inanimate and inarticulate items such as a blue cord. We need to show up to the ‘audition’ even if we don’t feel 100%! However, if we do get replaced by someone when we do try our best, then it was simply for the best and we need to move on. But we must try our best. However, to do that we must first make ourselves available. Ability is useless without availability; if you have the ability to act yet are unavailable to act, you won’t act and thus your ability is useless.

Ponder on this: there are more chances for your replacement the higher you get up the ladder. Look at it this way: if your job is to crawl into pipes/tunnels and clean out the sewage and waste that clogged the pipes/tunnels, how many people do you think will be after your job? Not many. But if you are a celebrity with fame and fortune, how many people would want your job then? Almost everyone. The better the position you are placed in, the greater expectation of your work, and the greater the risk of being replaced if you do not meet the expectation.

“Much will be required of everyone who has been given much. And even more will be expected of the one who has been entrusted with more.”
(Luke 12:48) -HCSB

“But then Jeroboam thought, ‘It won’t be long before the kingdom is reunited under David. As soon as these people resume worship at The Temple of God in Jerusalem, they’ll start thinking of Rehoboam king of Judah as their ruler. They’ll then kill me and go back to King Rehoboam.’ So the king came up with a plan: He made two golden calves. Then he announced, ‘It’s too much trouble for you to go to Jerusalem to worship. Look at these—the gods who brought you out of Egypt!’ He put one calf in Bethel; the other he placed in Dan. This was blatant sin. Think of it—people traveling all the way to Dan to worship a calf!”
(1Kings 12:26-30) -MSG

Jeroboam replaced Solomon as king and then wrecked himself as soon as he started because he did not check himself. Jeroboam didn’t check his motives or align himself with GOD’s Word — his focus was on himself instead of doing GOD’s will. That’s why GOD needs to always be first. If we do GOD’s will, then we will be blessed in the process.

“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.”
(Matthew 6:33) -NLT

Unfortunately for GOD and everyone under Jeroboam’s rule, Jeroboam was the man that GOD had to work with for the time being. Can you believe that?! That guy was the best man for the job as king even though he was not suited for the position at all! (I can believe it. I can think of at least a couple presidents in our American history who weren’t suited to be president.) But out of all people who made themselves available, GOD selected Jeroboam because he was the closest thing to a leader who was available. That would be unbelievable if only it didn’t match so many other descriptions of world leaders throughout our history; Jeroboam’s story matches the accuracy of what we already know to be true throughout world history. That means that the entire lot of people GOD had to choose from were just a bunch of lukewarm, fence-sitting, selfish sinners or worse. They lost their edge. Their fire went out. 

“So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth.”
(Revelation 3:16) -ESV

In Revelation 3, the church of Laodicea receives no praise from the Lord. GOD states that because they are neither hot nor cold and merely lukewarm, GOD is going to spit them out of His mouth. The people claimed that they needed nothing because they were wealthy, but GOD called them wretched, pitiful, poor, blind, naked, and shameful (Revelation 3:17-18). GOD proclaims His love, advises they accept His discipline, and admonishes them to repent. The insipid are intolerable; their indecisiveness leads to indigestion. Indifference leads to idleness. Fence-sitting, couch-potato, comfort-Christianity receives no praise (Hebrews 10:38; 12:4-13; Proverbs 3:11-12)! In Revelation 3:20, Jesus tells us that He stands at the door and knocks, simply waiting for someone to respond and allow Him in. And when that person allows Jesus within, He will have dinner with that person. Why is this important? In Mark 2:15-17, we see that this is how Levi — a tax collector — became Matthew, the disciple. Once we allow Jesus within and we fellowship with Him, hearing His Word in itself would be the meal we would be eating; consequently, being filled with the Bread of Life, life would exude out of our very pores and we would be on fire for Christ, thus incapable of being lukewarm. This letter to the church of Laodicea concludes with a promise to the victor that he/she will have the right to sit with Him on His throne. This promise is to say that we will be part of the family and will share in His glory.

I don’t know about you, but both the stories of Jeroboam and the church of Laodicea motivates me to act righteously. If I’m not chosen as someone of great significance, that means that there must be someone out there who is a better person than I am and that he/she was chosen for the job. GOD seeks ability, but works with who is available; therefore, we need to make ourselves available!

Are you available? Have you allowed your heart to be available to GOD? Once you make yourself available, you then put yourself in the running. If you don’t get chosen for a specific job, don’t get discouraged — that just means there is someone better suited for that particular job. No big deal. That doesn’t mean that you should drop out of the running though! You are perfect for a particular job, it’s just a matter of patience to discover where GOD needs you to be. GOD knows what you are best at, what you’re good at, what you’re alright at, and even what you’re bad at. GOD wants to use the gifts, talents, and abilities that He gave to you for how they would be used in the best way. Therefore, make yourself available. You cannot go to auditions if you don’t make yourself available for the auditions. You cannot get the part if you don’t audition. And when you audition, you should not give a halfhearted audition — you should put forth 100% effort and do your best while auditioning even if you don’t feel 100%. Every single new ‘audition’ is a new opportunity for you to prove that you are the right one to be chosen.

There are many roles in acting just like there are many roles that we Christians play in the huge ‘movie’ called Life. GOD is the writer, producer, director, script supervisor, executive producer, camera operator, the sound guy, the editor, etc… GOD is also the casting director. GOD created this ‘movie’ called Life; in addition, He knows who is best suited for what role. We need to place our trust in GOD (Proverbs 3:5-6). GOD places His trust in us just as a director places his/her trust in an actor/actress. It’s a mutual trust. The movie can’t be great without the actors — and the Director knows that. GOD still needs ‘actors’ and ‘actresses’ to fill the roles in Life. Are you available? Don’t concern yourself about when you will get chosen — it will happen. Patience… GOD has a specific role that He wants you to play, but there is a specific time in which He needs you to fill that role. Practice your ability, but be available always. Always go to your ‘auditions.’ Always try your best. Never get discouraged. Understand that it’s just a matter of time. And in the meantime, constantly try to better yourself as a person. There’s always room for improvement.

Jeroboam got cast as the part of the king, but I guarantee you that the audience was unhappy with the selection and the movie bombed. But Jeroboam got the part because he was the best one for the role who was also available to be used as that role. There were better men than Jeroboam (no doubt), but perhaps they were too far away in the world to be cast as the king for that particular place. Or perhaps those better men were already playing a role in GOD’s movie somewhere else. GOD knew that the movie wasn’t great with Jeroboam as king, but GOD had someone else in mind for the role of King, and His name was Jesus. That’s part of the storyline in this movie we call Life – GOD allowed bad kings so that we would appreciate the Good King. But GOD’s planning and timing had to be precise. So, GOD worked with who was available for the time being. Are you available? Let’s learn a lesson from the prophet Isaiah on how we should respond in life:

Then I said, ‘It’s all over! I am doomed, for I am a sinful man. I have filthy lips, and I live among a people with filthy lips. Yet I have seen the King, the Lord of Heaven’s Armies.’ Then one of the seraphim flew to me with a burning coal he had taken from the altar with a pair of tongs. He touched my lips with it and said, ‘See, this coal has touched your lips. Now your guilt is removed, and your sins are forgiven.’ Then I heard the Lord asking, ‘Whom should I send as a messenger to this people? Who will go for us?’ I said, ‘Here I am. Send me.’ ”
(Isaiah 6:5-8) -NLT

Isaiah’s humility helped him realize he was a sinful man. Isaiah’s recognition of his sinful nature enabled him to repent of his sins and receive forgiveness. Isaiah’s willingness to do GOD’s will made him available to be chosen for anointed and appointed ability.

I challenge you to make yourself available! Be the most righteous person you can possibly be, be patient, and be persistent. GOD has a plan for you. To insure your availability, ensure that you are living in alignment with GOD’s Word. Live as righteous as possible. What happens when the right people aren’t available? GOD has to choose a Jeroboam or a blue cord. Be available. Don’t make GOD choose a Jeroboam because you weren’t available. Are you available? Can GOD depend on you to be chosen as the superhero who feeds that homeless person on the street? Or are you going to be in the strip club thereby rendering yourself unavailable? Can GOD depend on you to be chosen as the superhero who tells the truth when everyone else is too afraid to speak up? Or are you going to be hiding your head in the sand thereby rendering yourself unavailable? Can GOD depend on you to be chosen as the superhero to speak a miracle over someone’s life and help heal someone? Or are you going to be intoxicated at a party thereby rendering yourself unavailable? If you choose to love, desire to do GOD’s will, seek solutions, and are willing to sacrifice, you have the ability. But are you available? And will you help others be ready and available for when Christ returns?

“Always be ready! You don’t know when the Son of Man will come.”
(Matthew 24:44) -CEV

If you’re not ready and available when GOD calls you, how are you going to help others be ready and available when Christ comes? If you are able, you should also be willing. Be able. Be available.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Superhero (series) – Introduction

Why am I writing a book about superheroes? After all, I’m a Christian pastor. Can I justify writing a book on such an unbiblical concept such as superhumans with superpowers? I admit that at first glance, this book appears to be unbiblical, but that’s merely the surface. Remember: don’t judge a book by its cover. To discover Truth, we must dig into the depths beyond the surface. The real question we need to ask ourselves is, “What biblical truths can we learn by studying superheroes?” For all superheroes only exist because of the One true Superhero: Jesus. The purpose of this book is to define the qualities of a superhero and reveal how all of those qualities come from GOD. 

Ever since I was a little boy, I had been fascinated by superheroes. And like many others kids, I wore Superman and/or Batman pajamas with an attached cape. I played with my action figures and used my imagination to create different scenarios for which the superheroes would be needed in order to save the day. I had even created my own mask out of a paper plate and made up my own superhero name. Eventually, however, life redirected my attention to other matters such as sports, girls, jobs, bills, etc. But in recent years, Marvel has released many superhero movies. And as an adult, those movies spoke to my inner child and inspired me to once again think about superheroes. While watching the 2012 movie, The Avengers, I thought, “It would be so awesome to be a real superhero!”

Almost as soon as I finished that thought, I had another: “Because it would be awesome to be a real superhero, I bet there are people who have attempted to fight crime while wearing ridiculous outfits.”

I then went home and researched news articles that might have mentioned such people and sure enough, there have been grown adults who attempted to fight crime in ridiculous costumes! One such example was in Seattle, Washington – a man by the name of Phoenix Jones. In fact, he was the leader of the “Rain City Superheroes” – a group of 10 crime-fighters at that time. While I admired Jones’ passion to patrol the city and keep it safe, I also recognized that real superheroes possess more than enthusiasm. But it made me think: “What if superheroes were real? What would they actually look like? Would they even bother wearing a costume? Are superheroes actually possible? Do superheroes exist?”

And – yes! They are not only possible, but they are real! Their appearance doesn’t usually match our expectations, but superheroes do exist. 

GOD uses ordinary people to achieve extraordinary accomplishments. Heroes are not specific species born into existence, nor are they genetically modified or engineered beings; rather, they are average humans who become above-average people due to the decisions they make out from their free willHow a person freely responds to the challenges and difficulties of life will determine if he/she is a hero. An example of a hero would be a man who risks getting injured by pulling a woman out of a burning vehicle in order to save her life. That would be a heroic act; therefore, we can recognize that man as a hero. But how will that man choose to live the remaining time of his life after the initial heroic moment? Will that incident puff up his pride and cause him to glorify himself? Will he continue to respond in a consistent heroic manner in the future? Will he be a one-hit-wonder? Will he later decide that taking risks for other people is too dangerous and that he’s not willing to sacrifice anymore? It’s worth thinking about it. Anyone can become a hero by simply doing one noteworthy act. Just one noteworthy act can bump someone up from average status to above-average status. But should we set our standards so low? 

A superhero is not a Superman who comes to Earth from outer space wielding supernatural powers; rather, a superhero is merely a hero with supreme status due to his/her decision to go above and beyond the call of duty through sacrificial love on a consistent basis. An example of a superhero would be Mother Teresa — she went above and beyond by sacrificing nearly everything in order to dedicate her life to loving the unloved. She proved that a woman can be a superHERo.

Sadly, superheroes should be common, but they are not. In this sinful and fallen world, people are often selfish. And because of this sad truth, you would think that superheroes shine and stand out against the backdrop of the darkness in this world. Unfortunately, superheroes often go unnoticed unless the spotlight of fame happens to highlight them. Mother Teresa was one of the superheroes who ended up in the spotlight. But there are many superheroes who work in the background, blend in, and go unnoticed. People are usually distracted with entertainment, celebrities, and their own problems, and so the background superheroes go unrecognized. But there’s another reason why superheroes often go unnoticed: they don’t need the recognition. Superheroes are not superheroes because they get recognized as such; rather, they are superheroes whether anyone recognizes them or not simply because of what they do and who they are. Superheroes do not live for the praise of humanity; they’re not in it for the audience applause, they’re merely doing it for the cause. They don’t seek to please people; rather, they desire to pursue people with a loving purpose. 

In reality, superheroes don’t typically wear ridiculous costumes. So, how can we recognize these superheroes working in the background who go unnoticed? In order to find these superheroes, you need only to seek to find the character qualities of these superheroes. So, what are these qualities? I have dedicated one chapter per character quality so that we can expound upon each quality and discover the depth beyond the surface of superheroes. Superheroes:

  1. recognize evil because they realize there is an absolute standard of goodness by which all evil can be known (GOD is the standard for all that is good)
  2. recognize what is right and wrong because they realize there is an absolute moral standard by which all wrong can be known (GOD is the standard of all that is right)
  3. are full of love and are compelled to act out from love (GOD is love and love comes from GOD)
  4. desire to save people from danger and/or death (this desire comes from love)
  5. see beyond problems, through the potential and to the possibilities (if they are to save people, they need to be solution seekers)
  6. do not “what if” themselves into failure (because they are solution seekers)
  7. are willing to sacrifice for the betterment of others (if the solution means sacrifice, then so be it)
  8. make themselves available to be used (sacrificial love steps forward and offers service)
  9. are not blue cord bums (they walk the walk and don’t just talk the talk)
  10. go above and beyond the call of duty (if you’re going to make yourself available, don’t just put your foot in the water — dive in)
  11. are courageous, committed, consistent, and unwilling to quit (going all in is to never back out; because they are willing to do what is necessary, they will not back down, give in, or give up)
  12. know why they do what they do
  13. do it for the cause, not for an audience applause — they don’t need recognition (they are only motivated by love)
  14. understand that meaningful REALationships require love; they desire to be loved
  15. understand that teamwork works — Batman linked with Robin; Ironman was smart, but still linked with Avengers; even Superman linked with Justice League)
  16. understand pain and suffering
  17. have real problems because they’re real people (in an intimate connection with close personal relationships, they can receive as much as they give by simply admitting they don’t want to deal with their problems alone)
  18. make conscious decisions to overcome darkness with Light
  19. are more than conquerors (our problems don’t define us; exterior circumstances should never alter our inner dispositions)
  20. are woven together by faith (we are defined by our identity and our identity is found in origin)
  21. understand their calling
  22. are always ready for battle because they wear the Belt of Truth
  23. understand Truth
  24. are always ready for battle because they wear the Breastplate of Righteousness
  25. are always ready for battle because they wear the Shoes of Readiness
  26. are always ready for battle because they hold the Shield of Faith
  27. are always ready for battle because they wear the Helmet of Salvation
  28. are always ready for battle because they carry the Sword of the Spirit
  29. live, eat, and breathe Truth
  30. are always ready for battle because they pray at all times and on every occasion (Powerful Prayer – Part 1)
  31. understand who they are praying to (nature of GOD)
  32. understand who they are praying to (Jesus)
  33. understand who they are praying to (Trinity)
  34. know how and when to pray (Powerful Prayer – Part 2)
  35. Superheroes have superpowers!
  36. are focused and completely committed
  37. understand what it means to be a Superhero
  38. choose to be superheroes rather than evil villains

Pornography: The Pervasive Plague

Who here knows the definition of honesty? Today, I need you to be honest with me, but more importantly, I need you to be honest with yourself. To all the men reading this: how many of you would get upset if your girlfriend/wife intentionally looked at another naked man? To all the women reading this: how many of you would get upset if your boyfriend/husband intentionally looked at another naked woman? Now I pose this question to all of you: how many of you would get upset if your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife got pleasure from what he/she saw? How many of you would get upset if your boyfriend/girlfriend/ husband/wife masturbated to the image that he/she saw? An image of a person who is not you?

The emotion that would arouse anger and cause you to feel upset is called jealousy, and jealousy often stems from insecurity. But insecurity within a romantic relationship often arises due to mistrust and misconduct.

I just posed some questions to you, questions which invoked responses in many of you to ultimately feel upset. It is quite easy to dislike something or get upset over it when it affects you personally, but are you able to examine yourself in equivalent scenarios to realize what consequences your choices/decisions truly have on yourself as well as others? The questions I asked you to answer specifically described a pervasive plague known as pornography — it is a plague that we should exclude from our lives at all times and in all places. 

The Greek word poneros is translated as “degenerate” or “diseased.” It carries the meaning of being a deep-rooted virus that spreads its poison with malice, and is the root form of the English word pornography.

At the age of 16, I fell into the addicting and loveless trap of pornography. I am not proud of it; in fact, I regret having ever partaken in the lustful acts. Unfortunately, my horrible mistakes led to feeling empty inside. Fortunately, that emptiness within me eventually brought me to discover the shocking truth about pornography’s damaging and lasting effects it has on millions of people worldwide.

Pornography changes what men and women expect from each other, creates dissociation from reality, destroys relationships, and distorts children’s ideas of sex and sexuality.

Pornography Changes Expectations

1. A University of Alabama researcher and professor of psychology, Dolf Zillmann asserts, “What has been labeled “pornotopia” tells [men] what joys they might, could and should experience…. [men] are readily left with the impression that “others get more” and that whatever they themselves have in the intimate relationship is less than what it should be. This comparison, of which pornography consumers may or may not be fully aware, is bound to foster sexual dissatisfaction or greatly enhance already existing dissatisfaction.” [Zillmann, p. 565-85]

2. In Glamour magazine, an article on body image included “the explosion of porn” on a list of reasons why women struggle with their appearance. The article goes on to say it’s hard for women to find a guy whose standards haven’t been distorted by porn or the media.” [Dominus, p. 219]

3. The images on porn sites/movies do not depict an accurate reflection of real life. Males and females are not going to be airbrushed and flawless when nude. Not all males are going to possess a massive man-stick, six-pack abs, impeccable pectorals, bulging biceps, and to-die-for triceps. In the same sense, a man can’t persistently click on different options to order up the perfect female. Porn sites create unrealistic expectations that will most likely never be matched in real life, which creates disappointments and dissatisfactions in romantic relationships.

Pornography Creates Dissociation From Reality

1. Mark Schwartz, clinical director of the Masters and Johnson Clinic in St. Louis, asserts, “No matter how you look at it, pornography is always a sign of disconnection; those who seek it out often do so because of boredom or dissatisfaction elsewhere in their lives, particularly in their relationships.” [Time.com]

2. Pamela Paul, who has contributed to publications in Psychology Today, states in her book, Pornified, “One of the major attractions of pornography is that it is dissociated from real-life pressures, emotional entanglements, and commitment…. Habitual male consumers of mainstream pornography… appear to be at a greater risk of becoming sexually callous toward female sexuality and concerns.” [Paul, Pamela]

3. Because nudity is so easily accessible online, and sexual desires can be fulfilled by a click of a button, real females become burdens to males who expect women to exist without their own personal agendas. Porn sites/movies create a selfish mindset which delegates a need to please only one. Although it may be easier to dissociate from real life and avoid commitment, it is unhealthy to do so. A healthy romantic relationship is an emotional connection between two people in which they make a dedicated decision to be faithful to one another.

Pornography Destroys Relationships

1. A nationally representative poll found that overall, 34% of women see men using pornography as cheating in absolutely all cases; only 17% of men equated pornography with cheating; and 41% of men say pornography should never be considered cheating when only 18% of women felt the same way. [Pornified/Harris poll]

2. Marlene Spielman, a New York psychotherapist, states, “Men I counsel generally keep pornography a secret from their partners. They know they shouldn’t be doing it because they’re in a relationship because – let’s face it – when you masturbate with pornography, you really are with someone else, one way or another.” [Paul, Pamela]

3. A desire to watch or look at pornography while in a romantic relationship is a sign that there is a flaw within the relationship and is therefore not a healthy desire. A person in a healthy romantic relationship should not only desire to be faithful to his/her partner, but he/she should also desire to refrain from harming said companion. And returning to the nationally representative poll mentioned earlier, men may believe that they are not hurting their partners, when in fact, they are.

4. At an annual meeting of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (a gathering of the nation’s divorce lawyers), nearly two-thirds of the attorneys present accredited the Internet for a rise in divorces; 58% of the rise was the result of a spouse looking at excessive amounts of pornography online. [A.A.M.L.]

5. Time is the only currency humans spend that can never be replenished. Porn sites/movies take away time and energy that could otherwise be spent on growing and nurturing relationships, family, or personal goals. Time spent on porn sites/movies is time wasted.

6. Relationships that need pornography do not coincide with reality. If the love within the romantic relationship cannot ignite a passion that burns outside influence into ash of nonexistence, it is weak and needs to be examined closer. Why would pornography be necessary if your partner was enough? Is the nude body of your partner not enough to cause arousal? If the nude body of your partner was indeed enough to cause arousal, why would pornography be necessary? The passion of a healthy romantic relationship is love. Love exists within a healthy romantic relationship 100% of the time, and a healthy romantic relationship can exist without pornography 100% of the time; therefore, healthy romantic relationships do not need pornography to exist because love exists even if pornography does not exist. Pornography does not originate from love. Everything that is of love belongs in a healthy romantic relationship. Because pornography is not of love, it does not belong in a healthy romantic relationship and is therefore not good and should be excluded.

Pornography Distorts Children’s Ideas Of Sex And Sexuality

1. A 2004 study by Columbia University found that 11.5 million teenagers have friends who regularly view Internet pornography and download it. [Radsch, Courtney]

2. According to a 2001 study by the Kaiser Family Foundation, 70% of 15-17 year-olds admitted to “accidentally” stumbling across pornography online. [www.kff.org]

3. A 2004 study by the London School of Economics found that 60% of kids who use the Internet regularly come into contact with pornography. [Mark Prigg and Paul Simms]

4. A study by Congress found that of the nation’s 70 million Internet pornography users, 16% — or 11 million — were under the age of 18. [Washington Post]

5. To know how pornography affects adults is sad, but to know that it affects children is absolutely devastating. Children have a natural inclination to learn and so they absorb information. But the information learned from pornography does not coincide with reality. Furthermore, if children put into practice what they learn from pornography, they will grow to form horrible habits and beliefs that surround the information learned which will make it extremely difficult to correct as time goes on.

So obviously, pornography creates many problems, but the main problem that arises from this contemptible copulation is the deterioration of the meaning of love. Fortunately, there is a solution that will restore the true meaning of love and the answer could be called altruism. For those of you who don’t know what altruism means, it means “the principle or practice of unselfish concern for or devotion to the welfare of others.” [www.dictionary.com] I.e., the answer is to live out the true definition of love — to understand the ramifications of our actions and make choices that are aligned with love. So, how can we live out the true definition of love?)

Be Informed

First and foremost, one must be educated if he/she does not wish to remain trapped within a prison of ignorance. One should possess a desire to know Truth and the perseverance of pursuing it until Truth is obtained. It is quite difficult to live a life of love if one lives a life of complacency. Complacency is “a feeling of quiet pleasure or security, often while unaware of some potential danger.” [www.dictionary.com] Many people don’t examine the motives of their actions and/or don’t consider the consequences their actions will have on others. Seemingly harmless decisions can produce deadly results.

Think Of Others

You may have free will, but this planet or country was not created for you alone. Everything you do or do not do will produce a consequence whether good or bad. Think before you speak; think before you act. Consider the implications: how far will the reach of your decision extend and whom will be affected?

Practice

In order to formulate a habit or become good at something, one must practice. Michael Jordan became great at basketball because he practiced playing basketball. Tiger Woods became great at golf because he practiced playing golf. Payton Manning became great at football because he practiced playing football. Just as those men practiced to become great in the area of sports, we should practice loving others on a daily basis. Practice thinking of others. Practice considering the consequences before taking action. Practice, practice, practice.

Visualize

1. A transformation has occurred on Earth, in the form of technological advancements, that have developed the world over the past 20 years insomuch that the species who produced the new technologies are the same class of individuals who are now struggling to remain in control over the alteration they have created. There are numerous advancements in the realm of technology that have affected many of people whom are associated by particular categories. One category in particular that technology has affected is the category of romantic relationships; recent technology has enabled pornography to grow; pornography affects romantic relationships. The influence of pornography has completely changed the mindset of romantic relationships and is now dictating how people interact with each other.

2. If the solutions of being informed, thinking of others, and practicing a life of love are not put into practice, bad consequences will ensue [just as they have for quite some time]. Electronic engineering has generated more than mere profit for adult-only stores, it has also produced jealousy amongst males who find it somewhat impossible to compete with what has been created through the means of technology. In the article, “Boys, Don’t Be Jealous of Her Toys – Play Along!,” the author describes his visit to a sex toy exposition:

“Walking around the display halls, I realized that it is impossible for a man to feel good about himself when confronted with a few thousand wall-mounted penis replicas that look as if they had been exposed to radiation at a Nevada test site. A zucchini of such dimensions would win blue ribbons at every county fair…. Can you blame us [for our jealousy]? In case you have been living in some undisclosed location, men now have a set of body insecurities — abs, hair, biceps, rear, teeth — that parallel the ones with which women have long been blessed. And now we have to compete with battery-operated boyfriends. Is it too skinny, too curved, too short? Does it look like Curly from the Three Stooges? Does the helmet remind you of Darth Vader?” (Alexander, Brian)

3. As humorous as the passage in that article is, the feeling of inadequacy is anything but funny for males who are forced to compete with unnatural concoctions (yes, that was an intentional play on words). Most of these machines are bigger than we could ever dream to be, even with the help of another recent invention — Viagra. If women use these monsters to please themselves, is it any wonder that many guys have trouble getting their women to orgasm? At adameve.com, they have a sex toy called the “All American Whopper.” [www.adameve.com] I won’t speak for other males, but the last thing I want to think about when I enter Burger King is how the size of my meat, and the meat I’m about to purchase, doesn’t compare to a different kind of Whopper. From a male’s perspective, sex toys negatively affect romantic relationships; therefore, sex toys also negatively affect romantic relationships for females. If confidence is stripped away from us males, the females will have to rely on themselves for pleasure, which will destroy the romantic relationships between people and would be dysfunctional. A lack of love is not good. Pornography and the branches that stem from it were created out of selfishness and greed, not love.

4. The Bible states, “Be careful that your freedom does not cause those who are weak in faith to fall into sin.” [The Bible, New Century Version. Thomas Nelson, Inc. 2005] Now, even if you don’t believe in GOD or the Bible, I’m sure we can still agree that the message makes sense logically — our actions produce results — results that will either help or harm others. Pornography is a monopoly that exists at the expense of others’ well being. Pornography causes millions of people to fall into what the Bible refers to as “sin,” and experts already agree that it changes what men and women expect from each other, creates dissociation from reality, destroys relationships, and distorts children’s ideas of sex and sexuality.

Positive Reinforcement

Although being informed and being aware of negative consequences benefit us, let us focus on positive reinforcement. Each person is blessed with specific gifts or talents. We are capable of inventing things that can either help or harm (see my argument, “What Are You Creating?). So, why invent things that can harm others? Why create things that are destructive? The effects that technologies have on us are limited by our choices. If we choose to build, construct, or invent on a foundation on love, then the effects of future technologies will lead to many people being helped rather than harmed. Why make choices that will harm others when loving others brings so much joy and fulfillment to the world?

Summary

People all over the world are getting hurt and/or directly/indirectly hurting others because of pornography and its branches of sin. Once again, pornography changes what men and women expect from each other, creates dissociation from reality, destroys relationships, and distorts children’s ideas of sex and sexuality.

Call To Action

I challenge all of you today: if you have any pornography at home, out of love and respect for yourself and/or your significant other, get rid of it! Throw it away! Burn it!  Destroy it! Furthermore, I challenge you to exclude it from your lives in all places and at all times.

Conclusion:

1. The Bible, in James 4:17, it is written: “Anyone who knows the right thing to do, but does not do it, is sinning.” [The Bible, New Century Version. Thomas Nelson, Inc. 2005] Once again, even if you don’t believe in GOD or The Bible, I’m sure we can still agree that the message makes sense logically. And now that you know that Truth about pornography, you no longer have an excuse of ignorance — you are now aware of the dangers that pornography possesses and you will be held accountable. From now on, you know what is right and if you do not do what is right, you will be sinning.

2. The late and great Martin Luther King, Jr. once posed a powerful question to the clergymen of Alabama in his renowned letter, “Letter from a Birmingham Jail.” He asked, “So the question is not whether we will be extremists, but what kind of extremists we will be. Will we be extremists for hate or for love?” [King Jr., Martin Luther] I implore everyone to examine the motives and intentions of each and every choice and decision you make. I choose to live an extreme life of love (not lust), and I urge others to do the same.

In conclusion, sex matters.